If you ask out one of your friends and get rejected, would you feel awkward being friends with her like normally? What could you do to help with this?
2007-09-05 00:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Noone will make you feel awkward without your consent. Besides rejection is not a bad thing. Its just a clear message that is not intended to hurt you in any way.
Be openminded and accept the fact. Be a sport. Disconnecting yourself is AWKWARD.
Dont ever show anyone you feel disappointed or rejected. Genuine losers do that.
Good luck. The world will not run out of the right girl for you.
2007-09-05 00:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation... deciding whether to do something about it or not really.. I would say, if you did ask them out, make sure that you tell them that you're really happy being their friend, because you'd rather have them as that then not at all.. but you can't help but feel more for them. If you do ask them, make sure that you let them know that if they don't feel the same way for you, you don't want to lose them as a friend.. .coz you think they are awesome. That should make it less awkward if you do get rejected.. hopefully not though!! All the best!! :)
2007-09-05 07:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course you'd feel awkard, but I always get back on the saddle and try again. I think even guy has a chance with and girl, its just presentation. If a girl likes money and is attracted to it, save up all of your money look nice with a nice cell and elite clothes and go and ask her out on a date. She wouldn't be able to refuse (that's just an example) but if you like her ask her out on another date, eventually if you present yourself wrong and she'll tell you off or she'll go out with you. Good Luck!!
2007-09-05 07:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by a.braynen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal yourself - least said soonest mended.
Oh and if she starts running round and making fun of you by telling all your other friends in common that you asked her out and she said NO, then shes not really much of a friend!
2007-09-05 07:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't because that's just asking her out. And by trying to ask her out, you should also accept being rejected. Yup, just act as if nothing happened.
2007-09-05 07:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by julosh9999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no me andmy best friend went out wth eachother but it didnt work between us we decided we had a better time when we was best friends and we dont act any different even thouh we hooked up
dont feel akward act like u never asked and dont ignore her or act weird otherwise she will feel really bad and i guarantee she's thinking about u aking her and is really happy u fancy her
xD gd luck
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2007-09-05 07:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is just that being friends, it does make you feel awkward, but i wouldn't let her see that it affected me.......and carry on as normal.............
2007-09-05 07:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like nothing ever happened and be the same as you were before.
2007-09-05 07:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋