Ok well my friend who is 10 years older than me that I only talk to through email is probably not going to come thru with what she told me, AGAIN!! I got her 2 new baby outfits and have asked when I can come to her house and give it to her in email for the past 3 weeks and she always reschedules on me. She told me last week that she wanted to reschedule for this week and that she would email me on when she wanted me to come over and she still hasn't. I cant take the stuff back either b/c I marked the prices out with sharpie. She told me her AC broke last week and I asked her husband if they had got it fixed yesterday and he acted like he didnt know what I was talking about. I feel she is lying to me for some reason, I dont know. But what do you think? What should I do? And I cant really call her either. Since I work at the same place as her husband does, you think I should just give it to him and let him take it home or what?
2007-09-05 12:13:20 · 19 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as long as the bar code is still o nthe tag you can take it back. and even if you cant then, go put them in her mailbox or something. and if she isnt grateful then, then i wouldnt bother guying her anything else.
2007-09-05 12:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like she's a very good friend. The ball is in her court.....if she wants to keep the friendship alive it would be an easy matter to do. You can either: 1) keep the stuff and give it to the next person you know who has a baby or 2) give the stuff to her husband. Either way I think you need to stop worrying about her, cut your losses and find new friends.
I made a layette set for a young girl I know who was having a baby. She told me that invitations to the shower would be sent out and that she had given my address to her mother. I never got one. I think her mom didn't send it to me on purpose. She's had the baby by now, and I still haven't heard from anybody on it. So I kept they layette set and I'm gonna give it to somebody else.
2007-09-05 19:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like your girlfriend may have issues that are not directly related to you. It could be anything. Just give the gift to her husband and she still do not response then leave all contacts alone. Perhaps in the future she may contact you with an explanation. I know I would not be bothered with someone that is giving me a brush off.
2007-09-05 19:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bought the gifts for the baby, not her, so, give the gifts up to the hubby & let her find her own way with getting back to you, if you can stand it. People do odd things for no "good" reason one can "reason." Do your best to put this behind you & hope she will feel up to reaching out to you again. There could be any number of reasons she is putting you off. I say accept it & hope for the better. Peace
2007-09-05 19:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take the outfits back, use your receipt, otherwise give them to the husband, and try to not take it personally. Having a new baby is a lot of work, maybe she not up for company , and doesn't know how to say so.
2007-09-05 19:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by fine with me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give the gifts to the husband with a card saying sorry we couldnt meet up but dont worry i understand that having a new baby is a lot of work.....and i dont want to be intrusive so just call or write if you want to talk or do something.
dont ascribe ill will just wait it out if she contacts if she doesnt then u were a better friend....
good luck
2007-09-05 19:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck, she sounds flakey. I would be pretty hurt and ticked off if I were in your shoes. Hopefully, you didn't spend too much on the baby gifts. I'd give the baby gifts to her husband and be done with it. You don't need this kind of brain damage.
2007-09-05 19:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason, she doesn't feel comfortable having you over. Mail her the lovely little outfits. Try to be understanding. She's your friend after all.
2007-09-05 19:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is giving you the run around. I would give them to her husband and tell him that you are sorry that you couldn't give it to her yourself. He will maybe get to the bottom of things. God Bless you for being so thoughtful about the baby.
2007-09-05 20:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her husband whats going on, she sounds like a rude ***** but she could be going through some sort of problems, either that or let her contact you and if she doesnt well its no loss is it??
2007-09-05 19:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by t.s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋