Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

ok So I was going out with this guy and I called it quits about 3mths ago. He kept text messaging me and sometimes I'd respond but not really. Well I started hanging out with this guy about a 2 mths ago and I really like him but I wasn't sure where we stood. anyway this past weekend my ex found out that I was dating this one guy and threw a big fit about it and I kept telling him that we're not together and it was none of his business. Well the reason he was mad was because this guy is one of his good friends, but I didn't know and I never saw them together or even mention him before. Well he threatened to tell his so call friend that I have been talking to both of them and I didn't know what to do. So I just told both of them to leave me alone and not call me anymore. But the problem is that I like this guy. the new guy...Should I call and tell him what is going on but then I don't want to be the cause of anything with them either. Do you think he'll believe me or his friend? help!

2007-09-05 14:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by G 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, well I like this guy, but i am pretty sure he dont like me. He got a gf and he woudln't even talk to me anymore after that. Now him and his gf broke up and i still like him, even though he acted like a jerk. I still dont know if he will talk to me now that him and his gf are broken up. I dont know what to do. Please give me your opinion on the situation...

I dont know that he meant to be a jerk. You know how some girls are like you cant talk to other girls if you are dating me...I dont know what he reason was for acting that way. I am confused!

Oh, and also, me and the guy are friends(well i guess), it had been awhile since we seen each other but then we got back intouch and talk as friends a little...

Anyway, idk...Give me your opinion!

2007-09-05 14:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by justme 3 in Singles & Dating

Will I go blind? Grow fur? What if they got pictures? I am so worried about what people think, but should I worry about it later? I don't want to get blackmailed.

2007-09-05 13:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking about e-mailing a couple of chicks that i saw on a group e-mail and seeing what they were up to, I talked to them briefly and I know that they are both single, atleast they came to the reunion that way and they talked of nobody else, we were all sent a picture and it had everybody's e-mail adresses on it, Is that an acceptable thing to do?

2007-09-05 13:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by the d 6 in Singles & Dating

My Husband tells me that I don't start sex first he is always the one to enjage in it. When I do, do things I feel that I look stupid and or I look unattractive. What are some ways to turn him on and not look stupid?

2007-09-05 13:52:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 13:50:42 · 16 answers · asked by MalteseLover 2 in Weddings

I just answered a previous questions about husbands and housework. I am a stay at home empty nester.I do most of the work around the home.My husbands offers to do things but with me at home all day I feel it is my job to keep our home clean and in order.I feel like our home is my job just like his career is his job.I have a great husband and I think I am very fortuate that I am able to stay at home. I held a job outside of the home for many years.I love staying home and I love my life. On the previous question someone gave me a thumbs down.I was just wondering what others thought about husbands and housework when the wife stay at home.Do you think the husband should be expected to do housework when the wife is home all day or do you think the wife should be responsible for the housework????

2007-09-05 13:48:41 · 20 answers · asked by Teresa 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that just weird?....or No? Or maybe should it just be vise versa?

2007-09-05 13:46:56 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha :] 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to offend the person who bought it by asking him, but how can i know just on my own if gold is real or not? i appreciate the gift no matter what it is.

2007-09-05 13:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 almost 14 and i really like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me i want to date him but i dont know if im too young i dnt want to date to act older and all that i dont even want to kiss that bad i just want someone to b there for me what do you think?

2007-09-05 13:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥↔♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have this friend named Lila and sometimes I ask her to pick me up when we are doing stuff together. Tomorrow there is a club meeting and since my mom is out of the country and my dad is working I asked her if she could take the notes for me at the club since i wont be going. She said maybe I will ask my mom if she can take you. I said gosh, but your mom is getting so annoyed of me. because she is she like hates me and My friend is chinese and she doesnt have a lot of other friends so she doesnt know anything about common courtesy so a few minutes later she called back and said" yeah my mom can take you but she is getting frustrated with you and she said that she won't do this in the future and this will be the last time..." little harsh dontcha think? and once she even told me what her mom said about me she said that her mom said " that you shouldnt hang around with her too much because she isnt the smart type, she is the type that doesnt take her grades seriously" .....errrrr

2007-09-05 13:45:45 · 1 answers · asked by heartsnkissesforever 2 in Friends

ok so i broke up with my ex bf a month ago and he was ok with it.then a couple days ago we were talking on AIM and he said "i miss you".so i didnt know what to say so i didnt really answer.but i said "ok so what are you expecting me to say" and he said "idk.....something like get over me...but i was hoping i miss you too." so i was like "ummm well i dont know how to respond to that" and he just said "ok well i just had to say it" it was kinda creeping me out.so i told one of my good friends and shes really good friends with my ex and she called him and asked what happened and i was on the same line so i heard everything and he said stuff like "i dont miss her anymore" and "shes over reacting".i was like WTF. and me and my friend are going to visit a high school so we can see our friends from middle school tomorrow.and hes gonna be there and its gonna be really weirddd. :[ what should i do???

2007-09-05 13:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Singles & Dating

like most men say they turn to other women because their wives are ******, does not know how to run the house, not a good listener...etc etc..

2007-09-05 13:44:29 · 21 answers · asked by travlin soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Since it isnt the 1920's anymore when women couldnt work, should the laws change?

2007-09-05 13:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by juju 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Like how much of an age difference was your boyfriend/girlfriend ?

2007-09-05 13:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey are there any guys who have never had sex before, and are proud of it? I am in my late teens, been asked out by every type of guy, yet they all share the fact that they have all had sex. are there no real gentlemen out there who will wait to have sex for the first time with their wife when they get married? that is what i'm trying to do, and what i know is right, yet i am loosing hope that i will ever find a man like this. are they out there?

2007-09-05 13:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by shittalkie 2 in Singles & Dating

For the first time in almost a year, I finally got asked out by someone. We've only been together a short time. But that's not the point.

I'm happy with him, but here's the problem. I'm still pretty scarred and edgy about relationships. I've been through a lot of relationship problems the last 2 years. To put it in a nutshell, I got my heart broken REALLY badly.

Im just scared that he's gonna break my heart like the rest of them did. Most girls my age brag about how great thier bfs are, how much they love them, ect. I dont like to do that because I feel it kinda jinxes my relationship. Im almost afraid to talk about him at all.

My point is, Im tired of being afraid to have feelings for him, let alone anyone. I know he cares for me but, for some stupid reason, I have this thought in my head that I'm gonna get hurt really badly again(I never brought up past relationships to him).

What can I do? I hate feeling like this. : (

2007-09-05 13:38:39 · 11 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy who has all my classes with me and his locker is right next to mine likes me.no,he didnt tell me but he's acting like i.I can tell.What do I do now?I'm not sure if I like him yet...he's really sweet and nice and funny but...I just don't know.

2007-09-05 13:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Singles & Dating

We live in a small town, and the closest place to shop is Vegas, all of my girlfriends and my parents are back home on the east coast. I need an honest opinion and not someone who is just trying to sell me a dress. (Obviously most places won't let you take pics, afraid of copying designs etc) and sending relatives the pics of models is obviously going to look totally different on them than it would on myself.

Would it be weird to bring my fiance? Is that whole "you can't see the dress" thing still in practice or has that been pretty much pushed aside in the real world?

2007-09-05 13:37:53 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney 4 in Weddings

Well I hope this gets more answers than my usual questions.
I really like this guy and this guy really likes me back. We slow danced at a school thing last Friday and he can't stop gazing at me or flirting with me. Then today I got to talk to his close friend. She said that he was having a problem with girls, he really liked two girls (this was last year) and they got mad at him when he went out with both of them. His friend said he could go out with as many girls as he wanted if he told them and wasn't commiting to be bf with just one. Now I am not comfortable with that. Is that weird? What would you do?

2007-09-05 13:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Nails 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you develop patience? I want to talk to him alllll the time. But I'm trying to be patient and let our relationship grow at its own pace. I dont want to rush anything. How do you handle this??

2007-09-05 13:34:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He wanted to still be friends - I said no that it was too hard on me. He completely flipped out - I broke it off because I felt he did not love me - to which he agreed but in the end he was screaming at me that he hated my guts. Does anyone have any insight into aquarius behaviour - he was not paying much attention to me and was too aloof and non-commital - I tried to be aloof and explain it as such and to tell you the truth I was shocked when he completely freaked out. What the hell does it mean?

2007-09-05 13:29:48 · 11 answers · asked by skepticseeksmystic 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont have the element of surprise and i need to beat her room being post it noted so yah post any good creative ideas thanks

2007-09-05 13:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 13:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mary H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have know this guy for 6 months. When I ask him what are we he will say more than friend but not a gf. Then he will say he loves me more than a friend etc. I talked to his mom and he told her i'm his very good friend and he told two of his friends that i'm just his friend not gf. If he just want to be friends then why he is acting like my bf and telling me loves me more than a friend. I recently found out that he went to club and was dancing with my girls. I tricked his friend in finding the truth. His friend didn't knew I was his friend gf or good friend. So he said things about my bf such as he is flirt, smooth talker. I asked my bf and he said he is lieing and when his friend found out who i am he changed his whole story and said he was just talking crap to I guess impress me that he is a nice guy and his friend is not.

2007-09-05 13:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 13:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by (10% Him) (5% Me) (85% Love) 3 in Family

I file for divorce from my wife and she took forever to sign the waiver....after I bugged her about it...and now she wants me to set a court date because now she want a divorce... but I don't want to I want to wait because she is trying to marry the guy she cheated on me with am I wrong.

2007-09-05 13:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a makeover, what ya think of my new look? (avator).... im24, names max. tell me your thoughts. you can see the full look on my 360 profile

2007-09-05 13:10:53 · 3 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

I just went to a new college and all the ppl i know from high school are gone. I also don't get any reactions from anyone at college like an attraction. My friend is supposed to hook me up with someone at her school but nothing has happened for a couple months. I pretty much just go to school and go home again cuz i have no one to spend time with. What do i do?

2007-09-05 13:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by coolbowens 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in m 20's. Never had a boyfriend before. My first current boyfriend saw me at a wedding, and wanted to organise to meet me. Don't know what took him so long, it had been 6 months later when they organised us to meet at someone else's house. So he asked someone for my phone number, they got my permission first. I was like ah i have nothing to lose.

So i went out with him. Been seeing him for a month and a bit.
At first i was scared, freaking out about a few things, like:

* why doesn't he look like this guy (only ever felt attracted to guys for their looks - now with my current bf looks don't matter anymore) the strange thing was that i started checking out other men.

* What if he isn't it - can i find anyone better than him. (even though he is a real gentleman - he respects me, says he loves me and doesn't only want me for the reason to get into my pants - most guys would stare and treat me like a piece of meat). I was also like, why did this guy want to meet me and date me?

2007-09-05 13:06:32 · 7 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating