does he really like me? or he want me to go out with his friend? help.. =(?

Question

I’m having this problem for several months now… and I don’t know what to do with it…
I like someone but he has a girlfriend and a friend of my mine, my close bud has something for me and that’s what confuses me more… The guy I like is his friend, a close one;
they belong in one team before in high school and up to now in college and to make it worse
we’re all in the varsity team, they’re in basketball team and me in volleyball.
I really like him that I make a way to be with him without any agenda, hanging out
JUST FRIENDS… I accepted it that his with her and I respected it… I don’t have a choice
but to wait, to wait for the time he sees me… hoping that he will…

My sister boyfriend is a friend of the guy I like and they’re real close. The guy I like
has told my sis bf that “HE LIKES ME..” well that makes it worse… My GOD!!! And before
summer ends they broke up. I like him but I’m not sure of what he feels he never said
anything about it and I never told him anything too about what I feel ‘cause I’m afraid
that he’ll feel aloof around me and his still with her back then. Even though that their
relationship ended it never gave me anything to ponder on. I would believe it if he’s the
one who would tell me, personally. I like him but I don’t want to assume or expect anything
from him. His my friend too and I don’t want to ruin it just because of the things I could
have said or do.

And before summer ends, me and my best bud had a fight, a real “tampuhan” I never txtd or
talked to him for more than 2 weeks. But his the one who reached out for me. When we talked
he cried asking for my forgiveness. It really touched me. We have worked it out and we’re
friends again. After that his giving me thee sweet gestures, riding me back home and on
my birthday he gave me a silver necklace he bought the day before and he came all the way
here at our house just to give me a ride to school.

And now I don’t know really what to do… I know what he feels for me but he too knows what
I feel for his friend, he’s not asking me anything or proposing anything but if he will,
what should I do?? I’m really scared of what will happen… I trust them both but NOW I’m
confused… I don’t know if I still feel the same way towards him or am I just appreciating
my bud’s efforts or maybe I missed about a lot of everything about him that my best bud’s
filling in. I’m in a conundrum right now.. a big one… I’m hating this feeling… what should
I do????

Answer 1

You need to figure out which guy you seriously like and want to persue a relationship with. Take it from there.

If you take a chance...things may work out* If you sit around and do nothing....you'll never know*

try not to lose either friendship* sounds like your friend tho really cares bout you but you seem more interested in the guy who just broke up with his g/friend* (who 'll be on the "rebound"....not good)

Answer 2

You've waited long enough for any signs that this person wants to be with you. Just move on to someone that does gives you the attention and shows interest in you. Why are you wasting all this time? It doesnt matter if you are spending all this time with each other...its prolly "just friends" to him. You are wasting your time and energy on this person and your not getting anything back. Why do girls do this? You should read He's just not that into you to help you figure things out more...hope that helps kaibigan.

Answer 3

wow ya right way too much text and way too much drama

i lost u after the first paragraph