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Im 5'10, attractive, cool attitude and can't get a date with anyone remotely close to my height. Men who approach me are 5'5 and shorter. Honestly speaking what is it? Do men not really like tall women? I always get looks and/or hello's from all types of men but never any convo its starting to become discouraging. Please give me some insight.

2007-09-05 08:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Stand tall and straight and be proud. Be proud of who and what you are. Most importantly, don't slouch. That sends a negative message to people. Standing straight and proud sends a positive message. And do not, repeat, do not be worried about what other people think when you are with a short guy. Tell him it doesn't matter to you. Good things come in all sizes. A lot of women would kill to be as tall as you. Height can be very beautiful and sexy. And any guy that is bothered by your height is got issues and would not really be a good partner.

Concentrate on being friends with guys that don't have issues with your height. The rest will follow.

2007-09-05 08:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

I'm 5.6" tall and my short stature had always been an impediment for achieving poise and self-confidence. It was about two years ago that I met my wife and we almost instantly made connection. She is about half an inch shorter than me but I would always feel a little insecure whenever she wore sandals. This would make her look much taller than myself. Not that anything wrong with that but society collectively feeds us with some stereotypes and a guy shorter than a woman would always raise eyebrows. My wife (who back then was my girlfriend) was conscious of myself being a little uneasy. She started coaching me on improving my dress coordination and also suggested that I should try wearing those Walktall shoes. Doing a little research myself I gathered some info on stretching exercises. Although it’s true that exercises will not make you grow taller but it definitely helped me improve my posture. We certainly have more height hidden behind our slouched back and shabby dressing than we ever realize. There are some very basic stretching exercises and vertical fashion techniques that together can make a noticeable improvement in one’s height. And lastly it’s all a matter of perception. It all boils down to how we perceive ourselves. A better height can add to our confidence, but again, it’s our mind that perhaps makes us insecure. Some short dudes possess endless energy that makes their presence much taller than their height. You can follow the link below to get more info on posture exercises and some basic visual height enhancement techniques:
http://www.walktallshoes.com/grow-taller.html

Good luck

2007-09-05 15:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am not a guy, but have some undefinable experience in this field. Some of the conclusions:
a short height woman with a humpback, though not very big, with sunken not even visible breasts is happily married to a men who is about 195 cm high, +she has given a birth to 2 children from him.
(the source of such a knowledge is my observation in the neighbourhood). My greatest wish is to ask that man what is his attitude to tall attractive girls/women?He is quite handsome, that's why any tall woman will be happy to have such a husband. But he made a very interesting choice, that seems stupid to me.

2007-09-05 08:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Like 2 · 0 0

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