My friend and I always have a good laugh when we go out, but last month we both got a bit drunk and had a Passionate kiss, we never spoke about it after or the next day.
Then last saturday we went out and again an we ended up kissing again and going a bit further.
Im confused tho cos she has a really great boyfriend, so why does she keep kissing me? (i'm single by the way)
2007-09-05 21:39:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she has some attraction towards you but is afraid to bring light to the subject when you both are sober.
I would lightly bring it up over lunch or on a day when you guys are just hanging out alone.
this is a serious matter considering she's actively in a relationship (think of how hurt he might be if he were to find out.)
sounds to me like you don't mind the attention-if this is the case then you really need to have a talk with her about it and what her true feelings are. you need to decide if you want to let this continue w/her having a boyfriend AND if you're ready for this type of relationship with her-it will change your friendship completely.
hope this helps!!
2007-09-05 21:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by prncessang228 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol releases your inhibitions and she's trying out her own feelings in a girl/girl situation, this doesn't automatically mean she's a lesbian but maybe bisexual or just testing the water.
She might be doing this with you because she might find you attractive of because your her close friend and so your safe, you wont judge her and she trusts you.
Many people are fluid in their sexuality, some times it flows one way more than the other so i think your obviously a very good friend to her, and she feels comfortable sharing this with you.
2007-09-05 21:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently, she isn't getting da loving that she really needs. So just like advice, she comes to a friend when in need. Believe it or not, the ball is now in your court. You are in control rather you want it to go farther then your friendship or just stop this little flirt b4 it goes any further. Choose your destiny wisely.
2007-09-05 21:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb because she is confused with which one of u guys she has feelings for or she is just drunk and having a bit of fun... its not uncommon
2007-09-05 21:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i made out with my best friend once even thoe she had a boyfriend and for a bit i thought it might have ment somthing to me but know i think of it i just did it because it was enjoyable so maybe thats what your friends doing??
2007-09-06 06:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously fancies you sexually, and if she was happy in her relationship she would'nt kiss you no matter how drunk she was. Talk to her about her feelings for you,which she clearly has. She's waiting for you to say something. So say it.
2007-09-05 21:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes just drunk and having a bit of fun
2007-09-05 21:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by lilshortyjess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be that she maybe a bit unsure how she feels, you could ask her up straight how she feels, get her on her own cause she may not want her boyfriend to know anything. she could be bisexual and this is something you need to find out she could also be experimenting.
good luck
2007-09-05 21:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by groovy_chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is doing it when she is drunk, then she is probably too drunk to control herself, and needs to quit drinking so much. If she is sober, you should be talking to her about it. If she is doing all of this with you, she is being unfair to him. I would tell her so.
2007-09-05 21:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...new territory for both of you? I'd have a talk with her first to see if she really wants to risk the friendship.
2007-09-05 21:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋