Like in Trainspotting with Renton and that schoolgirl.How would you know cos sometimes females look older than they are and younger than they are.
2007-09-05 04:23:43 · 12 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend who thought that the girl he was seeing was 18.( she did look it) He slept with her several times, dumped her and then she cried rape.
Turns out she was only 15.
He got three years in prison. Coming out in a month.
His life is in complete ruins.
2007-09-05 04:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a risk you take. Try not having sex until you are 100% sure that the person is right for you. Renton's mistake was jumping into bed with Diane the same night he'd met her. If he'd waited he would have realised she was only fourteen. It's an issue that needs to be highlighted though, as lots of sexually mature teenagers see no problem in lying about their ages in order to get with a guy. They don't understand what damage they could cause.
2007-09-09 15:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask to see her identification? If you explain why, there shouldn't be a problem if the girl is the age she says she is. You are smart to be thinking of that. (By the way, I loved that movie, Trainspotting) A lot of guys get into trouble because they don't and they accept what girls say at face value, and young girls will lie about their age in order to get closer to an older guy. You sound as if you've got your head on straight. Good luck in your future.
2007-09-12 20:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
am female and look 2-3 yrs older than i am so people just assume all the time. I think we have come to a stage when people should be able to ask others what their age is and don't expect the askee to be offended or askee should also learn not to be offended when one asks their age.
Occasionally i get people asking my age and always just tell them...........gotten used to the surprise expressions of oh you are younger than i thought, Doesn't offend me.
But yet my BF who is 3 years older than me looks younger than he is, at 23 they still ask for his ID when buying alcohol in supermarkets. Haven't had that experience.
So always ask won't cost you a thing............unless that person is ignorant with the evolving world
2007-09-05 11:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by JAM - Emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve got any doubt, you need to make sure you are sure that she is over aged. if for whatever reason, she decided that she didnt consent,,,and she was under 16, you will be guilty (if found guilty) of a schedule one offence (an offence against a minor). that will impact on the rest of your life. i work in child protection. women get with their new partner, only to have us banging at the door because they've hooked up with a schedule one offender which means we have to investigate and look into the risks. we have to by law go to child protection conference and register the child, whatever age, if the mother is living with a schedule one offender and the offence was of a sexual nature. it could have been years before, but the process is still the same.
child protection agencies, including the police are tightening up on prosecutions for this.
2007-09-05 11:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never really tell, but how bout going clubbing and if they dont have id to prove their age then leave! or find out about their college, or job or whatever in detail and see their id and try to catch them out if your worried. But age doesnt always matter, there are times when you can get on with a younger woman and they could turn out to be the love of your life, you just dont know. but if you do have a younger woman, just be careful and dont have sex with them until they are the appropiate age.
2007-09-10 07:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask them for ID thats what my friend does as she once snogged a boy when she was in a night club over 21s and it turned out he was only 15 although he did look older much older
2007-09-13 09:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by missyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never try to get close on the first few dates. Just friends.
2007-09-05 11:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Adrian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls should be honest about their age,especially if they know a guy is alot older than they are.I always try to make sure a guy knows my age(17)before we get too busy chatting.
abluebobcat how aweful!!!!OMG!!!What a b !tch
2007-09-05 11:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by still has hope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is younger then you realize then leave fast you know why. its sad they would do this but its the only way to be a good person.
2007-09-13 00:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋