well i have been with this boy for about 2 years nd he has done like alot of lieing to me in the past to make me not trust him hes hidden something from me for a year and a half and i found out not too long ago... but u know i forgave him for it .. it was really something big.. but i didnt think he would do that to me again.. and i dont think he would.
but anyways now me and him are having problems he says in to controllig cus i dont let him do what he wants because he has lost his trust towards me big time cus all he does is lie to me and texts gurls and not me.. and i dont know what to do i love him so much but now we broke up and i herd this gurl likes him.. and wants to go out with him.
im going threw alot right now and hes not even here for me..
i have gave him everything and now i need help.. i jus keep crying everynight.. i love him so much and he dosnt realize like hes been smoking pot and treating me like crap... hanging out with other gurls..what should i do?
2007-09-05 16:11:29 · 3 answers · asked by Christy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems your relationship was going down a rough road for a while now, If you forgave him for maybe cheatering on you! Well that was a huge mistake, there is no such thing as forgiveness when someone cheats! EVER! Once a cheater always a cheater! and Never believe different!!!
I think from what you have told us in your question, I would say your lucky you never stayed with him long enough to be marring him, because from the things you have said, he's nothing but a selfish inconsiderate pig, and that Yes it hurts you! but your young and full of life and the right guy will come into your life and sweep you right off your feet! You deserve way better!
Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are and just forget that you ever knew him! You will be OK in a few weeks and living life to the fullest again, A break up doesn't mean the end of the world, you learned from it, and it will make you that much stronger for what ever bumps you may encounter in the road to life! Walking away from a bad relationship makes you the better person, trying to hang on to a bad one will just make you miserable and unhappy and it will destroy your own self respect! Does he have the right to see or know your unhappy? HELL NO!!!
Don't give him the pleasure! be strong! Act like it didn't mean anything too you in the first place, Let him feel bad for being such a selfish pig that he is!!! Let everyone know what kind of a guy he really is!!!
2007-09-05 16:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all of this as an answered prayer that you did not marry this guy. He is not worth the time you are wasting on him. Go out and find a real man that will treat you right. You deserve it!
Good luck!
2007-09-05 16:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this user and find someone who will put you first.
2007-09-05 17:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋