My ex does not want to have anything to do with me what do i do?

Question

my boyfriend wants to get his onw apartment and does not want to have anything to do with me anymore. Im hurt but at teh same time Im ready for the big move in my life. How do I move on? What should I do?

Answer 1

When you have to get over it, a lot of times it feels impossible. You go to google, you search for broken heart quotes, hoping that will make it better. Most of them only increase your emotional suffering. I had to write my own in order to claw my way out of the pain. I'll put my heartbreak quotes in bold so they'll stand out. You try this approach on. You'll see, the following suggestions, when taken, work within two weeks to greatly reduce your suffering:

Realize that part of what hurts is not reality. It's the pain of losing the picture you've kept creating in your own mind of how wonderful things would be if he/she'd just get over that other woman/man, be ready for commitment, get a job, quit the bottle, or whatever.

All of us find certain types of people, certain behaviors, and certain looks repulsive. Each of us has our own, personal list. Put yours down on paper. Then, every time you miss him/her, and every time you go to the bathroom... picture the one you miss so terribly and whom you've already figured out isn't coming back with a row of festering zits all around their __________ (insert their feature you love best here). Picture them with a greasy, sleazy personality, hawking lugies at your mother's church. Picture it in full color, include sound, odors, details. You own your brain. It believes whatever pictures you create regularly. Create pictures that help you get over rather than pictures that prevent getting over.

Answer 2

Cut off ANY and ALL contact with the man.. move on to the bigger and better things in life! It sounds like you are ready, but scared... I've been in the same situation before.. it's scary to let go of the past.. but let go and embrace the future! you and this guy are NOT meant to be... Use this time to furnish and decorate your apartment to your taste... call up friends.. go out and stay out all night... dance around the apartment naked... turn your music on and celebrate... make it yours and life like a single woman.. if by some chance he comes back or you keep in contact.. it will kill him to see you doing GREAT!

Answer 3

Get over it..

Get your own place.

get in the hunt..

same as everyone else...