I am in m 20's. Never had a boyfriend before. My first current boyfriend saw me at a wedding, and wanted to organise to meet me. Don't know what took him so long, it had been 6 months later when they organised us to meet at someone else's house. So he asked someone for my phone number, they got my permission first. I was like ah i have nothing to lose.
So i went out with him. Been seeing him for a month and a bit.
At first i was scared, freaking out about a few things, like:
* why doesn't he look like this guy (only ever felt attracted to guys for their looks - now with my current bf looks don't matter anymore) the strange thing was that i started checking out other men.
* What if he isn't it - can i find anyone better than him. (even though he is a real gentleman - he respects me, says he loves me and doesn't only want me for the reason to get into my pants - most guys would stare and treat me like a piece of meat). I was also like, why did this guy want to meet me and date me?
2007-09-05 13:06:32 · 7 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may or may not be the one for you, but use this relationship to gain the understanding of what you are looking for in a date so you will have a better idea of what you want.
Also use it to build up your self confidence. Men are more likely to want to date a woman who is confident and knows what she wants.
2007-09-13 08:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Randy C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like your current boyfriend for sure.. You can open your door for some other guy that makes you gain your confidence and feel comfortable with while you are getting along to each other. You are too young to stick to a guy that don't seem you like. Make some fun and enjoy your life. But don't forget to know your limitations for any situations. Gain more friends then you find out what you are looking for. Good luck!
2007-09-13 19:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men are insecure too. Maybe that's why he didn't ask before. On the things you are concerned...
1. Don't get fixated on looks, from personal experience I can tell you they don't matter when you fall for someone. I'm a Latina who never liked white boys, my husband is as white as it come...
2. If he's not the one? Well. you will never know if you don't try. If he's not, think that you are young and you get as many chances as you want to get "the one" for you.
2007-09-13 19:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by lunna_traviesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It apears that he likes you for you. He is fully interested in a long and loving relationship. Be honest with your self and him though. If you are catching your self looking at other guys your heart is not in it, and he is at a deeper level than you. Its not fair for him to be played. If he is offering all of him you should try and do the same or let him go. Don't hold on to him just in case no one else comes along.
2007-09-13 18:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God know's what his reason's were. Maybe for some reason he thought you were nice. Why you checking out other guy's? Get your head on straight girl! Do ya need blinder's? Where's your boundarie's?! If you're not that interested in him then don't string him along. He's not your puppet.
2007-09-13 19:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be exact special, like him. That's why.
Happy for you and him.
2007-09-13 20:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously sees something in you that you don't, be happy and enjoy your time with him
2007-09-13 05:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋