i have low self confidence, and i dont know how to approach girls very well, actually, i really get nervous and totally screw up when im around girls, cause i dont feel good about the way i look, what advice can u give me girls?
2007-09-05 07:54:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not much advice to give if you r ugly...i would say talk to big fat girls with no confidence themselves.
2007-09-05 08:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by MCK_23_L 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
this sounds kind of superficial however, i was shy at one time and this worked for me,
I would go to a nice store and pick out a super cool looking outfit. (not sure whats cool??) try copying something from a model. Make sure your picking out something thats your style though, your not trying to totally be someone your not here...
then i would just like go to a party or friends or school or whatever and play it confident cuz you look good.
oh one last thing... buy some nice cologne!!! clinique happy for men smells awesome.
some people may not agree with this but it has always made me feel WAY more confident when i am going into a nervous situation.
Hope this helps.
2007-09-05 08:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by katekate888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't approach them thinking that you are going to embarrass yourself or that you are going to screw up. Approach them with no expectations. Don't psych yourself up by thinking "she's the one" before you even talk to her. Start up a conversation just for the sake of having a conversation and see where it goes from there. Good luck!
2007-09-05 08:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is always the hardest but so worth it!
Try asking a girl you like for her help or advice, you have already done this anonymously and are halfway there. Good luck!
2007-09-05 08:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like sweetheart girls actually like you shy guys, Iam sure you will make a wonderful boyfriend. My husband was a shy guy and that is what attracted me to him. Still waters run deep. Good luck you will be fine, just be yourself. She is out there.
2007-09-05 08:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More info needed - Maybe give an example on how bad did you screwed up with girls.
2007-09-05 08:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont lie, unlike many girls... Looks are important. But usually guys are not as bad as they think they are. I usually have crushes on guys who have some meat on there bones. PERSONALITY is important, a girl wants a guy that can and WILL make her laugh. I know many guys who are funny when they are with there friends, but when around girls they panic.
2007-09-05 08:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what this is a very common problem with many men while dating. Even i faced it.
you should check the following link. May be it can be helpful to you. Here is the link
http://how-to-approach-girls.blogspot.com
good luck
2007-09-07 02:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tarun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you like fine. so just walk up to a girl you like and say hi. introduce yourself. ask questions. get the conversation going that way she will help out when she starts to answer good luck
2007-09-05 08:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking Questions always makes you look smarter because everyone likes to talk about themselves , but few want to listen about others.
Also develop your own style,in dress,attitude,etc, -- nothing tooo over-the-top-- subtle differences that you can be comfortable in,that will make you stand out.
2007-09-05 08:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women will tell you that it's not all about the looks. It's more about how comfortable you are with your looks. You can read someone who isn't comfortable, very easily. It's a turn-off!
Just be yourself, and they'll start to notice. =)
2007-09-05 08:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by Paul D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋