ok i went out with my ex girlfriend for like 4 years she was my everything in my life and didnt work out..we both were immature but i was more....i was trying to get back with her for 2 years and she always rejected me...she has a boyfriend shes been going out for 1 year..she told me she loved him but is starting to lose love for him..i told her whats up with me and her and she told me she dont really see us together....but she told me she wants to be my buddy with benefits....i know this is like everymans dream to have a beautiful girl just there for your pleasure but for some reason im not happy with this i see her like my wife and it hurts me to use her in this way....what should i do???should i be happy or sad???
2007-09-05 00:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Find someone that will be happy to be with you, with the whole you not just buddy buddy friends and then sex!! its not about that, if you love her it wouldn't only be about sex, it would be about everything, if she doesn't want that then she isn't worth your time, find someone who will love you not as a buddy, as a lover, a true friend, someone you dosent always has to have sex with, someone who can show you intimacy instead!!
2007-09-05 01:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right. You will lose respect for yourself and her. If she is unhappy with her present boyfriend then she should either try and ix the problem or leave. Its unfair on her boyfriend and unfair on you. If she does not love you then it won't work in the long run. Stand up and respect yourself, you deserve better
2007-09-05 07:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by busy bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not using. She's asking. And if you go in without expectations, you'll be fine. If you are back in her bed, you may find your way back in to her heart. Just don't expect it. Let it happen, if it's going to. Treat her right, but don't smother her. That sounds like what may had been your mistake the first time around.
Good Luck :-)
2007-09-05 07:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue on with your relationship. She may be undecided as to what she wants. If it doesn't work out, then you can always move on. Just be very careful not to make any babies, as you will then have an unwanted responsibility.
2007-09-05 07:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id move on, will end eventually.. benefits wont last long. Shes trying to treat u like dirt.. up to you on whether she succeeds...
2007-09-05 07:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by RAIN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes you with benefits, what's wrong with u man?
keep away the idea to be ur wife and enjoy ur life.
2007-09-05 07:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by SiSco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit using her. find someone that you can be with exclusively. someone with whom you can spend the rest of your life. don't be a user of others, nor let others use you.
2007-09-05 07:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Larry V 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be happy ....Its what life is all about.....A married love is built on trust and time ... take your time ...Dreams do come true.........
2007-09-05 07:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone that wants you for you ... not someone that wants what they can get from you.... move on......
2007-09-05 07:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by belle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋