Errgghh friend has no etiquette, help?

Question

Ok, so I have this friend named Lila and sometimes I ask her to pick me up when we are doing stuff together. Tomorrow there is a club meeting and since my mom is out of the country and my dad is working I asked her if she could take the notes for me at the club since i wont be going. She said maybe I will ask my mom if she can take you. I said gosh, but your mom is getting so annoyed of me. because she is she like hates me and My friend is chinese and she doesnt have a lot of other friends so she doesnt know anything about common courtesy so a few minutes later she called back and said" yeah my mom can take you but she is getting frustrated with you and she said that she won't do this in the future and this will be the last time..." little harsh dontcha think? and once she even told me what her mom said about me she said that her mom said " that you shouldnt hang around with her too much because she isnt the smart type, she is the type that doesnt take her grades seriously" .....errrrr

what should i do, what are some good comebacks that i should tell lila that make her feel bad for saying that stuff, cuz i mean if her mom says stuff about me id rather not know and im a good student, i get mostly As and a few Bs and I guess since im really friendly and energetic she takes me for a girl that doenst take stuff seriously. i want her to feel guilty because it almost seems as if she is trying to rub it in my face.....like she always brags that her mom earns three digits.......errrr and that isnt that big of a deal is it?

Answer 1

Your growing up, and your starting to understand this great big world, but your forgetting one important thing.... TAKE WHAT PEOPLE SAY WITH A GRAIN OF SALT!!! So important, realize her mom doesn't know you, her mom IS the reason she is so Naive, so expect her to say, do, and act kind of well, stupid... lol, same for her daughter. You should be "worldy" enough about people to understand that, and what it means for you. Which isn't much, just don't take them serious, understand were there coming from, and that chances are your in this girls life to help her with this... naivness, so do what you can (nicly) to correct her. Let her know how it makes you feel, give her a little heck once in a while in good fun, and just try to do your best to have fun with this, your in the right, your a good person, your normal for christ lovin sake, so help the kiddo out.....