met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.
both of us are of indian nationality. i'm 21 and he is 24.
we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.
however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.
he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!
so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??
OR
DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??
2007-09-05 17:07:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he wants to explore the possibility of pursuing a relationship with you.......... he wants to get better acquainted with you in person and not just over the Internet, but face to face. It would be nice if you could meet with him one Saturday and kinda take a break from all the studying, however, you don't need to let anything interrupt your studies too much, until you can finish up with your education. BTW, he sounds too good to be true. And no, I don't think he is just being friendly with you, I think there is potential between y'all.
2007-09-05 17:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he too must be as confused as you are. unless you meet him more often you both cantreally figure out what exactly you want - a relationship or just a good time. I wld say meet him whenever you can. Even if you are busy, it hardly takes 1 hour to meet up for coffee or after your exam at his place. Be careful not to get into intimate situation too soon. Just go with the flow. Life in reality is very differnet from the online world.
We could be really frank with someone online and when we actually meet ppl, its different. Face to face concersation leads to diferent reactions and its very important that you giys meet more often to figure out how free you both are with each other in reality than on internet. Good luck!!
2007-09-06 01:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Aquagal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think there is no need arise for a relationship as he like to have U R friendship. I may be Wrong also as I dont know what is the intent of U R relationship.
2007-09-06 00:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship, he seems like a very nice guy too. And that invite to test his cooking at his house could be more.
Good luck :)
2007-09-06 00:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u have a confusion best thing is u clear with him. Secondly what u want from him decide that 1st. thirdly he may appear good to u , but does not mean he is. So try to meet him in neutral places, more often & map him, sometimes surprise with being with yr friend, let her map him too. then u join to his friends & joing yr friends to him , ,slowly & staedily if u observe his behaviour, then know what type he is . & then if u like propose him.
2007-09-07 02:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not go his house, u may meet him at a hotel or public place of your choice. Just to protect u in case he is a psycho or something. They are very friendly, extra decent and extra sweet.
2007-09-06 02:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship is how it sounds. Go with the flow and find out for sure but it sounds like he's trying to get to know you better and he's interested in you.
2007-09-06 00:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he is interested in having a relationship with you...
even if I am wrong it doesn't hurt extending your friends network would it?
So just go with it, give him a chance to meet up with you again.
2007-09-06 00:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by dewo96 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u never know...may be he is some psycho and intends to cook u...be careful of guys u meet on-line..i have had a very bad experience..
2007-09-06 05:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being friendly and possibly make his way to courting you when he sees some encouragement from you.
2007-09-06 00:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋