My best friend is BI, & she's dating a chick right now. I'm str8. Her girlfriend gets jealous because she feels that my friend pays more attention to me than her, but she's been my friend for many years, & she doesn't intend on marrying this girl. My friend's girlfriend has many friends, & my friend is my only friend. If my friend turns against me for her girlfriend, who she's thinking about dumpoing anyway because of her girlfriend's immaturity, then I'll have no friends & no one to emotionally support me. My family doesn't even support me. Her girlfriend dislikes me & makes fun of me & is trying everything in her power to turn my friend against me, & I'm scared. Why can't we all be a happy family? Why does there have to be hate & choosing?
***If you were in my friend's position, would you leave a perfectly good friendship with me for a chick you're dating but can't get along with or leave your woman & remain friends if you felt forced to CHOOSE? I'm not trying to make her choose.
2007-09-05 14:54:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would never stay in a romantic relationship where I felt that I had to give up my friends. That is one of the danger signs of a bad relationship.
I think your friend needs to dump this "girlfriend" fast if she is not completely happy with her.
2007-09-05 19:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not pass after a guy who has a female pal except he's your ex boyfriend guy 2, shy and quiet type are maximum probable not jerks or gamers i think of guy 2 certainly LIKES YOU, he's basically waiting which you would be able to make the 1st flow
2016-10-18 02:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to your friend about it, and how you don't like her and she obviously doesn't like her. If she gets mad at you, just try and explain how they would feel if it was happening to them.
And, no, I wouldn't leave a good friendship for someone who hates who I like.
2007-09-05 14:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be supportive of her. and if i were her i would dump the chick because friendships last longer than relationships usually.
2007-09-05 14:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by serendipity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would pick my friend I know so much better and really care about.
2007-09-05 15:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe a friend would stick with you always.Just my belief
2007-09-05 15:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can really sympathize with you here, but its all out of your hands. only she can decide this/
2007-09-05 15:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by sallyp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋