It all started exactly a year ago. My parents have a house in mexico which they visit every weekend. Their neighbor who also owns a home and visits every weekend is this guy which I ended up hanging out with a year ago. We played pool, and the next day he came over and took me or a motorcycle ride. Nothing Happend,but I though he was intererested and I gave him my#. He never called, and I did no visit my parents home until this weekend. Again.. we ended up hanging out except this time things went quite far. The next morning he came by and invited me to the beach, we spent a couple of hours together, he was being affectionate... He asked when I would be returning and I said "Not sure" that I would try to come more often. So.. He dropped me off, kiss me good-bye and we left it at ' I'll see you later".I did not offer my # again seeing that he never called last time I gave it to him. I'm confused as to his actions. If he wanted a one night stand why did he return? Is he interested or not?
2007-09-05 14:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's interested in what he's getting, not a relationship. If you want a relationship you need to ask something of him before you give it all away. Otherwise, he'll think it's fine, and maybe you just want casual sex too.
2007-09-05 14:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize a guy does have his needs. It does seem that he finds you attractive, but not to have a relationship with. If he really wanted something along those lines... he'd do anything and everything to keep in touch with you. I hate to burst your bubble but guys will go that extra mile just to get some.
2007-09-05 21:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweet39kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably interested, and maybe lost your number. However, don't make any further gestures. If he comes to you, then go for it. If not, don't continue to pursue it. And DOn't let things go "quite far" again. Make him work for it. You have a right to know his intentions before putting yourself out there like that.
2007-09-05 21:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by closgirl831 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's interested in hooking up with you, but not in a relationship. It's a fling.
2007-09-05 21:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants a hook-up buddy.
2007-09-05 21:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋