ok so, I have been told I look hot and all. and i am seeing a girl too at the moment. but the thing is, i hardly have any friends that are girls, cause i am not THAT talkative, and tend to be shy around girls.
is this something i need to be worried about?
2007-09-05 16:15:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no worries! shy guys are often confused as listeners, a awesome trait in a male. The hotness helps too. You should only worry if you start to vomit spontaneously in the presents of a girl.
2007-09-05 16:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by wyldkisses79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. The way I look at it less potential trouble. If you are happy seeing the girl that is great. If a guy has a lot of female friends it can raise tension and jealously in their romantic relationships. See where the trouble could start brewing? lol There's nothing wrong with a guy having female friends and being serious with a girl but if it ain't broke why fix it? I think you are perfect just the way you are. : )
2007-09-05 23:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less if your hot. I would care more if you had a bright outlook on your future plans. Hot is not, goals and outlook on a future for yourself is more important. Looks fade, education is always learned. If you have a gf then stop looking for others to compliment you, your girlfriend should be complimenting you. I think you are disrespectful of your gf and you need to grow up. She has a loser who wants more attention. If she is not the one for you., break it off with her, instead of getting online and looking for attention or hopes someone will see the words you wrote that you look hot so you been told. You need not to have a girlfriend until you grow up and know what you really want out of life. Its totally not fair for the girl.
2007-09-05 23:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to be more social. A quiet guy could look hot sometimes but it will shy the girls away. I would say you have to approach to the girl you like, instead of waiting for her. That;s because u're not a girl!
2007-09-06 00:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you just have guy friends? That's cool! Look, you've been told you're attractive, you have a girlfriend, and you have friends (they just aren't other girls). You don't have anything to worry about. Quite frankly, if you have a slightly jealous girl, she may not like you hanging out with so many other girls anyway, so it ultimately works for your advantage.
2007-09-05 23:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing to worry about. As your relationship grows, be kind, helpful, and loving. What counts is that you're comfortable with your girlfriend. From there, you'll learn countless things very quickly.
2007-09-05 23:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "feel" you're hot and you're seeing a girl then there's nothing to worry about. The problem here is that, do the girl you're seeing appreciates you? There's lies the worries if she doesn't....
2007-09-05 23:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by haringkorokan18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I'd only tell you to be worried if you didn't have a girlfriend. But I think you not having so many girl friends, keeps her from being self-coinscious, so don't worry about it too much. 'Kay? ^_^
2007-09-05 23:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by The Girl With All the Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. When the right one comes along, you'll find her, and you'll know. Obviously being shy around girls didn't keep you from dating your girlfriend, right?
2007-09-05 23:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you need to be worried.... then you should be. Who cares how many guy/girl friends you have. Life is to short. Enjoy every minute of it.
2007-09-05 23:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Pier-La'Shaye 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋