Would you move to another country for your boyfriend without a ring? without a promise of marriage? My bf is moving to the UK from the US. We've been together 14 months and we planned to continue dating there. But my bf is not ready to promise marriage. Do I deserve that? We are in our mid to late 20's.
2007-09-05 15:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by Confid321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never in a million years! I wouldn't move across town for a boyfriend let along across the Atlantic! Now if you want to live in the UK and will be able to pursue your own life there, then go for it. But if you're only moving there for him, you're taking a huge risk that you'll find yourself alone in a foreign country thousands of miles away from your friends and family (your support system!).
2007-09-05 15:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by KAL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FOR THE LOVE OF PETE DON'T GO - Maybe I watch too much Lifetime
I was a little afraid when you said the UK - How would your family and friend be able to get to you if something happened
What do you know about the UK?
Do your family and friends like him?
Even if they do like him - that is way too far to travel for a boyfriend - I don't know if I go with my husband for that matter - - - But there I again with the Lifetime thoughts.
JUST SAY NO
Good Luck
2007-09-13 14:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't risk leaving my family and friends that I have known a life time for a guy i have known for little over a year. sure you may love him and still want to be with him, but why promise him you whole life when he can't even promise you a marriage. sounds like he's not quit ready to make the total comment with you. i would lay low, still communicate with him, but dramatic moving should be involved.
2007-09-13 14:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I wouldnt. I have a child to take care of and such. If It werent something permanent or marriage, I wouldnt move around the world without something definate.
2007-09-05 15:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him. there is no commitment with "i love you" without a ring. be prepared for the worst then you will never regret anything. think about it, what if you moved there and broke up...you would go through all that finacial trouble and going away from your home and family.
2007-09-05 15:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, HELL no. I wouldn't completely uproot myself unless there were marriage plans in the offing.
Imagine being homesick and thousands of miles from all your friends and family, and then this relationship ends. It would be terrible for you.
2007-09-13 14:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you want to continue dating then go but if you get in a big fight and you dont think you can recover then where does that put you...somewhere in th UK when your family is in the US...but if its the type of guy you can work things out with then goooooooooooooo
2007-09-05 15:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ring, no go. You deserve to know where this relationship is going. And if he doesn't know, then don't bother . He may realize later what he lost and come to his senses.
2007-09-13 12:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not without a ring
2007-09-05 15:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by hisbabygirl95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would nevr move for a guy that i wasnt gonna marry. Thats kinda pointless.
2007-09-13 14:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋