soooo. i have a friend whos kinda close, her names Alyssa and she and this guy shane started liking each other. this weekend we all met up at a party and they were both having second thoughts about each other, and she was telling me how she was kind of confused about the whole thing, and she was going to see how everything went. (keep in mind that they never hooked up or became official yet)
I got really wasted and so was shane, and about 10 of us went to another one of my friends house to crash. (her parents were out of town and we're 16 soo it might not seem like a big deal to some older people but it kind of was) but alyssa didnt go. Andd me and shane ended up hooking up, we just didnt have sex because we sort of got interrupted.
I never would've done it if i was sober, and i feel really bad about it because we're keeping it a secret from Alyssa. The problem is i don't think i regret it and i might have feelings for him... should i feel bad about this? what should I do??
2007-09-05 15:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by Yasmin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not right to behave the way you did almost hooking up with him. You are only 16 why are you out getting drunk almost sleeping with someone? You don't want to do something you will regret. You have a lot more life to live and don't need to be drunk for people to like you. My father once told me...Clothes and toys last a short while but friends are forever. Drunk or not you should have known your friend likes him and that is territory you should not touch. You need to move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Next time do not let alcohol control you. It is a very dangerous thing and impairs your judgement as you can see.
2007-09-05 15:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to tell you something! when my oldest child was born it was only 30 days after my eightenth birthday my wife was only seventeen. My wife became pregnant at the age sixteen i was only seventeen and now im 29! You think about the trouble's of will my friend be mad at me? Well to awnser yea i bet she is going to be pretty ticked off! But think about what really could of happened? Im not trying to be a jerk truelly and i appoligise if i am but i know the consiquence's of what could of happened and i had to work extremely hard to get where i am today so quit the drinking ,leave your friends potentional gf/bf alone and study hard in school because life outside of what 9th grade is very different! Good luck with your friend and all that!
2007-09-05 22:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by vkusta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and she don't then go for what you know! Just tell her that if she don't want him then you will take him. I don't think that she will get mad due to the fact that they were not sexually involved and then she was having second thoughts about him in the first place. Why should she? You know what I mean?
2007-09-13 21:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Janell P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a lesson
Stay sober
and be glad you were interrupted
2007-09-05 22:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋