hey are there any guys who have never had sex before, and are proud of it? I am in my late teens, been asked out by every type of guy, yet they all share the fact that they have all had sex. are there no real gentlemen out there who will wait to have sex for the first time with their wife when they get married? that is what i'm trying to do, and what i know is right, yet i am loosing hope that i will ever find a man like this. are they out there?
2007-09-05 13:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by shittalkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will be surprised at how many people your age who braggs about having all sorts of sex and in reality never got past 2nd base with a woman. There are a lot of people in general who are sexually active at a young age, but many young men are afraid to admit to being a virgin out of fear of being mocked and made fun of.
2007-09-05 13:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I'm a male and I haven't had sex, I'm also 22 years old. I'm proud of it. Why you might ask, its because I plan on waiting until marriage to do it and I look for a female that believes the same. She may not be a virgin but if she doesn't pressure me into doing it, then thats the kind of girl I go after.
I'm also a rare breed, I am a gentelmen, i open doors for the ladies, pullout chairs and all the good stuff. Its just that i choose to wait. I am also a Christian, open minded, and very nice. I also like to listen.
2007-09-05 13:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by John H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was reading some of the above answers and you should NEVER lower your standards. Virginity is sacred and should be saved for marriage. If you have sex before marrige you lose a piece of you that you will NEVER get back. You should wait so that, that piece of you will stay with your spouse forever, instead of having another man walking around with it. Believe me, from experience, you want to keep your virginity for as long as possible because it's something you can be proud of. Respect yourself!
2007-09-05 13:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some out there, try to find religious guys. That would improve your chances.
And also, just because I have had sex doesnt mean that I am not a gentleman...
2007-09-05 13:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id on no account have intercourse with a woman I wasnt particularly in love with.. some adult men are pigs and a brilliant form of it has to do with Male superiority. Im a Christian and that i care greater approximately faith than a one evening Stand.. So no longer ALL adult men are like that.
2016-10-10 01:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that is a wonderful thing your doing. Never give up hope, there is someone there for you, you can take that to the bank, (in other words, that is the solid truth.) You hang in there and stop looking for him and oneday, all of a sudden, BANG! There he'll be for you. Your so precious.
2007-09-05 13:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
33 yrs old
I have not had sex. Not necesarily waiting for marriage but I am waiting to find someone that I share an emotional connection with.
2007-09-05 13:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would be surprised.
I've had hundreds of opportunities to lose my virginity over the past 6 years or so with plenty of beautiful girls (i'm 20), but i was never once tempted to go the distance: i have more dignity and self-control than that.
the thing is, a 'boy' lets his sex life define him by constantly trying to satisfy it with any girl possible, wheras a 'man' defines his, he is the one in control instead of being controlled by it.
I am more pleased with myself than i am proud.
2007-09-05 13:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy has had sex doesn't mean he's not a gentleman. You never know how in love he was with that woman.
2007-09-05 13:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by TXboy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are those that want to save sex. you just have to wait and find the right guy. if you lower your standards and explore a little you will find plenty.
2007-09-05 13:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋