Sex problem!!!! I only had sex 5 times today in the morning was my 5th time!!! I don't stay hard for a long time!!! I don't know what the problem is? I only have an erection for about 10-15 minutes and my girlfriend didn't say it's ok! She said it was like whatever!!! Yeah,,, it really hurt my feelings!!!
2007-09-05 06:09:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-05 06:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe how misinformed some of the ladies that are answering your question are. Your penis doesn't change in size every time you do it. Whether or not the girl is sexy doesn't matter either.
The fact that you are erect for 15 minutes is normal. If your girl isn't impressed with your performance you need to be doing more for her before the actual sex act. Try foreplay for an extended period. You know touching, feeling, kissing, rubbing, massage etc.
You can give her an orgasm through foreplay and then she will please you in the end and you will find that the time you spent helping her to get off was well worth it. She will get very wet and horny and will appreciate everything you have done.
Also experiment with her being on top some times that helps you relax so that you can maintain an erection for a longer period of time.
Good luck with her...you will do fine...
2007-09-05 06:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to disagree wiht the first answer. I'f I'm having sex that many times in one day, I go longer every time. Usually 20 minutes the first time, and maybe 90 minutes by the fith time. You need to practice self control. If that doesn't work, go to GNC and get horny goat weed, It'll keep you hard for 2-3 hours, but after a while your penis goes numb, but she'll love it if she's a freak. It only costs $10-$20 by the way.
2007-09-05 06:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by TXboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see the doctor/sex therapist. Slow the hell down. You killing yourself. Sex 5x in the morning. Oh my God. I thinking you concentrate on the quantity not the quality. Your feeling need to be hurt. She commuicate to you. She wasn't happy. What happen if it the other way around.Both of you need to discuss what each other want after you have seen the doc. to rule out any physial problem. There book, internet, videos, that discuss sexual problems, communication. How can you stay hard long. Your penis need a break. It probably want to jump & run away from your body. It need oxygen & blood. The supply is running low.
2007-09-05 06:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a boy but i can tell you that its ok. This is normal. Sex is like a fine wine. It takes time to mature. The more you have sex the more you will learn to control it and enjoy it.
Speak to your girlfriend about things and how you feel. This is the most important thing. Together you can bring this to higer levels. Enjoy the practise because you will be looking back on this day... You need to be comfortable and break down any barriers and worries you have. The more relaxed you are the better it will be but unless you talk to your girlfriend you will always be a bit worried.
2007-09-05 06:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a cock ring, and even if that helps some talk to your doctor about the fact that you can't keep it up for very long. It's could very possibly be a medical problem.
As far as your gf not being satisfied, you both need to figure out what will satisfy her.
2007-09-05 06:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you using a condom?
I lose feeling and then the erection after about 10-15 mins too.
if you are using one, go get some tests done and have her get on the pill so you can actually have some sensation for your pecker. THen if your lucky like me, you can hold your erection for hours.
2007-09-05 06:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to lower your sex drive is to become interested in something else. Exercise is a good diversion. You can take up a hobby or volunteer somewhere. Just your attention to other things may spark his interest.
2016-04-03 04:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky dog! I went home the other day and my gf ripped off her clothes and said to make passionate love to her right there and now on the kitchen floor. So I did. Then I asked her what had had brought that on; she said the egg timer was broken.
2007-09-05 06:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex 5 times a day is too much!!
Slow down.
May be once a day is more than enough.
2007-09-05 06:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting erected for too many times a day will decrease the length each time
2007-09-05 06:12:35 · answer #11 · answered by Slimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋