There is strong chemistry. You really like him. You both are extremely sexually attracted to each other and there is a mutual respect. The only thing is that you just met each other (1 week) so you really don't know his motives yet. He is willing have sex (he is a guy ....duh). Nevertheless, he is not pressuring you. You want have sex too, but you don’t want to be looked at as easy, and you don’t it to be just a “sex buddy” relationship. Do you follow the lust and do it anyways, or do you exercise self control?
2007-09-05 16:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is NO reason why your should even feel you have to rush into anything. Why should you?! You've ONLY known him for ONE week. You sure don't want him IF the only reason is for sex. You can get sex anywhere/anytime. BUT, you can't always find a respectable/true/honest relationship "any time". They are few & far between. Why don't you just wait & see what he truly has to offer. See if he cares for you or just wants you for a bed partner. Put him to the test & how just how much RESPECT he does show for you. You'll soon find out if he wants you for. Wouldn't you feel so much better to find out you got a real "keeper", one who actually wants you for you, not some other bimbo for a bed partner who ends up going no where, doing nothing but ending up rolling in bed for your dates. If there is a definate attraction there, it's going to stay there & not go anywhere. Give yourself a chance to actually go on dates, do things, go places, take the time to make friends. Too many b/f or g/f things just don't last because you really don't get to know one another first, I feel you need to be friends first then be lovers. But then that's me. Do what your heart tells you to do. Keep your "I" over your "E", your intelligence over your emotions. Then see where it leads to. Just a suggestion from someone who's had mega experiences throughout life, Best to you in every waylll
2007-09-06 16:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't just "do it," I make it very special. If he does, too, then we've really got something. I was in bed with My Steve much quicker than that, and we stayed together over 20 years. If it's right, it's right.
As Steve said, a man doesn't want his lady to play hard to get: only hard, really impossible, for any other man to get!
2007-09-06 08:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self control all the way, dont risk getting hurt.
2007-09-05 23:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
self control for sure. eventually you're gonne fall for him, and if you don't know his motives, he can easily hurt you. wait a while
2007-09-05 23:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, just have sex. have fun and see what happens.
2007-09-05 23:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋