he's had loads of gf, he never really talks to me, not interested to meet up, all he wants is sex and if im on msn he doesnt wanna talk what can i say to him i want this boy bad!
2007-09-05 08:03:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the others, you are way too young for all this. Wait a few years... You'll get over it. What is so attractive about this kid anyway?
2007-09-05 08:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow-----you are both too young for real love----no way you even know it yet. All he wants is sex, and that what he would ask of you, don't waste your time and morals for this selfish immature guy.
I have a lot of experience, I have raised 2 girls and have 2 teenage boys and a grand kid on they way by the 15 yrs old. I am not ready to be a great grandma yet. That is wanting sex.
We all had these crushes in high school, but we got over them, forget it and move on the a more repectable guy, that has morals and a real life, looks aren't everything. There wqill be more crushes and real boyfriends before it is over.
2007-09-05 08:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex? .. holy moly.. what has this world come to.
jk. i personally do not think age is a matter at all and I truly believe you can fall in love at any age. probably just not ... TOO young.
BUT... obviously in your case ... you're in an unbalanced relationship. It's very one sided and ... sex? you probably don't love him just lust. You probably don't even lust for him actually.. have you ever thought maybe you want him because all the other girls at school want him? It kinda works that way. Just like Johnny Depp... JEE if i really think SUPER HARD .. he's not really attractive. I probably just thinks he's good looking cause all the other girls went for him after Pirates of the Carribean.
I can just imagine how beautiful you are. Just because you gave him all of you doesnt mean you have to continue to do so. You can not make someone love you.. BUTTTTT you can make yourself lovable. By this i mean investing in yourself.. not .. GO OUT AND HAVE MORE SEX with him. This has nothing to do with any one else in this world. I PROMISE YOU. once you learn to LOVE YOURSELF... you'll have guys SWARMING all over you it's not even funny. And by that time, I'm sure you'll respect yourself enough not to just give yourself to anybody. put yourself above them, and in this case obove him. You're too good for him and I can already tell. Maybe he'll change, later on in his life.. but as for now.. you need to step away and show him that you will no longer take his bullshit. anyways, i can go on and on as well as all the other people who've answered ur question but it's really all up to you. i just have to say, you are so much better than that.
2007-09-05 08:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by swtnsoursauce1o9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be having sex---and all he wants is sex and only 14? Wow---you need to enjoy being young and not load yourself with all these problems. If he does not want to talk? He has someone else, you dont need him ---find some other interests other than this boy.
2007-09-05 08:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlfriend. You sound like you a chick that loves hard. And there's no age limit to that. But truth be told, no matter what you may be feeling, you cant MAKE someone feel anything about you. I'm not one to promote "teen sex" because my stepson is almost the same age, but I will tell him the same because teens are having sex. Do you, but protect yourself. People learn by making mistakes, just avoid a mistake thats going to cost you your life. Keep it moving girl, seriously. Its not hard, find something you like to do. Stop thinking about him if he's not thinking about you.
2007-09-05 08:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't look back. Have more respect for yourself that you are showing here.
Instead of focusing on him, develop your own interests and your own talents. You are throwing your life away.
Apparently you're daddy didn't give you enough love, and I'm sorry. If he's still around and a good man, try to get more attention from him. Otherwise, find adult mentors who care about you developing yourself.
2007-09-05 08:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your so young and have no idea what love is all about. Most older girls will tell you the higher you keep your standards the better type of guy you will attract and the easier you life will be.
Forget about him why do you want a guy who just wants you for sex.
2007-09-05 08:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not say you love him
Break up with him. Boys at that age is only interested in sex and the hormones are up. The only age when boys seem to mean when they love someone in 17-21.
Obviously he doesn't love you back and if he says he does its not true.
Do not end up being the hurt the most when you both break up.
Please for your own sake break up with him or just be cautious.
2007-09-05 08:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone love you and it sounds like he doesn't respect you and is only interested in getting sex from you. Since he doesn't seem to care, I would save your heart from being broken again and forget about him. Find someone who loves, respect and doesn't take advantage of your feelings.
2007-09-05 08:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cricket 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what, im not even going to answer your question, im so sick of all the teenagers on here talking as if there adults, at your age i would be surprised if you knew what love is and as for having sex, i would have thought that the average 14 year old would know that's a stupid thing to do at your age!!!!!!
oh, and go learn how to spell!!
2007-09-05 08:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋