hello,
just wanted ur opinion on how long should u wait to sleep w/ ur bf/gf? i figured that for myself, if im going to go on a 2nd date w/ him, then theres something about that i really like. looks, personality, i dont know. but why waste time going on the 3rd and so on dates? if he's not good in bed, then at least u found out fast and got rid of him. And then meet another guy/girl....
2007-09-05 04:10:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why no just do it on the 1st date? You've already spent a couple hours with him so you might be able to tell if you like him or not. That way, you don't have to waste your time on a second date if he's not good in bed.
Because that's what relationships are truely about right? How good someone is in bed. Definately more important than a personality, chemistry, trust . . . . .
2007-09-05 04:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by pa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the person and when it feels right. It also depends on what you are looking for in a relationship.
A physical connection is an important component but different people put it at different spots on their priority list.
It obviously seems very important to you. So if you want to know how they are in bed by the second date then go for it. Just make sure you are prepared for what comes along with that.
Also know that you can't judge a person in bed by the first few times you sleep together. Often you are still getting to know each others bodies and likes/dislikes. You need to give it a chance to click.
In my personal experience sexual encounters have always been much better with people I have strong deep feelings for. We are able to communicate openly about our wants and desires with out feeling like a "freak".
Hope that helps.
2007-09-05 04:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by GoldenButterflyKisses 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a loose rule, go with the third date. Each person will be different, and each situation will be unique.
If the first four dates are all with groups, and you meet when you're out, then you'll have to wait 'till the 5th date. If the chemistry is overwhelming and the opportunity exists, the second date might be the right time.
If you set guidelines rather than “rules”, you’ll disappoint yourself less, and enjoy life more.
2007-09-05 04:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Becka Gal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What if he was good and he thought u was bad but he stayed with u anyways do u think that would be right. If its sex all u want then they are alot of guys willin to give for free . But talkin as if this person dont have any feelings at all . How would u like to be used and then left out to dry . Think about what u doing before u do it . Cause u only thinkin about yourself . If u have to try every guy u get and i was a guy I would be so scared that i would catch some king of STD"S FROM U.So think with your head and not whats btw your leggs . Im not being rude im being honest I have dealt with alot of girls that thought sex was everything and come to find its not what they thought it was .
2007-09-05 04:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_sassy_20071969 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the date's going well and I like him there's a really good chance I'll sleep with him on a first date. What's the point in waiting? If there's an attraction and a connection then I'm going to go for it. It's stupid to arbitrarily pick a minimum date number to have sex.
2007-09-05 04:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they are your bf/gf than why should you wait? unless the person wants to. if you keep on thinking like that than your going to end up sleeping with all of the guys or girls you date, and at the end your still going to be searching for that person, but this time you just might end up wit STD
2007-09-05 04:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is all up to u on what date u want to do it on. some people wait tell the 3rd or 4th some people even wait longer then that. then also u get the ones that do it one the 1st date witch i don't really aprove of just because there is no way that u have gotten to know them that well. normally the people who take them to bed on there 1st date are just sexually atracted to them and or drunk.....lol
2007-09-05 04:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by schultzie2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ,boogie.Sounds like your just looking for a lay.Whats up ,no morals there,my friend. Sex is Sex and making love is making love. It all depends on what your wanting out of the deal.If it's Sex then go, if it's love then you'll know when to go, also.One thing about the love thing though, it can cause sever damage to your heart, so be careful and go slow with the flow so as you won't miss anything.k.!!!!!!
2007-09-05 04:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by nanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know because I have dated women who I have slept with on the first date and women I have slept with 6 months into the relationship . I guess it depends on what you are feeling at a particular time .
2007-09-05 04:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a fan of jumping in to the sack early in a relationship. If I really like the fella, I will do it within a month or so. If I don't like the guy, I don't at all and eventually stop dating him.
2007-09-05 04:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋