I have know this guy for 6 months. When I ask him what are we he will say more than friend but not a gf. Then he will say he loves me more than a friend etc. I talked to his mom and he told her i'm his very good friend and he told two of his friends that i'm just his friend not gf. If he just want to be friends then why he is acting like my bf and telling me loves me more than a friend. I recently found out that he went to club and was dancing with my girls. I tricked his friend in finding the truth. His friend didn't knew I was his friend gf or good friend. So he said things about my bf such as he is flirt, smooth talker. I asked my bf and he said he is lieing and when his friend found out who i am he changed his whole story and said he was just talking crap to I guess impress me that he is a nice guy and his friend is not.
2007-09-05 13:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have stop talking to my bf and told him whatever we had it over. He swear on his mom he was not dancing. He never lie when he swear on his mom. Other time when he went to club if he danced with another girl he told me all about it and he was like I tell you everything and I have nothing to hide. I was heartbroken very much hurt. Now i just even hate the thought of him. Why he did this? Should i of believed him, why he says he loves me then tells others i'm just a good friend
2007-09-05 13:17:35 · update #1
the friend who told me is his friend who was with him that night. That friend didn't know he was my bf
2007-09-05 13:30:41 · update #2
follow your gut feeling. its usually right! and it sounds like he was ashamed of you or something, since he was telling everyone that you were just a FRIEND. forget him and move on! : )
2007-09-05 13:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by me, me, and me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, if you are really special to this guy, he would not have a problem admitting that you are his girlfriend. It seems to me like he is playing both ends against the middle. He says that he loves you more than a friend, yet you are not his girlfriend. What that tells me is that he is the average guy, he wants to be with you when it's convenient, but he won't commit because he wants to still keep his options open. I'm not saying that he doesn't have feelings for you, but he is being selfish because I think he keeps saying he loves you in order to keep you where he wants you, maybe he feels like he has to say it because that's what he thinks you want to hear. As far as all the he said/ she said, you have to use your own brain and stop involving extra people, they may make your situation even more complicated, and it's complicated enough. What you need to do is put your foot down with this guy, let him know that you don't have time to waste, and either it's all or nothing. As long as you accept his crap, he will keep right on dishing it out, believe me!
2007-09-13 19:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction is perplexing; you are acting like a jealous girlfriend in a situation I don't believe you have a right to.You have only known this guy for six months during which time he has been playing word games and mind games.If he loves you like he is claiming, what is so difficult about saying it all the time and in any climate----with his friends, his mother, you,---;I think his friend told you the truth initially no matter what he is trying to say now ( he is just attempting to fix things up with his friend). Unless you feel you are not worth much and can be abused, lied to, and toyed with, I suggest you forget a romance with him and move on with your life.This way you are open and receptive to a much nicer guy who may walk into your life.
2007-09-05 21:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not worth even giving a second thought. You shouldn't even be friends with him. Not enemies or anything but don't even give him the satisfaction that you care.
You don't want a guy who acts like that anyway.
2007-09-05 20:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by ?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey..i know you might not want to hear this but you need to leave him and find somebody that will love you in front of everybody. You deserve somebody better.
2007-09-13 17:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt believe him at all....Your friend wouldnt lie to you unless he wants you.Maybe he will come clean and yall can start over.
2007-09-05 20:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by lady bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toooooo much drama.........hes a hit and quit it type. He just likes playin games at your expense...pretty soon he'll get bored and move on!!!!
2007-09-13 16:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by loving life!!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋