I have liked her for a year, and I finally confessed today and had my heart broken yet again.
She said she doesn't like me and it's nobody elses fault, just the way she feels. I replied saying "That's perfectly fine, I knew that anyway, just wanted to tell you myself - i admire you, so consider it a compliment"
I just don't know how to move on but. Now that things are less awkward, we will probably develop a better friendship (and i'll be less nervous etc). I'm kind of hoping she might somehow change her mind -considering we are nearly finished final year of school and things might change once school breaks eg see each other more/non-school activities.
What should I do? Should I act a certain way that might somehow attract her to me? Or might things change over time/after school?
:(
I have never liked somebody so much. And she is so unique, it will be hard to find anybody that comes close to her beauty.
2007-09-05 21:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by t@bles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to not be so weak and needy. It appears to have caused her to have contempt for you.
2007-09-05 21:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what you said: She doesn't like me. Don't try to change who you are to get her to like you. If this is your last year of high school, I recommend trying to move on. If you are preoccupied thinking of her you will not be able to see anything (or anyone) else good that might come along. I would say to maintain a casual friendship at the most, or she will always be on your mind.
2007-09-05 21:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Comedian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up go be gay.. It's the cool thing right now anyways.. Or suck it up be a man and go find a new girl.. I crushed on a girl for 22 years and she finally told me she didn't like me in that way because im ugly.. So trust me i know what im talking about.. Just screw her and go find something else to waste your life on...
2007-09-05 21:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by pwnz7321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to push yourself on her, or you will lose her friendship too. At least she was honest with you. You need to accept what she said and move on. You can not force anyone to care for you, it has to happen naturally.
2007-09-05 21:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
Focus on your priorities for your careear.
Relationship, li\ove and friendship are not discrete things happening but take infinitesimal time. They happen only with time.
Get detached from emtions that u are suurounding yourself with.
2007-09-05 21:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by sureshcm m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... im not reading all that crap two simple words dude
MOVE ON!.
2007-09-05 21:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋