ok so i broke up with my ex bf a month ago and he was ok with it.then a couple days ago we were talking on AIM and he said "i miss you".so i didnt know what to say so i didnt really answer.but i said "ok so what are you expecting me to say" and he said "idk.....something like get over me...but i was hoping i miss you too." so i was like "ummm well i dont know how to respond to that" and he just said "ok well i just had to say it" it was kinda creeping me out.so i told one of my good friends and shes really good friends with my ex and she called him and asked what happened and i was on the same line so i heard everything and he said stuff like "i dont miss her anymore" and "shes over reacting".i was like WTF. and me and my friend are going to visit a high school so we can see our friends from middle school tomorrow.and hes gonna be there and its gonna be really weirddd. :[ what should i do???
2007-09-05 13:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just so you know, he misses you, but when confronted we can pretend that we dont have feminine feelings... nothings weird unless you let it steer in that direction... it might be a little weird. but you can talk to him and say whats up, either that and become friends with him or never talk to him again... thats your choice
2007-09-05 13:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys have two different sides to them. they might want to save face in front of their friends, but tell you something else. they don't wanna be the guy who misses their ex-gf after being dumped. it "ruins their rep". my suggestion is that if you think what he told you is true, then ask him if he said "she's overreacting" to your friend. if he says no, you'll know the truth and should move on from someone who'll hide what they're feeling and has two separate sides. if he admits it, maybe you'll have a chance to talk it out.
2007-09-05 13:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by De 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that it is nothing, that means it is something to him, but he doesn't want anyone to knw about it. So just act like you don't know anything that was said to your friend. If he wants to say anything else about it, then go from there. If not, then just let it go.
2007-09-05 13:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by closgirl831 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual be quickly forward to him You tell him, he the two delivers the attention a female pal could desire to get and precedence over the girls or you're basically going to be acquaintances and additionally you apart from could think of roughly what I wrote
2016-10-18 02:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. For real. He's just trying to get your attention to see how it feels, because it probably feels good to him. You sound young enough, don't look back, look forward. :-)
2007-09-05 13:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋