We've been friends for 7 years , since elementary school. She is jelous of me because she got fat and she sees that naw I am the one who gets attention from other man. She used to get it all the time untill she got pregant. I dont hate her but I feel bad for her. She is happily merried and I dont understand why she wants to get attention from other man....... How do I tell her to stop being jelous ?
2007-09-05 16:27:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't tell her not to be jealous, as a friend I would ask her what she is upset about, it's all in how you word it. Pregnant woman can some times feel like a hippopotamus, they feel fat and ugly and all alone, like nobody understands. As a friend I would comfort her and let her know before to long she would be back to normal, and would be able to have all kinds of fun, make plans with her to have an after baby party night for just you and her, take her out to lunch and some light shopping. Just spend some quality time with her and she will feel better. Do it as a FRIEND would do.
2007-09-05 16:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone and pretend you are not aware of the fact that she is jealous of you.
2007-09-05 16:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not getting attention from her husband?
2007-09-05 16:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋