I'm now married, would it be good to phone him up and tell him or should I just ignore his phone calls
2007-09-05 04:56:12 · 23 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he rings again then set the record straight, but i wouldn't make the call back.
2007-09-05 05:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to tell your husband what is going on up front and that you are going answer the call from your ex to tell him you are married now and that he needs to stop calling. If you tell the husband what you are doing he won't feel insecure about it and the ex will surely stop calling once he learns that you are married. It should solve the problem.
2007-09-05 05:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Emily, if you have no feelings for him and are happily married then I don't see why not, if there is still a little sizzle and you know that it won't only be a call then you have a problem with your marriage. If you have no feelings or room for your ex in your life then just ignore him. Good Luck
2007-09-05 06:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bothered enough to ask if you should phone him and tell him? did you marry to make him jealous? do you regret getting married? No? Then dont bother telling him, you will definitely be giving the wrong signals to your ex. Just be happy in your marriage and forget your ex before it destroys your marriage. Ignore him completely.
2007-09-07 21:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Have a chat with ur husband before u do anythhin. If u answer or call him and do it "behind ur husbands back" it my come back and cause trouble for u.
Be open and honest with ur husband and see what he suggests. Even if u disagree with what ur husband suggest to do. Still keep him advised as to what u are going to do or not do. But defo best to at least let him know that he is calling u, in-case he calls and your hubby picks up at least he can be aware of ur ex's behaviour.
He may be calling for something totally Innocent but air on thee side of caution, it could open a box of worms, especially if the split wasnt a good split.
Good look and let us know how u get on .
Dee
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2007-09-05 08:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by wouldificouldwouldntu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore his calls. You have grown up and moved on and he can only be contacting you for one thing! If he is unawre that you are married, inform him in a short, polite e-mail/voice message so that he does not think you are wanting some time to chat to him.
2007-09-05 05:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and ask him why he is calling you. At the same time you should tell him that you are married. I would take action on this and set everything straight. He will stop calling and you can get on with your life.
2007-09-05 05:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are still on good terms. If yes, it's only fair. If he was mean or something then no, he doesn't deserve to be part of your life any more. It's ultimately your desision, but make sure you let your new husband in on this!
2007-09-05 07:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by matthewmooregirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your husband phone and tell him to never call again.
2007-09-05 05:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there....he is tugging at the thread and hoping for a reaction. You are unobtainable and he has a desire maybe to disprove that. Marriage comes first .....it will only end badly if you open any doors to your ex.
2007-09-08 09:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋