i met a guy online...we've known each other for about 8 months now...and i have met him in person once (for a coffee) 2 months ago. since that day...we keep in touch very regularly.....we speak on the phone everday.
we feel pretty close to each other & he has suggested several times that we should meet up soon....he even invited me to his house to taste his cooking...but he knows that i am very much busy with my studies and thesis now & so i haven't been able to accept his invitations.
however he has asked me my exam dates...to see whether i would be able to spare one saturday for him.
he's one of those people who loves to surround himself with friends & he's one of the nicest guys i've ever met....he is so sweet to everyone even those who annoy him!
so...now my question is:
DO U THINK THIS GUY IS LOOKING 4 A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME??
OR
DO U THINK HE'S JUST BEING FRIENDLY WITH ME??
2007-09-05 16:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends met on-line cannot be necessarily true. But you are in touch with him for the past eight months which is enough for a person to understand and know about the whereabouts of that person.
Have you met his parents? Does his parents know about your relationship? Have you told this to someone else? Atleast have you met any of his friends?
Because just by meeting through net and having a coffee does not assure the character of that person. He may have well acted before you. If you want you can accept his invitation and go to his home, provided, ask him to invite more friends and arrange for mini party like thing. Alone is not safe as far as I am considered.
I am not saying that he is completely fake or cheat. But still you dont know about his entire history. Ask him to invite more friends as you like it or ask him to invite you when his parents are there. If you want your relationship to be healthy and inspiring, certain things should be avoided. He may be having some fantacies in his mind about you but as a girl you should be more alert. Because the age is like that. It never takes reason to justify anything. If anything goes wrong, he will be having his own reasons to explain and you will be having your own words to curse yourself. You know, prevention is better than cure.
Do you want his relationship to be fruitful and everlasting or break-up inbetween due to an incident? You decide... because the decider is more practical than the adviser...
Good luck.
2007-09-05 17:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Shinoj Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both!.........He sounds like a good guy but I would definetely not go to his Apt for the first date to "taste his cooking".
Meet a few more times in a public place, meet some of his friends. I'm sure you could make time for him if you were interested..........Sounds like you're afraid of "something!".. You should have had one more question on your list.
Might possibly have to do with sex. Hey, if you're as aware and careful as you can be, go for it!..Double date? to start.
He's probably an ok guy.
2007-09-06 00:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on studies without divided attention. Unnecessarily u r getting entrapped. He is as unreliable as any clever selfish boy of today to use u for a fun & throw. He is neither friendly nor wanting to have lifelong marriage relationship. Only u r rating him too high. He is nothing for u. Be careful.
2007-09-06 05:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the real ans u need to meet him then only u will come to know for sure...By all the details u hav given...not sure right now but as he is showing interest in u..he could be interested in some relationship with u.
2007-09-06 20:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust anyone these days and that you have met him on-line proves that you are susceptible to anything or anyone.
I would NEVER think of meeting him behind closed doors.
He could be another Jeffery Dahmer or Ted Bundy. Striking young men with killer instincts.
Not to spook you but to enlighten you.
BE CAREFUL
2007-09-05 23:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by simpleminded 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move ahead n c 4 urself
2007-09-06 10:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Atieno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, instead agree to meet him at a hotel or public place. It is not advisable to go to his house, the cooking can wait.
2007-09-06 02:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you asked the same question two times...
Hay.,.. first belive your heart and think yourself he is right or not? Feelings in the internet also true when you and he talk Only truths.. which is not like just passing time..
2007-09-06 02:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by ashok r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going for fun. go on, and invite disaster.
2007-09-06 00:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is male he wants to have sex
after sex he might have a relationship
2007-09-05 23:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋