Its my son ... he keeps on crying about the past when he was around 14 or 15 he fulled in love with this girl called loran and she asked him out but he didn't know she was just making fun out of him he really loved her with all his heart. anyway she one time touch him at school by going behide him and she push her bottom part up his backside and push her breast into his back and he said he could feel her nippers was hard anyway he turn to have hard on and then next min you know it come out and she didn't ask him if he wanted sex she just got onto him . anyway she got this other boy and for 2 full years everday she used to stand outside of our house french kissing him while my son was just cross road cause you see there was traffic lights right outside our house where people cross and my son had to face them doing it anyway everthing went to court and my son won and now 7 years later my son and loran saw each other and both of them was just standing looking at each other and I think it
2007-09-05 01:48:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he still got feelings for her cause evernight I keep hearing him saying I love you Loran and he keep hearing him cry at night what should I do.. and when hes not talking much and I look at him he really looks upset and look like he keep thinking what should I do
2007-09-05 01:49:48 · update #1
a trip to a brothel !
2007-09-05 01:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Splishy 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Where do you live and what are you talking about? This makes no sense. And especially this part: " everything went to court and my son won" What did they go to court over? You can't sue someone (at least not in the US) for French kissing another guy in front of you. Revise the question to make the information clearer to the reader.
EDITED TO ADD THIS:
I just looked at your questions and it certainly appears that you do need help, because it would seem that you’re suffering from multiple personalities. In this question you claim to be the mother, in other questions you claimed to be the son, and in other questions you were the girl who did this to the son. Here’s a suggestion—try telling the truth—who are you (and you can’t be all three of these people) and what ACTUALLY happened? If you tell the truth, you might get some helpful advice. If you can’t do that, then stop wasting people’s time.
2007-09-05 01:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is sad! Not because Loran doesn't return your son's affections but because your son can not see Loran for who she really is. Your son needs to come to grips with reality. Loran is a manipulator who enjoys toying with your son. She is evil hearted and immature. Even if they were to have a relationship it would not be a happy one for your son. He must begin the see Loran in a different light. He must see her as the unattractive, selfish, ugly person she really is. Anyone unlucky enough to partner up with Loran will be sorry for sure. Good luck.
2007-09-05 02:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that girl,isn't very nice, but to your son in all fairness i am not suprised that he is crying every night, to see a girl that you loved kissing another person right in front of you can't stop thinking that it could of been you, and it will have hurt him so bad, in his heart,
If i was you then i would tell him to move on slowly, i know that it will be hard, but it will be the only way, i don't think confronting her will be best as it may bring back things and it may not be pretty, but i hope to all heavens that he gets over this and moves on or it may interfer in his whole life.. Good Luck!
2007-09-05 04:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I couldn't completely understand everything that was said, it does sound like your son needs to talk to someone, a psychologist, counselor or even a priest/pastor about this. He sounds as though he is obsessed with this girl and that is not only a problem for him now, but it could cause huge problems in the future
2007-09-05 01:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about yourself? If it's possible, counseling would be good. Or else, maybe "your son" could write about everything that happened and how he feels, as kind of a catharsis. He needs to move on, however hard it may be. Maybe he has too much time on his hands? He should try getting involved with something to keep his mind off her, and maybe even meet someone new.
2007-09-05 02:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your situation twice did your son go to court for being abused sexually by this girl? if so he obviously needs counselling after the ordeal and having to go through the courts, but if that's the case why is your son hanging around someone that abused him? have you sat down and actually talked it through ask him how he feels! your son is 21-22 now and really should have a mind of his own my advice is, it's your son's life and he's the one that's gotta live it.
2007-09-05 04:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your son should go out with his friends and keep himself busy.. if he doesn't start to soialise he will not meet different people.. and all he will keep doing is thinking of this girl.. he needs to know there are lovely girls out there and whol will like him, and will respect him, this girl he says he is in love with she is not nice person.. As a mother to a mother you really need to get your son out socialising alot more. He willl get over her, when he meets someone who is the opposite of Loren.. Good luck
2007-09-05 01:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect here, but your son needs to see a therapist or a councellor.
He's not crazy or anything ... he was just motionally manipulated and tortured.
He needs to talk to someone who can help him get over this, so he can move on.
What that girl did destroyed his self-esteem/confidence etc.
Cheers
2007-09-05 02:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the snow caps r melting, we r losing trees on earth, there mayb b life else where in the vast expanse of space around earth and as i type this in they might b watching us..
urs is not a problem, its an aberation to rational thought flow.. ..ur son jus realised he missed the chance to get laid.. its a phase.. in the next few days u might hear moaning n gurgling voices instead of his cries... cheer up dude..
2007-09-05 05:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by tonal syndrome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the poor kid he needs some guidance on what to do he must still have feelings deep down for this girl but she broke his heart.
talk to him and find out what he is feeling then you can both work at it and get it sorted together
as the saying goes to heads are better then one
good luck
2007-09-05 02:48:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋