Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

2007-09-05 06:24:36 · 18 answers · asked by lovemonkeymoney 1 in Singles & Dating

im engaged and heard so many times that i shouldn't so it because everything changes after you say i do.....
true? and what kinds of things change?

2nd - my fiancee is really irresponsible and still in his selfish phase... he's not patient and wants everything now..... including cars / bikes / etc.... i try to get him to see that if he can save money that it'll be better for him in the future...
he thinks im trying to control him, but im just trying to give him some helpful advice.... his defensiveness makes it ALMOST impossible to get him to heed advice from the people that care for him the most.
He's 23 years old... will he grow out of this? or do you think that its a personality trait that cannot be changed?.... i don't want to have to deal with this immaturity for the rest of my life...

2007-09-05 06:20:15 · 57 answers · asked by russiansgirl5 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 06:20:01 · 24 answers · asked by boohoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like have you mostly dated dark skin, brown skin, light skin or white skin females/males?

2007-09-05 06:19:16 · 17 answers · asked by supaxkawaii 1 in Singles & Dating

Her father has physical custody and refuses to let her live w/me. Can she move in with me when she turns 17 without any one getting into trouble with the law?

2007-09-05 06:17:49 · 4 answers · asked by raye 1 in Family

Should I let my babies father be in the room when I i am giving birth we fight all the time we are not togther we are just friends. my mom said that if he is there in the room she was going to leve. she dose not like him becuse some times he says not so nice things to me.I want both of them to be there what should I do?

2007-09-05 06:17:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-05 06:15:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A friend of mine got pregnant to a guy she was only seeing for 6 months, they originally met in Jamaica.

She gets pregnant, he emmigrates to Canada she comes to England.

The father only met his sone of 20 months only last week. He was not with my friend during her pregnancy.

Now she has announced that she is getting married to him, she has never lived with him.

I asked her if she knows what he is like in an arguement. She said she has no idea what he is like!

What do you think of this?

2007-09-05 06:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. My cousin got married in Las Vegas last week and me and my family couldn't afford to go. Anyway, is a $100 gift card from Olive Garden and 2 of our homemade jams good gifts to give her and her new hubby? She lives in Virginia so I know the jam wouldn't melt.

2007-09-05 06:11:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i love my boyfriend to death and i would do anything for him, but my family does not like him because he made some mistakes in the past and they dont want me to see him. what can i do to change the situation? should i sneak around and see him?should i let him go and see what happens?should i do what makes me happy not thinking about what mt family thinks about him?

2007-09-05 06:10:17 · 35 answers · asked by LMN 1 in Singles & Dating

Sex problem!!!! I only had sex 5 times today in the morning was my 5th time!!! I don't stay hard for a long time!!! I don't know what the problem is? I only have an erection for about 10-15 minutes and my girlfriend didn't say it's ok! She said it was like whatever!!! Yeah,,, it really hurt my feelings!!!

2007-09-05 06:09:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my partner split about 6 months ago, i have 4 children and the youngest is from this relationship. the problem is when ever we get over the screaming stage we end up in the bed again. we broke up due to him having a cocain addiction and telling me far too many lies. but i think i may still love him .ive dated other guys since we split but none seem to make me wanna see them again ive really treid to get on with my life but im getting more and more depressed about the situation im in please help me

2007-09-05 06:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by heysybaby 1 in Family

Do the all know's about this......

2007-09-05 06:06:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 06:06:06 · 39 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw them in a magazine and cant remember the company to look them up. It is aband that opens and displays a personal message or names. Anyone know a company that makes these?

2007-09-05 06:04:37 · 4 answers · asked by misty b 2 in Weddings

Or are they scared of what might be said by their families and friends and neighbours if they start dating white guys???

i am attracted to all kinds of women... so have no problems with skin colour...

2007-09-05 06:02:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

no details just question

2007-09-05 05:59:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you regular have sex with the same person, But then have a night with someone else...Will the regular be able to notice a difference "down there"....

2007-09-05 05:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love the man I'm with, so why can't I stop thinking about this other man? I'm still faithfull, but I've had to stop talking to this other person, in fear I won't be.. what do I do???

2007-09-05 05:59:10 · 3 answers · asked by nugbug456 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 05:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my son is 17 years old he has had type 1 diabeties since he was 13 he always wanted to go in to some sort of armed services can he still serve

2007-09-05 05:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by silkey 1 in Family

2007-09-05 05:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married and just been thinking who do i actully have to buy gifts for?

2007-09-05 05:55:32 · 10 answers · asked by jenni04 1 in Weddings

2 years ago i met the man of my dreams, my father hates him and forbides me see him, we are engaged but father doesn't seem to understand that i'm an adult, my finace' is a decent man, no drugs, no kids, no abuse in our relationship, what I think is due to the controlling issue with my father he wants to keep me under lock and key forever, mind you I have a 13 year old daughter from a previous relationship? any advice?

2007-09-05 05:51:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ge Ge 2 in Family

2007-09-05 05:50:15 · 23 answers · asked by hannymma kid 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out (although I had a strong idea) that my wife of many years had an affair with her boss in the months leading up to our wedding. Finally, many years later she admitted to it and said it was just a crazy thing and she had full intentions of breakingit off and marrying me. We have kids now and for most part a pretty decent marriage. However, with this out in open she is relived but I really have morequestions. She was with the boss at least 10 times.

I just want to get to point where I stop thinking about it and can move on. I had thought about ending the marriage but with the kids and my wifes strong desire to keep it going I am kind of stuck. I just would like some advice on mentally moving ahead from anyone who may have had similar experience.

2007-09-05 05:49:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this guy friend that i have been best friends w/ for 9 yrs now. We have been on and off talkin to eachother bc we have had distance and stuff. well, everytime we meet back up and start talkin its like we never stopped talkin. We just pick right back up where we left off which is good. We tried the datin thing in highschool but it was kind of wierd so we just stuck w/ friends. Well, 3 weeks ago i got my old phone line back up and he called that night. its like it was perfect timin. well, we started datin and nothin felt wierd at all. We were both happy. He gave no signs of nething bad. He is perfect. Last time we hung out it was great. He said that we were going to hang out the next day so i txted him like usual and got nothing. i tried talking to him the next day and nothing again. so, it's been about a week of not talking. I stopped trying b/c maybe he needed some space. well, now he hasn't talked to me or come over at all. ne1 know what could be up w/ him? i hate for us to end

2007-09-05 05:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Heather B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 05:40:45 · 31 answers · asked by south of france 4 in Singles & Dating

well im bisexual and my friend is bisexual but HER friend is well i dont know.
they both walked past me twice and this friend of hers like looked at me through her hair and smiled at me twice!!! she was shy but she really smiled at me like she liked me-naughtily!!she said to my mate i was 'pretty'...dont even know her!

2007-09-05 05:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

when im around my family im opened up...but when im around other people i dont know what to say even around people ive known my whole life ....i dont know how to open up and talk.... or i dont know what to say. have any suggessions how to help me???

2007-09-05 05:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating