I must have some of the worst luck with women. I have been trying to get off of the singles list for a while and every chance I've had has ended up badly. From things like me saying the wrong thing to other guys making their move just slightly faster than me, its just a nightmare I can't wake up from.
Sometimes it's that I meet them then they don't want to talk to me, sometimes I find someone and they move far away. Anyone have some sort of answer to break this bad luck streak???
2007-09-05 15:10:46 · 22 answers · asked by wcwnwo_4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you're not confident enough. and you're trying too hard.
stop thinking about getting a girl and start concentrating on things that you want to do with your life like a career move or going to school for something or learning how to sail or snowboard.
you'll feel more confident when you gain new skills, you'll have something to bring to a conversation and you can also meet girls doing these things.
The more you concentrate on other things, the more you will find that a girl will just happen to come along and you'll be quick enough to snatch her up.
good luck
2007-09-05 15:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as good luck!
Maybe those girls just weren't the ones for you!
I'm sure that you never called a girl a fat ugly cow, or told her that you don't like her momma! lol How wrong of a thing could you say?
that special lady is out there. she may not look like Gwen Stephanie or Beyounce, but she has a warm down to earh
beauty that raduates from her soul. She is there. Maybe at church, maybe in an evening class, maybe volunteering to help a food bank, the homeless, or needed children.
Keep the faith. Just pray for the right one, not just anyone.
Keep yourself clean, neat, and striving to be the best you can be, eductionally, physically, spiritually and on the job. Have dreams and goals and a plan to achieve them.
Don't brag though. Ask questions about her dreams and goals too.
2007-09-05 15:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a bad luck streak. I do however think you are trying to hard to get a girl. Take it easy, she's out there for you. not gonna be easy in this day and time. being single isnt so bad, is it?
so now you should just be your self. no fake side. don't pretend to be something or someone you're not. girls can read into this.....easily.
I feel you are sincere, and wish you the best of luck.
2007-09-05 15:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by booboobearus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you what worked for me after 7 years of what you have been going through. I sat myself down and wrote a long description of the "perfect guy for me"... very realistic - nothing crazy... I listed in "faults" I would be okay with and "positives" that I couldn't live without. I meditated/prayed over what I had written... and within 6 months - I found the guy!! We've been together over 6 years now... married and happy.
2007-09-05 15:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be yourself. The right girl will come along at the right moment. You didn't say how old you are or where you're trying to meet these women at. Sometimes people can sense if you're desperate. The key is to portray lot's of confidence. If you don't have confidence - fake it! You're being too hard on yourself.....just relax and smile alot.
2007-09-05 15:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by KeysGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only answer is to keep trying. It might be bad luck or even bad choice of girls. You could try going to a different place to meet some new types.
2007-09-05 15:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, quit looking at it as a bad luck streak. it's nothing more than it's just not right yet. Be patient - you'll meet her. If you try to force something, it never works. Patience is the key.
2007-09-05 15:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Susan G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me - we've ALL been there at one time or another...
Unfortunately, women can smell DESPERATION a mile away - and it is a HUGE turnoff for them!
It's surprising what a little confidence can do - just go out one night with NO expectation of meeting anyone, and odds are that it will happen ;);););)
2007-09-05 15:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get a woman is to give up on trying. Women respond to nonchalance/confidence and are turned off by neediness. Hang out with your friends, don't go after women, and carry yourself with confidence. It always worked for me.
2007-09-05 15:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by amancalledj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just curious why do you think you're doing/saying the wrong thing?
A challenge...
Take a look at what might be getting in the way of your confidence?
What is most unique about you that others don't have?
Your place of confidence (your power to draw others to you) is celebrating and knowing what is most unique about you.
2007-09-05 16:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋