Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

I have been seeing someone for about 3-4 months. I love him, but I still haven't told him the truth. I was born with a female internal reproductive system. I have a uterus, cervix, etc. But I have a male external reproductive system, meaning I have a penis. It works perfectly fine and I can pass as female, but he still doesn't know.

When and how should I tell him? Also, I won't be getting a sex change any time soon, so don't suggest it please.

2007-09-05 14:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 30 y/o male and my wife is 31 - we have a 16 month old child together and haven't had sex in 2 months - in fact, we've only had sex 5 times this year - how concerned should I be and what can I do?

2007-09-05 14:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 14:54:30 · 1 answers · asked by crazy s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is BI, & she's dating a chick right now. I'm str8. Her girlfriend gets jealous because she feels that my friend pays more attention to me than her, but she's been my friend for many years, & she doesn't intend on marrying this girl. My friend's girlfriend has many friends, & my friend is my only friend. If my friend turns against me for her girlfriend, who she's thinking about dumpoing anyway because of her girlfriend's immaturity, then I'll have no friends & no one to emotionally support me. My family doesn't even support me. Her girlfriend dislikes me & makes fun of me & is trying everything in her power to turn my friend against me, & I'm scared. Why can't we all be a happy family? Why does there have to be hate & choosing?

***If you were in my friend's position, would you leave a perfectly good friendship with me for a chick you're dating but can't get along with or leave your woman & remain friends if you felt forced to CHOOSE? I'm not trying to make her choose.

2007-09-05 14:54:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-05 14:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

I've noticed that a lot of guys, from my ex-boyfriend, to a guy I've got out on a couple dates with to my brother will call me, but not leave a message. WHY?

If they rang me, obviously they must have wanted something.

When my females friends call, 99.9% of the time they leave a message even if it's just, "Hey Lynn. Just wanted to say hi and see how you're doing. Later".

Why can't guys do the same?!

2007-09-05 14:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by o.O 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a teenage guy. When a boy likes you do you give signs for him, so he knows and he'll ask you out or do you let him do all the work and not give a hint that you like him.

2007-09-05 14:43:53 · 5 answers · asked by Luke N 2 in Singles & Dating

if u got a great family..with loving parents, sisters and brothers..
they take really good care of u...they are your everything and all your life u feel they are the only love u have in this world u can't live without them...!!!

but out of a sudden u met this guys that are really good to u and wants to married u....
how do u deal with the feeling of leaving your own great family and married this guys...?

2007-09-05 14:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by nightowls 4 in Marriage & Divorce

in the catholic church, i heard that the pastor may choose to put limitations on the music that can be used as long as the mass music are religious, but still choose whatever hymns they so desire, since hymns may mean different things to different couples. as for the processional music, shouldnt they be able to use tunes from movies, or others, classic not real populare for weddings or tunes not used at the typical wedding tunes.

2007-09-05 14:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-05 14:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my son wants to ask his girlfriend to go to Homecoming, but he wants to do it in a way that he can surprise her. He mentioned that a friend of his bought a cookie cake and asked his girlfriend with the writing on the cake that read "Will you go to Homecoming with me?". So he wants to ask her in a way she'll remember. But keep in mind he has a small budget. He still has to buy a homecoming mum, tickets to the game, tickets to the dance...etc, etc, etc. or cha-ching! I know there are lots of people out there with cute ideas for a highschool boy.

Best answer get's...well...you know...10 points.

Thanks a bunch.
Abby

2007-09-05 14:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 in Weddings

I am 17 years old and I went to biology class today. My best female friend was sitting behind me and I turned around to ask her something when I turned around and I looked eyes with this handsome guy! It was for a few seconds that we looked into each other's eyes... then I turned back. After class we didn't look back at each other and I just left class.
What could this mean?!
THank you! <3

2007-09-05 14:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

well i will call them girl one and girl two for um identity purposes....

well girl 1:
i have known her for over a year, and i realy think she is pritty and she gets a PERFECT 10 on my scale (i dont mean to sound heartless or label, im just sorta trying to illistrate something; and i know looks arent everything....) well i asked her to homecoming last year with flowers, and the whole enchilada (i knnow im romantic...jk) and she said, no cause i knew her for like 2 mo. so i guess she was tramatized, and didnt talk to eachother till second semester... and now were like best friends, and joke around and have lots of classes together and sit next to eachother, and now we work togeather on projects and stuff. so i wanna ask her again this year since im a senior and this is my last chance.... i just dont wanna mess up our strong friendship. she has a funny sense of humor and we realy click

Girl 2:
(look at additinal info)

2007-09-05 14:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...but whom he lied to about being married?

If there was no sex, it was only a couple of dates, a few phone calls and emails over a couple of weeks, and the second she found out he was married she tore him a new one and dropped his sorry ***. Would you still think she was a 'ho?

2007-09-05 14:26:22 · 29 answers · asked by Singinganddancing 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is self-employed and rents a booth in a nail salon. She called me yesterday at my office (my business partner was in my office during the call) to tell me that the salon owner was going to close down her salon. My wife will have to relocate her business to another salon.

Last night she asked me if I said anything to my business partner about her having to relocate her business. I told her I did, he (my partner) heard me saying, "Oh honey, that's ok, you'll find another salon".

My wife went ballistic and accused me of telling the whole world our personal family secrets. I told her that this situation doesn't qualify as a "family secret". She said to her, it was as personal as if I had talked about her period or what kind of sex we had.

Additional info: My partner's sister is a client of my wife.

This behavior makes absolutely no sense to me, completely irrational from my point of view. This type behavior happens every 3 to 4 months.

I'm lost, any insight?

2007-09-05 14:23:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had been together over 2 years. The past few times we have fought it's because he lies about stuff or screws up.. and i get mad etc... then he decides he is on vacation from our relationship does not call for 3 or 4 days then when hes done calls and i wimp out and forgive him. I cant take it anymore its hurting too bad i want to move on... but like i said 2 years...feels like a lifetime exspecially since im 19. Anybody got good advice??? should i give in again or get over it...and how?

2007-09-05 14:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by SB1988 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well there is this boy i like at school. and he is really nice to and we hang out alot just not in "that" way . we are just friend. i have recently had feeling for him. how can i get his attention or have him ask me out before i do. i dont wanna make a fool of myself or get heartbroken. so i know its kinda of a dumb question but any help would be awesome from you guys.

2007-09-05 14:19:08 · 1 answers · asked by Pixie. 3 in Singles & Dating

None of our family is invited, it appears to be their family vacation with a wedding thrown in. I have a large, close family and would like to share the joy with them. How can I voice my concerns (I know it's not about me, but I don't think this is my son's wish either)

2007-09-05 14:14:18 · 16 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Weddings

To go with the disposable cameras on the tables at the reception, we are putting a list at each table of things the guests could try to take pictures of -- like a photo scavenger hunt. I found this idea on eBay, but instead of paying $50 plus shipping to cover my 25 tables, I decided to create my own; plus this lets me customize the suggestions on the card so each table is a little different. Below are the existing ideas, but we're hoping to have some really funny ones, ridiculous ones, etc. to add to it. We want this get the guests to relax and have fun with each other. Any ideas???

Existing ideas:

--Group photo of your table
--Artistic shot of your dinner
--Best Dancer
--Biggest Smile
--Bride and Groom dancing
--Maid of Honor helping Bride
--Child sleeping
--Groom watching Bride from a distance
--Bride and Groom laughing
--The First Dance
--The Wedding Cake
--Groom playing with his ring
--Groom dancing with his mom
--Bride and Groom cutting the cake
--Toast to the newlyweds

2007-09-05 14:13:25 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Weddings

2007-09-05 14:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does " Im not ready for a relationship" really mean "im not ready for a relationship with YOU"

back story -
he is 38, i am 27 (so please no High School answers, thanks)
met 2 months ago. talked on the phone everyday (him calling me) saw each other a few times a week. slept over some weekends. everything was good, he was affectionate, nice. About a month in i told him I "liked" him. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship and went MIA for a few days (the only time since we met that i hadnt talked with him at least once a day) when he re-appeared he said (among other things) that he didnt want me to fall in love with him, but still wanted to be friends. weve talked since then, but only every few days. ive seen him, but its been different. I guess what i want to know from you guys is: did i scare him away? is he just not into me in that way? or do i give it time? Im about to just give it up (it does occur to me that maybe that is what he would like me to do) what do ya'll think

2007-09-05 14:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by sttunnner 1 in Singles & Dating

She has her own place but stays at the boyfriends house on the weekends because they do not live close. What if anything would you expect her to pay for?
Thanks to all who answer.

2007-09-05 14:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by KAT 4 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy i really like and hes really hot!!!!! He just moved here and i met him about a week ago.....but he has a girl friend.... we are always talk and texting and IMing each other!!!!!! one time we stayed up late on a school night just texting!.... we always meet up at the pool house and other places to talk and hang out... sometimes he talks about his girlfriend though,,,,,, we comunicate a lot but how can i tell if he likes me!!????

guys - what do you do if you like a girl.. ??
girls- what have you ever noticed about guys when they like you??

guys, have you ever broke up with a girl for another girl??
and also how can i help make him like me?? flirt probley..but in what way????



PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-05 14:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by Bethany 3 in Singles & Dating

Is this done before or after death?

2007-09-05 14:10:02 · 2 answers · asked by baby sister 1 in Family

I have been engaged for 6 months and with this guy for 2 years. We live together and have for a long ime now. I came home early the other day and he was looking at other men on the internet. He says that it is not that he is gay, just that he finds all kinds of sex stimulating. Is this a crock of crap or not?

2007-09-05 14:09:58 · 3 answers · asked by closgirl831 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 14:07:08 · 32 answers · asked by magicdust 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 14:07:07 · 15 answers · asked by Doug 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl i really want to tell her how i feel but i dont want her to feel awkward

2007-09-05 14:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to make friends with a guy at school but i don't know what u guys look for in girls exactly... any opinions? what do you like/not like about girls?

2007-09-05 14:02:24 · 8 answers · asked by sugar1092 2 in Singles & Dating

It all started exactly a year ago. My parents have a house in mexico which they visit every weekend. Their neighbor who also owns a home and visits every weekend is this guy which I ended up hanging out with a year ago. We played pool, and the next day he came over and took me or a motorcycle ride. Nothing Happend,but I though he was intererested and I gave him my#. He never called, and I did no visit my parents home until this weekend. Again.. we ended up hanging out except this time things went quite far. The next morning he came by and invited me to the beach, we spent a couple of hours together, he was being affectionate... He asked when I would be returning and I said "Not sure" that I would try to come more often. So.. He dropped me off, kiss me good-bye and we left it at ' I'll see you later".I did not offer my # again seeing that he never called last time I gave it to him. I'm confused as to his actions. If he wanted a one night stand why did he return? Is he interested or not?

2007-09-05 14:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating