Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

so i just started highschool and i hav no problem making friends w/ girls because u can be like "nice hair" "or sweet shirt, where did yah get it"
but this dosnt rly seem to work on guys. help please.

2007-09-05 17:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by ack 2 in Friends

i've been in alot of problems this year.
one of my friend who is a photography like me .
started ignoring me. i asked one of this guy(a chinese fella) , why is she ignoring me , she said she's declaring war with me. well it means me and her not gonna be friends like it used to be.
and the guy who i asked , i fought with him about some uncopyrighted pictures, and he's saying im ripping her photos she took for me. i even did credited to her.
well fk her, herself even didn't credited me and she's writing (her own name) photography on that particular image that i took for her. i didn't even said about that image, after all this have been started i started deleting some of my image in friendster. i was too heartbroken and was callen a dead ripper.
and she deleted me off deviantart.com
how could she. sigh , hope anyone could just help me and wanting to move on.

2007-09-05 17:08:43 · 7 answers · asked by Elriowiel 2 in Friends

met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.

both of us are of indian nationality. i'm 21 and he is 24.

we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.

however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.

he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!

so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??

OR

DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??

2007-09-05 17:07:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy who I have fallen deeply for is leaving for the army soon. I have never felt more close with anybody not even my own family. I know I can't force him into a relationship..he said he'd be with me if he wasn't leaving..and I'm not sure what a guy would expect of me? Would he wan't to hear that I'll be waiting for him or what? He means the world that I would do just that..but I'm not sure if a guy would be thrilled to hear a girl let them know that they will be waiting for them back at home? I just can't bare to think of losing the one person I feel so right with. I understand he needs to live a life of his own and I support that but I would one day hope to start where we leave off...so how do I tell him all this? What do you think I should do, what would a guy want for me to say or do?

2007-09-05 17:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m having this problem for several months now… and I don’t know what to do with it…
I like someone but he has a girlfriend and a friend of my mine, my close bud has something for me and that’s what confuses me more… The guy I like is his friend, a close one;
they belong in one team before in high school and up to now in college and to make it worse
we’re all in the varsity team, they’re in basketball team and me in volleyball.
I really like him that I make a way to be with him without any agenda, hanging out
JUST FRIENDS… I accepted it that his with her and I respected it… I don’t have a choice
but to wait, to wait for the time he sees me… hoping that he will…

My sister boyfriend is a friend of the guy I like and they’re real close. The guy I like
has told my sis bf that “HE LIKES ME..” well that makes it worse… My GOD!!! And before
summer ends they broke up. I like him but I’m not sure of what he feels he never said
anything about it and I never told him anything too about what I feel ‘cause I’m afraid
that he’ll feel aloof around me and his still with her back then. Even though that their
relationship ended it never gave me anything to ponder on. I would believe it if he’s the
one who would tell me, personally. I like him but I don’t want to assume or expect anything
from him. His my friend too and I don’t want to ruin it just because of the things I could
have said or do.

And before summer ends, me and my best bud had a fight, a real “tampuhan” I never txtd or
talked to him for more than 2 weeks. But his the one who reached out for me. When we talked
he cried asking for my forgiveness. It really touched me. We have worked it out and we’re
friends again. After that his giving me thee sweet gestures, riding me back home and on
my birthday he gave me a silver necklace he bought the day before and he came all the way
here at our house just to give me a ride to school.

And now I don’t know really what to do… I know what he feels for me but he too knows what
I feel for his friend, he’s not asking me anything or proposing anything but if he will,
what should I do?? I’m really scared of what will happen… I trust them both but NOW I’m
confused… I don’t know if I still feel the same way towards him or am I just appreciating
my bud’s efforts or maybe I missed about a lot of everything about him that my best bud’s
filling in. I’m in a conundrum right now.. a big one… I’m hating this feeling… what should
I do????

2007-09-05 17:02:28 · 3 answers · asked by tinx_1505 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy, whose been my friend for 2 years, is really cute and sweet. i know he likes me and i've sorta been leading him on i guess, like kissing when drunk and going on 2 dates. however, i dont know if i really want to be with him since i feel likehe may just be friend. everyone tells me i should go out with him but i dont know and i'm scared i already took it too far. would i be a ***** if i ended it now?

2007-09-05 17:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well since this question's been asked a lot, I thought I'd add a little pizazz! So, instead of just saying which you like better, I'm gonna have you compare these two pics and see which one you like better! Don't worry, they're not nude. And it's not like you HAVE to see them to judge, but I thought it'd be a nice change up, and like they say, a picture says a thousand words.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/34414689@N00/1333845968/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/34414689@N00/1333845930/in/photostream/

2007-09-05 16:57:41 · 37 answers · asked by GrnEyedGurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay it's not a big deal i'm just curious as in what is going on.

So my friend likes this guy, hes the drum major of our marching band, were in marching band, and she liked him, then didn't and now she believes she does again. Well my friend was debating whether to ask him to homecoming or not. She asked her friend who was good friends with him if it would be okay. But then the friend she asked said she was going to ask him to go as friends. She was like, oh. Even though her friend had helped her start talking to this guy and getting to know him. Who is wrong here??

2007-09-05 16:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Singles & Dating

I am really stressed out, to the point I can't sleep and I feel like I'm totally ineffective. I'm 15 weeks pregnant, I have a 2 year old son in the middle of his terrible 2's, my husband has been deployed since June, my house is out of control and I have 2 pets that drive me up the wall.
I just can't seem to keep up with it all. I hate clutter but I don't even know where to start. It's not like I sit on my butt all day, surfing the internet or watching TV, I'm rarely doing either one. When my husband left we had our entire spare room filled with boxes that I now have to go through because we'll need it for the baby. The boxes in there are filled with clothes and I've gone through about half. So now i have tons of clothes to wash and get rid of. UGH!
I know there are hundreds of women out there who manage every day, I don't need to be reminded of that or how I'm not as good as them. I just need some tips or tricks.

2007-09-05 16:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Informed 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this one girl, recently at our high school football game she just all of a sudden started to wipe my shoulder, and people on here were telling me that she just wanted to touch me and say that "Hey, i like you"...and well anyways i talked to her a little more, but never got any serious and the other night i had a dream of her and she was in it...and for some reason in my dream she really did like me and she wrote a note in one of my books that i was reading and she said that she liked me and wanted to go out with me......can you tell me if there is a sign of the future or what is really going on??..note-..i dont talk to her a lot.....but if i see her..sure..i am somewhat shy...thanks for all your help, give me all your OPINIONS!!

2007-09-05 16:50:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy at my school that i ahve liked ever scence the meet the teacher nite ! well i told 1 of my bffs and he asked her out the day be4 i told her so it really made me mad well then they were dating 4 like 3 weeks and then he broke up with her and then is now asking my best best friend out but she is going to say no to him cus she has a bf and cus i like him and she does not want me to be hert . but the thing is i really like him and i would love to go out with him but he is always mean to me and calls me names ! and i always try being nice to him but telling him is work looks good , or i will offer him candy bars ,chips anything and he says no but he lloves all thos thing and when some1 else says to u want some he always says yes . please help me ! guve me tips on how to get him to go out with me or just be firends ! outfits to ware anything please help ! i dont get it he goes 4 the ugly girls then y is he not coming 4 me ? please help me !!!!!

2007-09-05 16:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sin·gle /ˈsɪŋgəl/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[sing-guhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation adjective, verb, -gled, -gling, noun
–adjective 1. only one in number; one only; unique; sole: a single example.
2. of, pertaining to, or suitable for one person only: a single room.
3. solitary or sole; lone: He was the single survivor.
4. unmarried: a single man.
5. pertaining to the unmarried state: the single life.
6. of one against one, as combat or fight.
7. consisting of only one part, element, or member: a single lens.
YOU: Divorced with kids from another man. Connected with this man and his family in a relationship that can never end by virtue of the fact you have kids with him, and are probably collecting alimony/child support on top of it. This is in fact the opposite of "single" as defined.

2007-09-05 16:46:08 · 29 answers · asked by What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.

we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.

however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.

he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!

so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??

OR

DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??

2007-09-05 16:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you first meet someone

2007-09-05 16:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by ChuckDeucez 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres my problem. Im 13. I like a girl whos 11 and almost 12. Shes so great but likes my friend. I was gonna ask her out today but yesterday i found out that he told her he liked her and i guess he decided that the day he told her bcause he said notthning about it before. So he tells me this and im like Oh come on man you arent serious?!! and he says ya..... and i said ahhh this sucks theresno point in me asking her out now. And hes like why not? I say bcause you like each other!! And he keeps telling me to ask her out but it seems wrong to ask her out when they like each other. I know for a fact that i like her at least 10x more than he does but she likes him so it doesnt matter. Hes not ready to date her so i gotta sit here and wait for something to happen. Should i sit and wait or should i ask her out? She and i are good friends btw. Dont comment on my spelling please i did most of it on purpose to abbreviate. And please dont say im too young! i know a 9 year old who bought

2007-09-05 16:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a bridesmaid for a wedding at the end of the year. The bride, the groom and their families are very financially well off. I am not. The wedding, of course, is no expense spared. Due to personal preference and some degree of religious reason the wedding is on a Sunday. I was going to arrive on Saturday (flying there) and thought the rehersal would be then. But the bride has insisted this happen on Friday. This means I have to find accommodation for 3 nights as opposed to 2. (At an average of $120 per night, its fairly expensive and I've look at cheaper places but there's nothing). Because the airport is out of the way and no one can come and pick me up, I now also have to hire a car for the 3 days and this will cost $150. It just seems this wedding is costing me so much. I expected it'd cost $500 tops but its getting closer to $1000.00.

Is it right to ask the bride for help or is it not worth risking a friendship over money? And not agree to be bridesmaid ever again!

2007-09-05 16:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by MissCurly99 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now. I know that's not long and it was HIS idea to actually call each other a couple. I dont really know exactly what is going on with us or me or whatever, but he seems distant, and I dont know what to think and he has some sort of problem with talking about how he feels...as do many men I have heard. I cannot seem to feel relaxed around him. I like him a lot and I know he likes me as well but for some reason I'm just exhausting myself with the fear that he is going to break up with me, whether it be because I am not for him or cause he wants another girl or what. In the past I have been screwed with by guys and it's so hard not to think this way but I still am very gaurded with relationships and what they may end up as. I am nothing but nice to people, especially someone I'm dating, yet they seem to **** on me all the time! Why is this happening? I play things cool most of the time...I am a nice, smart, pretty girl.

2007-09-05 16:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why do people think bein a teen and wanting to get married is a bad thing? if you know you love the person then why not im only 16 and i love my gf more than anythig in the world?? and i want to ask her to marry me but everyone says im too young to ask!! i need some advice so please help!!!!

2007-09-05 16:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is strong chemistry. You really like him. You both are extremely sexually attracted to each other and there is a mutual respect. The only thing is that you just met each other (1 week) so you really don't know his motives yet. He is willing have sex (he is a guy ....duh). Nevertheless, he is not pressuring you. You want have sex too, but you don’t want to be looked at as easy, and you don’t it to be just a “sex buddy” relationship. Do you follow the lust and do it anyways, or do you exercise self control?

2007-09-05 16:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Singles & Dating

I had two children in 16 months, so let's just say that I'm not the skinny thing that I used to be. I still have about 20 pounds that need to come off. My hubby says that he's fine with it and he loves me just the way I am. Something inside tells me that he's full of it and just telling me what I want to hear. So, fellas, are you really OK with the way your wife looks carrying all the extra baby weight?

2007-09-05 16:33:20 · 9 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Im very confused about my mother.
Im am thirteen years old. I live with my Grandparents because she was very irresponsible when i was with her. My mom had me at a very young age and was very rebellious(she had ran away from home at...i believe 16 or 17). I've never met my father, and shes never told me anything about him. I would like to meet him, but i never feel sad that i didnt know him. =\
She has had countless boyfriends, some abusive, some sleazy, and one was even a convict. And out of all of them only one was the best. He really cared about her and wanted her to quit her job.(which i forgot to mention is stripping) But she is very aggressive at times, and thats why she let go such a good guy. She wants her boyfriends to not have a mind of there own, and if they do she gets very pissed off. And they usually leave her.
Recently she had gotten out of her 4th DWI, she went to jail, wore a leg bracelet (house arrest-type thing) for a couple of months.
(Hold on there more)

2007-09-05 16:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok married for 11 years, 3 girls. Over the last six months we have had a really tough time keeping our marriage together. I have found several text messages, on e-mail and now have a person saying that they seen him being more than freindly with another woman while he was at a conference. That is pretty much the last straw for me. I just don't know what to do now. Where do I start? Or What should be done first? I prefer christian based advice and not the kick him to the curb stuff. This is serious and I have 3 girls to think about and I really want to know how to handel this in a Godly manner.

2007-09-05 16:29:31 · 24 answers · asked by true friend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom's been talking to me this week about all the stuff she found on my dad cheating on her. He is 60 and she is 58. The cheating has clearly been with another woman for over 5-6 years and continuous lies. My mom told me today she confronted him and he basically still denies it. But he begged and pleaded with my mom on hands and knees asking her for another chance - I love you's etc... He travels all the time and flies this woman to meet him on business trips, texts her, is out all weekend when he's home and so on. He then went online to "cover his tracks"by telling the woman that my mom knows about them so to keep "lying"and making sure no more access goes to my mom for phone bills. My mom has suspected it for some time.

I feel so helpless. I feel sick to my stomach about all of this because I live at home with this so I am seeing this with my own eyes. My mom is clearly deeply hurt just trying to maintain "the peace". A sick poor excuse for a husband -but a good dad.

2007-09-05 16:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hay im a girl and my bf wants to kiss more when i get into high school which im almost there...... and he always c's some of his friends makeing out at the lunch table so yeah i think thats wut he wants to do i mean i wouldnt mind but how do we do that w/ out being caught??? can u all help me i dont no wut to do school has got me stressed right now and yeah.....

2007-09-05 16:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by Mai 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for 7 years , since elementary school. She is jelous of me because she got fat and she sees that naw I am the one who gets attention from other man. She used to get it all the time untill she got pregant. I dont hate her but I feel bad for her. She is happily merried and I dont understand why she wants to get attention from other man....... How do I tell her to stop being jelous ?

2007-09-05 16:27:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres this girl that i loved we're currently not together because she wants to take things slow.I love her & i do not want to hurt her& end up hurting myself.Theres this girl i like,i don't know what to tell her,i wanna stop talking to her because i do not wanna lose the girl that i loved. can anyone give me advice to the girl that i like i can't talk to her anymore,without hurting her?

2007-09-05 16:23:26 · 1 answers · asked by Chewy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 16:20:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years, and he's made it clear that he wants to marry me in a few years after we're both done school. The problem is that I don't think I could marry him. I'm extremely insecure about his ex-gf/current best friend who has repeatedly tried to break us up and has caused some major problems in our relationship. I just don't want to marry him and have to spend the rest of my life dealing with her, and I know he's not going to get rid of her because he doesn't understand how much pain her involvement causes me. The question is, do you think I should carry on the relationship, because I really don't want to break up with him, or should I just end it now and get the heartache over with? Am I being completely irrational about this?

2007-09-05 16:19:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so, I have been told I look hot and all. and i am seeing a girl too at the moment. but the thing is, i hardly have any friends that are girls, cause i am not THAT talkative, and tend to be shy around girls.
is this something i need to be worried about?

2007-09-05 16:15:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are a family of 3 and I think my biggest vice is spending money on groceries. I'm the type of person who will spend too much money at the grocery store and then go home with "nothing to eat". I've started clipping coupons, but that doesn't really seem to make much of a difference? People tell me about triple-coupon days, but how do I know when that is? I do try to buy generic brand vs. name brand, but I'm also a huge label reader and very conscious of ingredients that are in our foods and I won't buy things with certain ingredients for health sake. What are some tips that have worked for you and your family?

2007-09-05 16:15:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family