My husband and I are in the middle of a divorce. We have five children together and they are living full time with me in my parent's home.
Yesterday, I asked a question about an 'incident', concerning my soon-to-be ex, Cooper, and another girl. I ended up calling my lawyer and discussing my action plan, and after having a fight with Cooper, I called up my lawyer again.
He invited me to come up to his office to work a few things out for my case.
So I went over there, leaving my parents to babysit. But after about 3 hours of discussing the case, I don't know what came over us, but we started kissing, which turned to making out, which turned to crazy sex. We did it everywhere, on his desk, on the floor, even in his sink.
I think that I may actually love him, but I am afraid to show my face anywhere near him again. I haven't dated in 6 years, so help me out, please! How do I know if he feels the same way? What should I do about our relationship? How will I work out my divorce now?
2007-09-05 08:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The link below connects to the question concerning the 'incident' I mentioned above:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
please read it if you would like to have more information before you answer
2007-09-05 08:03:05 · update #1
May I also add that I have worked with this lawyer before (3 years ago) in the case of my next-door neighbor's abusive husband.
I just didn't want you all to think that we had only known each other for a few days:)
2007-09-05 08:03:35 · update #2
And yes, I know that I already asked this question...it's just that no one was responding and I wanted more advice!!
2007-09-05 08:04:20 · update #3
Oh yeah, I forgot to add that he is widowed and has an 8 year old daughter...didn't want you all to think that I had sex with a married man...
2007-09-05 08:05:39 · update #4
Getting thru all the bs, it would seem you guys share a..... compainship like relationship, he too has been thru the pain of divorce. I've never been divorced, but I can definely tell theres a certain..... partnership between people who have... so I wouldn't be suprise if you guys have simply been neglecting yourselves for SO FING LONG, with bad relationships and there you two are, with each other, and BAMB!!! I know, I've been there, she was married, I digress. Something quite powerful happens when you (for the frist time sometimes) get to have a HONEST conversation with someone who is HONEST back, man that can make mother teresa hot with lust and anticipation!!! I know again, I've been there, something so pure, so right, when you get to conversate and actually geniunly feel loved, and get to feel it back. I wouldn't be suprised if thats what happen, because anything short of that was just you guys being horney, vindictive, teenage what-to-be's. But you know the truth deep down inside, you talked with him, you related with him, he talked back, he related back, you guys have been honest with each other, this stuff happens such is the nature of love!!!!!! and the power of relating. Ether way thou DON'T YOU DARE GET ALL HEADS OVER HEELS HE IS THE ONE FOR ME BS! NO NO NO NO NO!!! FAIR WARNING!!!!!!
Because hunnie it was love, but just like what you've just went thru, you have to understand LOVE doesn't mean you get a happy ending? Get? SO be smart, be honest with him, and just keep talking.... who knows what well happen, but this happens naturaly between friends, ESPACIALLY in the situations you both were end! So don't feel bad, feel glad that you can still love and be loved, that bastard HASN'T won!!!! CONGRULATIONS! Now enjoy love without strings attached! Just realize this is kind of a natural thing... hehe, feel bad for those who havn't been able to be with someone they could call a friend.... and a lover....
2007-09-05 08:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...Don't tell anyone it will make the divorce worse if it comes out.You are already ending your marriage and he isnt attached.Ethically your lawyer was in the wrong and knew your current state of mind and shouldnt have acted on it.Don't tell him you love him or do a repeat.I wouldnt even bring it up or try to talk about it now.You should suck it up and try to keep contact over the phone and get the marriage over as quick as possible.Dont try to jump into a relationship with him even if its mutual.You will look like the marriage ending is your fault and he could lose his career.It was probably a rebound.After the divorce take it slow and dont rush into another relationship its not good for anyone especially your/his kids.
2007-09-05 16:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that was a crazy thing to do, but i wonder if now you are regreting about it, you said you might love him, but the question is, does he love you too.....??
It looks like a movie your lawyer turns to be your lover.....
I just think you have to be careful with this, cause it can affect your case, just wait until the divorce is over and let's see what happen then....
Good luck!!! and don't feel bad about yourself, you are human, and you had a great moment that's it
2007-09-05 15:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Piccola22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA!!! YOU REALLY MESSED THINGS UP FOR YOURSELF!!!! MAYBE NEXT TIME YOU SHOULD USE SOME ******* COMMON SENSE BEFORE YOU GET YOUR GODDAMN PUSSY OUT!!
*****! GO **** YOUR GODDAMN HUSBAND!
2007-09-05 15:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋