he's a sort of sci-fi action weirdo that LOVES school and he's not very mature he acts like a little kid sometimes but its so cute . and he's not much to look at that y im a little embarrased. but i really like him help!!!!!!!!!!!!! :c(
2007-09-05 04:16:59 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it secret from your mates at first. Ask for his mobile no, txt him to ask if he fancies going out -bowling for example. Then decide from that date whether you want to take it further and keep seeing him, and then tell your mates.
2007-09-05 04:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Make the weirdo your boyfriend, He will make a good husband and a good companion. He will get a good education and a great job with lots of money. What would you rather have a goodlooking stupid boyfriend who makes 6.00 an hour at McDs or this weirdo who will probably be a CEO of a major Corporation making the big bucks. You decide. I say go for the weirdo, he sounds cool. I like him already and I don't even know him. Good Luck, have fun.
2007-09-05 04:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by FILE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the problem is? If you like him, then you should be with him. Does it really matter what people have for an opinion? The only opinion that matters is your own. I am a nerd.... not scifi, but cartoon, comic book, g4... and so on and I have a wife who loves me and a daughter. Plus she loved me for who I am, and still does. I am 26 and some days I act like I am a teenager, but I can always make her laugh and we do love each other till the end of days. Good luck. Hope things go your way.
2007-09-05 04:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by annasdad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you should be asking yourself is why do you like him. it doesnt matter if hes not a looker or a bit of a nerd, its whether or not you like him for his personality and whether you would get on with him and have interesting conversations or not, or would you be totally opposite??
You shouldnt care what other people think or whether or not other people like him as long as you do and you think you would be able to put up with some piss taking (if it happens that is) and if you think you would get on and have a lot in common.
coz if not i wouldnt bother. You dont want someone whos too immature either coz if your out in public he could really embarrass you and think about meeting the parents?? oooh!!
2007-09-05 04:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the lad do something about it, go out with him!! Who cares what other people think - all that matters is how you feel!!! Thats the most important thing, isn't it?? Anyway, even if he is a nerd, so what!? You're attracted to him and we can't help who we like and dislike!! All I can advise is, go for it, at the end of the day you'd end up regretting it if you missed the opportunity to go out with him and on the other hand you will realise your true feelings for him if you do something about it!!
Best of luck!
2007-09-05 04:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by little_miss_mystical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like someone to HELL what anyone else thinks because they are not the ones going out with him. when you are 80 you are certainly not going to be with your partner cause he is "hot"..If he treats you well and you have fun together that is the most important thing. Plus if he is a nerd, he is going to be rich one day while all the basketball players work in carvel.
You didnt specify what you meant by acting like a kid, but thats the only thing I would question.
2007-09-05 04:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's important is what you like, not what other people will think.
You probably won't accept the advice now, but after you've dated a few attractive assholes you'll come to realise that it's usually the average-looking guys who are interesting, witty and generally better for any kind of decent relationship.
This is because they need to become interesting, witty and try harder to get girls and so, resultantly, make better boyfriends.
Hope this helps!
2007-09-05 04:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by numbersnumberseverywhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not really be a nerd, Very intellegent males,his age are sometimes twenty five years old before they reach maturity.Maybe he is just sombodies Baby Boy,Their is plenty of time to become a man,When he finishes School.
2007-09-05 04:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. If you really fancy him then go for it. Just remember you said he doesn't act mature all the time, so you shouyld know that he might not be ready for anything serious. Maybe he just needs a womans touch.
2007-09-05 04:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by james_bond_88201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for him! ! ! ! ! Friends are your friends, not those around you. If you like someone, then be good to them and Cherish their friendship. Do not let looks and other people decide who your friends should be. Popularity isn't important either as it is most time fleeting anyway. Bill Gates was once the big geeky nerd and now he could care less about that. If you like him, then go for it.
2007-09-05 04:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you care what others think - that is the problem with people today - they all want to do what others tell them to do - go for it - have fun - if it works out all well and good - if not, then you have both learned from it.
If you like him - enjoy the time together
2007-09-05 04:23:04 · answer #11 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋