ok there is this guy at my school that i ahve liked ever scence the meet the teacher nite ! well i told 1 of my bffs and he asked her out the day be4 i told her so it really made me mad well then they were dating 4 like 3 weeks and then he broke up with her and then is now asking my best best friend out but she is going to say no to him cus she has a bf and cus i like him and she does not want me to be hert . but the thing is i really like him and i would love to go out with him but he is always mean to me and calls me names ! and i always try being nice to him but telling him is work looks good , or i will offer him candy bars ,chips anything and he says no but he lloves all thos thing and when some1 else says to u want some he always says yes . please help me ! guve me tips on how to get him to go out with me or just be firends ! outfits to ware anything please help ! i dont get it he goes 4 the ugly girls then y is he not coming 4 me ? please help me !!!!!
2007-09-05 16:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't chase after someone who is totally not interested. You deserve better than to be his last choice.
2007-09-05 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one cutie...I can answer your question with one word....SEX. This guy is hitting on the uglly girls cause he thinks he can get laid or get some. If he goes out with the pretty ones he has less of a chance of getting laid. Thats just the way it is...If you really want to get his attention, wear some more revealing and provacative clothing...Show some skin cutie! Then find somone who is interested in you and keep him around you and flirt with this guy in front of the other dude you like just to make him a little jealous...I hate to admit it cutie, but even if you DO get him to notice you...if you dont put out or give him some of your *&^%^$ then he will probably leave you anyway...It sounds like this guy is after one thing and one thing only and I would go for someone else who wants me for me and my mind first, and then maybe I would think about giving myself up to him. Good luck and remember to SMILE! Life is sweet and so r u!
2007-09-12 23:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that the reason he's not responding to your advances is because you're making yourself too available. Most guys enjoy the thrill of chasing a girl, not being chased. Seriously the best way to get him to like you is to act a little bit mysterious and stop being so nice to him. Don't be mean, but keep your distance. I know this is really hard to do when you like somebody, but trust me it works. The second part of this equation is that you have to look your best around him. Put extra time into your hair and makeup. I don't know how you usually dress, but what works for me is wearing laid back looking outfits that aren't too fussy or too baggy. I usually wear form-fitting graphic tees with a laid back pair of jeans and kitten heels. I do put a lot of time into my hair and makeup though. Guys like to see that you have an attractive shape, without seeing everything. Be sultry and sexy, and so above him. Once you show him that you're better than him, he'll come running.
2007-09-05 17:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by lovefool1050 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl you don`t want to go with a guy that that is mean to you and calls you names. He want even take candy or chips from you. That says he don`t want any thing to do with you. Get on with it.
2007-09-12 14:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i dont really understand that last part are you calling yourself ugly if you think your ugly and if this dude is treating you bad then why would you want to be with him. honey move on find someone who wants you and i dont know what you look like but im sure your not ugly you need to get some self cofidence. and dont try to give a dude something just for him to like you he needs to like you for you not for what you got. sweetie you need to really talk to someone email me anytime cuz something really dont seem right
2007-09-12 13:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by memphischick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend more time with him. Dress up really nice and cute (not sexy) one day and ask him how you look. If he says you look "fine" or "cute", try to downplay it. "Oh, I got dressed in the dark this morning, I was a little afraid to look in the mirror, haha." If you sit next to him, touch your leg to his and pretend it didn't happen. Ask for hugs when you see him and make sure you smell really nice so he'll want more hugs from you. He'll either start to fall in love with you, or sooner date a guy.
2016-05-17 19:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is mean to you and stuff why bother with him?
i kno how guys can be mean but look this is not the guy u want he jus wants you to give him things like the chips and stuff... it looks like your younger ...
bur u know how many guys are out there.. jus watch out if you like him.. n he dosnt like you then forget him theres other guys!!
2007-09-05 16:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Christy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS MAY SOUND MEAN BUT GET OVER IT EVERYONE DESERVES SOMETHING BETTER AND AS I ALWAYS SAY THEIR IS MANY MORE FISH IN DA SEA AND YOU SHOULD NEVER GO LOW FOR A GUY
2007-09-05 16:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY do you want to date a guy who is mean to you? I don't get that! He's not interested, drop it!
2007-09-05 16:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just by readin the last sentence you wont get any man if you dont have selfconfidence.
2007-09-13 15:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by $Ke-Ke$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋