Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

Thanks for any well wishes.

2007-09-05 16:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i have been with this boy for about 2 years nd he has done like alot of lieing to me in the past to make me not trust him hes hidden something from me for a year and a half and i found out not too long ago... but u know i forgave him for it .. it was really something big.. but i didnt think he would do that to me again.. and i dont think he would.
but anyways now me and him are having problems he says in to controllig cus i dont let him do what he wants because he has lost his trust towards me big time cus all he does is lie to me and texts gurls and not me.. and i dont know what to do i love him so much but now we broke up and i herd this gurl likes him.. and wants to go out with him.
im going threw alot right now and hes not even here for me..
i have gave him everything and now i need help.. i jus keep crying everynight.. i love him so much and he dosnt realize like hes been smoking pot and treating me like crap... hanging out with other gurls..what should i do?

2007-09-05 16:11:29 · 3 answers · asked by Christy S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i make a guy like me??? age range is 10-13

2007-09-05 16:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by 1234 1 in Friends

My fiance and I will be having an outdoor, lunchtime wedding, on the less formal side. We're not very formal type people and we're always joking around.

Rather than your typical wedding invitation, we think it would be funny to have an invitation with a characature of the bride and groom, with me holding a bouquet of carrots instead of flowers. (I'm vegan.) The groom, who is of Jewish and Viking ancestry would be portrayed wearing a Viking helmet with a star of David on it. This is the website that does the characature invitations: http://www.invitations-you-design.com/Humorous-wedding-invitations.html

My fiance and I think this is a good and outrageously funny idea. But perhaps some may find it tacky.

What is your honest opinion of our invitation idea?

2007-09-05 16:00:29 · 26 answers · asked by Ms. X 6 in Weddings

my friend. She wasn't at practice today so the whole team broke out into conversation about how she was an awful soccer player and that she doesn't even try. Which was true, but I still didn't feel comfortable about them saying that about her. Then they started gossiping about her personal life with her ex boyfriend and what they did together. Which even though that was true, too, didn't deserve to be published.

I asked them to stop talking about it, but they wouldn't. I tried to change the subject, but they just ignored me.

I don't think I did the right thing...I think I should've tried harder.

What should I do next time?
I don't want to tell my friend because she would be heartbroken. I was just gonna tell her to be careful who she says stuff to.

SHOULD I tell my friend?
What should I do next time the team brings her up?

I feel awful.

2007-09-05 15:58:32 · 13 answers · asked by blueJay 5 in Friends

2007-09-05 15:58:20 · 19 answers · asked by cute507 1 in Friends

Have you ever?...?
Just wanted to end a friendship/relationship with someone who at point you felt a bond to, in whateve way -and it's like you never wanted to tell them it's over, you just wanted to end everything in the secrecy-like block their phone; remove pics; not answer when they call-because you felt they did you wrong, and after you gave them a chance they messed up again and again?...And, it made you feel good to have that power, because you can walk away and not care, because it;s their* fault the friendship ended in the 1st place?..
* I have a friend who I've been friends with for 3 years now. And, when it comes to messages and phone calls-she's flaky. I *even ask when it's convenient for her to talk and call at the time she says , but no aswr-when I call, nor a reply. *She apologises and I know she cares for me, she's told me- I'm one of her BFF-but this has happened 3 different times now and I'm getting sick of it.

2007-09-05 15:56:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have a very healthy sex life. We have and enjoy watching porn from time to time. I noticed after some time that our DVD's were missing, and eventually found them in my 10 yr old sons room. They are usually locked in a safe, but I must have forgotten to lock it the last I accessed it. After the 1st incident, my husband threw all the DVD's away, and I yelled at my son for snooping and basically told him porn was "bad" which I know now was the wrong explanation. Yesterday, when I was cleaning his room, I found another DVD hidden under his mattress-it was another one of ours but missed it. I didn't say anything the second time. I don't want to badger my son, I know its my fault for not protecting him from it in the first place. I want him to have a healthy sex life and not look at sex as "dirty". I remember being exposed to sex on several occasions at a very young age and still remember the images. How do I talk to my son about this and explain it correctly?

2007-09-05 15:52:40 · 15 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Family

I think it should be only in female student's restroom !
Do you agree ?
I think it makes guys feel more agrresive & get more in trouble
buy having condom machines in their restrooms. do you agree?
I think females should be agressive ones....and guys will be cool if women are the agressive ones !

2007-09-05 15:50:28 · 20 answers · asked by revoltingmuledropedriderfromback 1 in Singles & Dating

just to know the percentage of womens fantasy

2007-09-05 15:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the BIGGEST crush on a guy that is a few years older than me. He doesn't even know who I am. I don't even know him that much. But, I put his cell number in one of those advertisement things for horoscopes. So now everyday he will be getting a text of his horoscope for like $6 a week. I feel REALLY bad.....i don't kno what to do. I have no idea why i put his cell # in that thing because i really like him and he has done nothing to me to deserve it. What should I do??????? I feel really bad for him and I feel like I should be punished.

2007-09-05 15:45:22 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a robot.

Is smiling at people an invitation to talk?

What actions must I take if I am smiled at. Is it expected of me to do something other than smile back? Should I smile back?

Girls if the guy who smiled at you wasn't attractive to you , how would you respond?

2007-09-05 15:44:54 · 43 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Singles & Dating

Met this guy in class. We have to work togeather for a project (we are in our 20s). He seems a little nervous around me (although, he has lots of friends, I don't know if maybe he is naturally nervous). He is really nice. I start to ignore him a little and notice that he has distance himself a bit ( I sat at the table in front of him during a presentation- and purposely acted like I didn't see him). His response was to move away from me (change tables during the next presentation). Have I totally messed things up? Or scared him off. So confused? Or is he just trying to tell me indirectly to relax and not sweat myself?

2007-09-05 15:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 15:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is I told my cousin that I like her so I think she told her so that makes me look weak what should I do?

2007-09-05 15:38:22 · 1 answers · asked by onlygranite 1 in Singles & Dating

She likes to throw her pen at me in a playful manner and I joke around with her and she is pretty hot and there is this dance coming up: Homecoming. I don't know if I want to go. There is another dance in December: JROTC Ball and it is a grade. I want to ask her but there is this girl in front of her who likes me, it is pretty obvious.

How do I further a relationship with the girl? She sometimes gets annoyed or is acting like it and she mostly likes to play and joke around with me and there are like four boys not including me around her.

HELP NEEDED! I REALLY WANT HER FOR THE JROTC BALL...AND AS A GF!

2007-09-05 15:36:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this tiny teacher crush, he's around 30 and I'm a teen adult. I had a massive makeover and when I came back to school everyone was AMAZED ( i got natural-looking extensions, too). Oh and I also lost some weight, though I 'd been slim before so now I ook pretty much like a healthy model. And yes, I do dress VERY nicely. Sorry to be so over-confident but, yes, I'm hot and I know it.

So why did the one teacher not react, actually he was acting very cool and distanced? I was his favourite student before, and he told me how charming and glamorous I was (as well as intelligent lol).

I'd appreciate some explanations and no, I am not planning to have an affair, hell no! :)

2007-09-05 15:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Dani 2 in Singles & Dating

soooo. i have a friend whos kinda close, her names Alyssa and she and this guy shane started liking each other. this weekend we all met up at a party and they were both having second thoughts about each other, and she was telling me how she was kind of confused about the whole thing, and she was going to see how everything went. (keep in mind that they never hooked up or became official yet)

I got really wasted and so was shane, and about 10 of us went to another one of my friends house to crash. (her parents were out of town and we're 16 soo it might not seem like a big deal to some older people but it kind of was) but alyssa didnt go. Andd me and shane ended up hooking up, we just didnt have sex because we sort of got interrupted.

I never would've done it if i was sober, and i feel really bad about it because we're keeping it a secret from Alyssa. The problem is i don't think i regret it and i might have feelings for him... should i feel bad about this? what should I do??

2007-09-05 15:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by Yasmin 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got into an argument where I had to defend the military.

the argument was "they take orders from others, so they are bitches.

2007-09-05 15:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by That Guy 4 in Singles & Dating

Just curious to hear what you ladies have to say about what you appriciate about your husbands.

2007-09-05 15:28:33 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who farts all the time, and when he stays at my house, he wants to sleep in my bed. But he stinks so bad. How can I tell him no without hurting his feelings?

2007-09-05 15:22:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For all those women who like to emotionally beat up your husbands; Why? Why do you expect him to respect you, or totally be in love with you; When, you have made him feel that time and time again, his worth to you; is nothing more than a paycheck? As long as that paycheck is coming in, the man is great; but OH NO! you let that paycheck stop, and the man is scum? Why do you do this?

2007-09-05 15:18:35 · 19 answers · asked by runner45 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, my dad has been mean and unfair to me and my mom for many years. I am very sick and tired of this! How can I get back at him? I know, this might be wrong and mean, but I am just so sick of him and what he does. What should I do to get back at him? Corrupt files on his computer? Break his belongings? Help!

Thanks, everyone!
Blake

2007-09-05 15:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by Blake 4 in Family

She is on her 456th court battle with my dad over money, my dad raised me, all she wants to do is pay less and less and all I am trying to do is get a college education. She has turned her back on me and my sister time and time before, now she has subpoena'd me and my boyfriend and his mom to court. thing is there is no reason for her to do so. I want to end this unhealthy relationship with her once and for all and I need some words of power to leave in a voicemail on her phone, trust me, I am not taking the easy way out leaving a message, I just can never get through to her, but she has basically ended our relationship...HELP ME WITH WORDS THAT WILL STING BUT LEAVE A LASTING IMPRESSION...thanks!

2007-09-05 15:16:03 · 2 answers · asked by RJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or good looking enough but really smart? if you were forced to choose one or the other, which would you pick and why? for me, I would take good looking and smart over unbelievably hot but stupid, because it lasts stays interesting longer!

2007-09-05 15:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by phlygirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I must have some of the worst luck with women. I have been trying to get off of the singles list for a while and every chance I've had has ended up badly. From things like me saying the wrong thing to other guys making their move just slightly faster than me, its just a nightmare I can't wake up from.

Sometimes it's that I meet them then they don't want to talk to me, sometimes I find someone and they move far away. Anyone have some sort of answer to break this bad luck streak???

2007-09-05 15:10:46 · 22 answers · asked by wcwnwo_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

i usually make a romantic candlelight dinner and wear some sexy lingerie.. but i wanna do something different

i go to college (freshman) during the day, and there's like 4 to 6 hours to prepare for everything before he gets home (he's a stock broker).. he works a lot and sometimes i go the office and surprise him.. any new ideas??

2007-09-05 15:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you move to another country for your boyfriend without a ring? without a promise of marriage? My bf is moving to the UK from the US. We've been together 14 months and we planned to continue dating there. But my bf is not ready to promise marriage. Do I deserve that? We are in our mid to late 20's.

2007-09-05 15:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by Confid321 2 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is going to be in a big terrace and garden under tents in Puerto Rico at 4:00 pm reception right after until 10:00 pm. In January.

My color schemes are going to be light pink, hot pink and white.

Here is picture of everything I got so far! Give me opinions but please don't be mean you can said I don't like it without be mean.

Also there are pic of the dress

White first option
Ivory second option

Guest tables
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x163/TamraOli26/Mesainvitados.jpg

Our tables
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x163/TamraOli26/Mesanovios.jpg

Wedding dress
I option
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x163/TamraOli26/Trajenovia.jpg

II option
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x163/TamraOli26/Trajenovia2.jpg

II option back
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x163/TamraOli26/Trajenovia2cola.jpg

Thank's for your comments!!!

2007-09-05 15:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

been going to court and try to get my son i guess all the court battles are over

2007-09-05 15:00:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce