She has her own place but stays at the boyfriends house on the weekends because they do not live close. What if anything would you expect her to pay for?
Thanks to all who answer.
2007-09-05 14:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by KAT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on the money situation, who makes/has more. Also, whether he has roommates that are being inconvenienced (in which case HE should pick up a little more of the utilities, to cover his guest). Remember, she's probably paying for all the travel to get there, right?
If they have around the same amount of money, she really shouldn't pay for too much because of her travel expenses, but maybe when they go shopping for food for the weekend they should split it, or she should pay sometimes. Again, this really depends on the circumstances.
If it were my son asking this question, I would say he certainly should NOT expect money, if his enjoyment is substantial enough for her to be there at all. A gentleman who wants a houseguest should be able to afford a houseguest, in my opinion.
2007-09-05 14:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she shouldn't have to pay - I'd hope that she would let him stay at her place for free on the weekends if needed! She's not living there full time, but maybe ask if she can pay for outings a bit more...
2007-09-05 21:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is something that is give and take and more so give then take. Why would someone charge their girlfriend to be at their house if she is there to spend time with him. If that's the case, then she needs to move on because the time that it takes for her to get there and the transportation money,whether it gas or a ticket already cost enough. She should let him go!!
2007-09-05 21:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I woundnt think that the boyfriend would charge his girlfriend to come over to his house onthe weekends especially if she lives far its like she is coming to spend time with him since there is a distance in between the two he should be glad that he gets to see her due to the distance that they have apart. I dont kkno that juss seems like really strange. Good Luck
2007-09-05 21:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by SexieIndianPrincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLO Kat: No NO No, just came home from my first time meeting a lady and ,no I paid even the gas to go din and din and all weekend best time in a long time thats why i have not been here ,, <>R<>
2007-09-05 23:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by traylorrandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.
I dont think she would expect anything from you either if you stayed over at her house.
Maybe you could expect a good nite in bed hehe But other than that, i dont think she should have to pay to see u.
2007-09-05 21:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt expect to pay anything if i stayed at my bfs, maybe help out and buy some food to eat but bills wise, no. maybe they should take turns staying at eachothers house
2007-09-05 21:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by daisycm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't have to pay for anything unless she offers, she has the expense of traveling. Why don't they take turns on the traveling?
2007-09-05 21:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by kerrbear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing
2007-09-05 21:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if they're going out then they shud be together. but if she's USING him then maybe he should go to her house for a change
2007-09-05 21:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋