2007-09-05 06:20:01 · 24 answers · asked by boohoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't give her a reason to harrass. Don't feed into it! Make sure that you make the optimal situation for their children! Don't bad talk eachother! Don't let on that you don't like her! She must have been a good person at some point cause he chose to make babies. So find the good and stop fighting eachother!
2007-09-05 06:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Songsdeli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a recorder/answering machine. He can change his cell #, and he should. She does not need the cell #. if the kids are bleeding she can call another doctor. He can check the home phone remotely periodically if he gets the right kind of messege machine. Record all converstations and while recording tell her that she is being recorded, and that she needs to understand this because he is using it as legal evidence, so he has to imform her of it on the tape before she says anything. Just telling her this might stop her antics. He also can have his lawyer help him draft a letter that is proof that he informed her of this and send it certified with signature required. I did all of this with my ex husband. He stopped his crap toot sweet. (Really fast). I recorded him for 2 years. 8 more have past and my daughter is over 18. I have not had to record him for years but he still thinks I do. LOL!
2007-09-05 07:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show the text messages to the police and the recorded phone calls...should be enough for harassment charges. I don't think changing the phone number and blocking her calls are the answer being that you share children. If there were no children involved...I would have suggested changing the number.
2007-09-05 06:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He can block his phone from accepting her number and put her on his blocked list for the computer also. But he will lose contact with the children also. He needs to take the phone and text records to the police and see what can be done. He should also talk to a lawyer about a change in the custody orders to him having primary custody due to her being emotionally unsuitable or unstable.
2007-09-05 06:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...OK this is my advice to you. every time she sends them and if you are sure it is her. dont call the police or even try to harass her in return. send her some flowers or a fruit basket. the best way to kill hatred is with kindness. she is obviously very jealous of your relationship with him, she is only trying to get on your nerves and make you angry so that you can think that he comes with too much drama... and the best way to make her even more jealous is to show her that you two can handle anything together and that she isn't doing anything but bringing you two closer together. make sure when you send the gift to put both you and your husband's first and last name on it. that way you are letting her know that you are there to stay and that you are not going anywhere no matter what.
good luck!! although i am very sure that it'll work.
2007-09-05 06:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Faye 2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing he can do considering she has to have his phone number because of the kids. He needs to not let her know she is aggravating him because its probably what keeps her going. Tell him to not acknowledge the harrassment and I bet she will stop.
2007-09-05 06:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband can probably block her out of his phone....
as for the harassing phone calls? he needs to tell her that he is willing to discuss matters with her regarding their children, but otherwise she needs to stop calling. he can be nice about it... which might help.
if she continues, he can let her know he is going to talk with the police dept about alternative measures....
2007-09-05 06:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
change the phone to an unlisted number and get a new cell
and get the called id manager from privacy corps, works great
2007-09-05 06:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if you call the Wireless Provider you can pay to have numbers blocked... that's a really bad situation... hope you can get it sorted out! I would call the cops if it doesnt stop
2007-09-05 06:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get the police involved
2007-09-05 06:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋