Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

Its my son ... he keeps on crying about the past when he was around 14 or 15 he fulled in love with this girl called loran and she asked him out but he didn't know she was just making fun out of him he really loved her with all his heart. anyway she one time touch him at school by going behide him and she push her bottom part up his backside and push her breast into his back and he said he could feel her nippers was hard anyway he turn to have hard on and then next min you know it come out and she didn't ask him if he wanted sex she just got onto him . anyway she got this other boy and for 2 full years everday she used to stand outside of our house french kissing him while my son was just cross road cause you see there was traffic lights right outside our house where people cross and my son had to face them doing it anyway everthing went to court and my son won and now 7 years later my son and loran saw each other and both of them was just standing looking at each other and I think it

2007-09-05 01:48:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My own house, boyfriend moves in, been together for six years works he works hard on house, then son moves in, then dog appears, drinks like a fish, takes me out when he has finished drinking with mates, I only seem to fit into things when it suits, nothing goes on in bedroom dept. am I being used? If I try to talk about things then I am accused of being mardy. I am 47 years old and dont wont to live round a drunk, I cook, clean, etc. and hes well looked after, but its not enough. Am I wasting my time or should I keep trying?

2007-09-05 01:48:37 · 29 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I were married for a short while before he was sent off to prison for 4 years. Now he has been out for a few weeks. He is adapting pretty good, he has already found a job and wants to do better this time.
My problem is that as his wife, I know he is having some psychological issues, but I dont know how to deal with him. How can I help to "re-build" his self esteem without hurting his feelings or insulting his manhood.
Can someone please tell me how to deal with this, I am becoming very stressed, because I feel that I need to be there for him.

2007-09-05 01:47:19 · 19 answers · asked by Peanut2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im17 and my names justin i just want a reliable girlfriend who is nice,cute,and ambitious please help me.

2007-09-05 01:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by Justin B 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 5 children aged 14,13,9,9 and 2

2007-09-05 01:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by DEBBIE D 3 in Family

7yrs. The thing is I don't really like his parents, his dad is ok but his mum she is two faced, she talks about me behind my back (even in my own house) then is nice to me the next as though i don't know. The thing is when we first got engaged we were constantly being asked when we going to have kids etc and now his sister has a baby to some lad she hasn't know two minutes (lucky it has worked out ok) anyway his parents are all for his sister and it winds me up how different they treat him to his sister she comes first he comes second, they visit her every week and us once a month if we r lucky. Anyway its his sisters 21st this month and my partner has decided that he isn't going because since his sister got with this bloke she doesn't bother with him unless she wants something (he has finally seen it!). I can guarantee they will think i have told him not to go, how can I handle this without me losing it and telling them exactly what i think about them...

2007-09-05 01:41:10 · 17 answers · asked by Trix01 1 in Family

I dont want to go to school so what tricks will convince my parents not to send me to school

2007-09-05 01:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend recently got married after she found out she was expecting their first child! Her now husband is filthy rich, its been 9 months after the couple big church wedding! and I cant seem to find their state marriage licenses on file! She would never admit to me! but is it possible to have a church wedding ceremony infront of a priest, and never file for a marriage licenses in the state??? I guess they are married infront of God, not infront of the Government! they are married, but maybe not legally???. . . Maybe it was his way of having a wife in the public eye, but keeping his money!

2007-09-05 01:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

True love has power to reclaim the lost Dreammate

Simply

YES Or NO

2007-09-05 01:36:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday My friend kissed my pe teacher.... well she get in trouble if they find out

2007-09-05 01:35:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

girl told me last night she wanted to sautee my onions. What did she mean? keep it clean.

2007-09-05 01:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by Market Magician 3 in Singles & Dating

This weekend was my aunt’s party! It was all top notch.. Bar men, waiters- n' all that! So being as it was a special occasion, I had a few drinks - nothing wrong with that right??

I had stuff like Bacardi & Coke, Screwdriver, Baileys, Mailbu etc. I probably had about 6 drinks! I wasn’t drunk, but I was a bit happy lol.. i actually chose to be, coz the party was getting boring and it needed some excitement!

The next day my 28 yr old cousin was telling my aunt and uncle at work about "how drunk I was and cant be trusted" and " how he was going to tell my dad" I actually spoke to my dad that night telling him that id had a few drinks, so he trusted me - the thing is, I don’t want to get a bad rep. My cousins been telling everyone.. I find this totally un fair – What should I do??

PS. Im 15 and only have drinks on special occasions – I hardly ever go out..

2007-09-05 01:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

As a teenager living in your house, but has since stopped.

2007-09-05 01:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by skunk pie 5 in Family

2007-09-05 01:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just curios.I'm gonna try it if no one answers my question right.
Oh,and who want ME to pick best answer or THE VOTERS to?
Please answer BOTH of my questions.

2007-09-05 01:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

see heres the problem i really like this girl and i been told she likes me so i asked her out but she said she wants to be mates does this mean to give up with this girl

2007-09-05 00:45:40 · 6 answers · asked by Roulston 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it looks or personality?

2007-09-05 00:40:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 00:39:45 · 3 answers · asked by carol k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i went out with my ex girlfriend for like 4 years she was my everything in my life and didnt work out..we both were immature but i was more....i was trying to get back with her for 2 years and she always rejected me...she has a boyfriend shes been going out for 1 year..she told me she loved him but is starting to lose love for him..i told her whats up with me and her and she told me she dont really see us together....but she told me she wants to be my buddy with benefits....i know this is like everymans dream to have a beautiful girl just there for your pleasure but for some reason im not happy with this i see her like my wife and it hurts me to use her in this way....what should i do???should i be happy or sad???

2007-09-05 00:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family

me and my friend were suppost to go to the lake. so anyway, we had planned to go to the lake for about 1 week in advance. the night before i call her and tell her i can go at 12 b/c i have to work on a paper before. she wanted to go at like 10. but my mom wouldnt let me go unless i worked on the paper. so then i get a call the day of when we are suppost to go to the lake and it is my friend telling me she is sick. I believe it because she hardly ever lies to me. then my other friend finds out that she went with this one girl that she tells everyone she doesnt like and then goes and hangsout with her. my friend even admits to going to the lake with the other girl on the phone. my other friend called her and we did a 3-way but i was on mute. i heard from my friend's mouth say she ditched me for the other girl that she apparently hates. i know she doenst hate her. and i am just so pissed right now. this makes her a backstabber right? and what can i do? i was thinking of just ignoring her.

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9 hours ago
i cant tell her that i know cause i promised my other friend i wouldnt say anything (she was my friend that told me and helped with the 3-way) and by the way we are all sophomores.

2007-09-05 00:32:21 · 5 answers · asked by ♥i'm her♥ 3 in Friends

Even we had sex during morost fertile days...

2007-09-05 00:32:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 00:32:03 · 37 answers · asked by gajjet87 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have written before about my wife of thirty years, who abruptly threw me out, although very, very calmly. It had something to do with extreme delays in my *!!* doctoral thesis (now a shambles). I am surrounded by couples breaking up at about the same stage in life: after twenty or thirty years, the wife calmly announces (among the standard lines that came up in EVERY case I know) that

a) she wants to do something else with her life (something, hum, creative);
b) he decision has nothing to do with him (he must not feel so important...), it all proceeds from a deep evolutionary change inside her.

I am devastated. It has been nine months now, and she NEVER calls, and has forbidden me to discuss reconciliation.

One fellow tells me that 'they' (the jilting wives) usually come back after a while (his took two or three years; he refused her). I am at the end of my rope.

Does anyone out there know of just one example of a marriage that healed after the wife had broken it up in this way?

2007-09-05 00:31:10 · 12 answers · asked by hindisikhnewaalaa 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a break from my boyfriend as he kept being unreliable, and not sticking to arrangements and forgetting he had made them,i warned him not to keep doin it but he did so i said i wanted to go on a break,i cut off contact from him,he was gutted,after a few days i went 2 meet him as he sounded in a bad way,he had been crying,not goin 2 work, constantly trying to get hold of me etc.we didnt talk about the argument as i didnot want to have another argument and he just wanted things back to normal, so we were very civil, so i think he thinks we are back together, since then he has not bothered to contact me, which is really annoying as he was so upset when he thought it was gonna b over, and wouldnt stop calling me, but now he thinks that we are ok he has not bothered to make any effort. surely he should be trying to meet me again and make it up 2 me? am i over reacting? it feels like he thinks he has got away with it, and will probably do it again cos i have taken him back,advice please

2007-09-05 00:28:38 · 14 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and My Ex broke up two weeks ago and she's been sending me emails here and there saying things like "Tell your friends to stop bothering me". Well, my friends don't have her email address or her telephone number and she lives 5 hours away. Shes saying her webtv is now tapped that the Police have tapped it and will find out who's sending her these emails, lol. I said OK dear, lol. Well yesterday she kept emailing me about it and then said "I was told not to talk about it so I won't say anymore, lol". I told her goodnight and said sweet dreams and she didn't respond. Should I email her a good morning today? OR should I just let her be and see if she emails me? She's an older woman so she gets in weird moods sometimes. Yes, we did break up, her doing and she told me not to contact her. However she's contacting me with these mysterious emails. What should I do?

2007-09-05 00:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

If you ask out one of your friends and get rejected, would you feel awkward being friends with her like normally? What could you do to help with this?

2007-09-05 00:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My litlle cousin he is three my baby daughter is 10 months he was playing with his toys at his house and she wanted to play with a couple of toys he wasn't using.He was pissed and said "NO"!Then he came over and started playing with her toys.I asked him if my daughter could play with his toys at his house if this was the case,He said no.Is it wrong for me tonot let him play with her toys?

2007-09-05 00:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im not shy or anything, i just lack that "sweetness". I have to be more sweet. Any advice?

2007-09-05 00:21:49 · 12 answers · asked by home_buddy15 2 in Singles & Dating

but both of us loves each other, but for him to open up and tell me he will marry me is a problem, i have ask him so many times but he did not say any thing pls help me am in pens.

2007-09-05 00:19:44 · 3 answers · asked by sweetg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 00:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce