finally accepted him.We've been together going on 2 years and she hates him.In the dream we became engaged when suddenly a girl was telling my sister and I about her boyfriend and a recent pregnancy scare they had.Turns out her boyfriend was my boyfriend.I called him (in the dream) and confronted him about the girl and he brushed it off saying it wasn't a big deal and he was leaving her and marrying me.I screamed at him that he said he would never hurt me and that everything he said was all a lie.I woke up to find myself crying and my boyfriend shaking me awake and holding me until I calmed down.I told him about the dream and he says until I stop doubting him and his intentions with me (he wants us to get married) I'll keep having these types of dreams (this wasn't the first time).What do you all think? I somewhat agree,but also think that my mothers feeling towards him might be part of my problem because she makes me feel I should be wary with him despite him not giving me reason to.
2007-09-05 04:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Awww, I am sorry cutie. I agree with half of the people here that have taken the time to answer to your predicament. I would say getting married to this guy is a good idea...He seems to genuinely care and your dreams are just that....dreams...dont put too much weight into them...Just because you dream badly it does not that it has happened or it is going to happen...That kind of stuff only happens in the movies...What does your heart tell you? As for your mom, well lets just say that some parents will never accept their daughters with any guy...Some parents think that every guy is not good enough for there daughter...What about you...? What do you want? Do what your heart desires and follow what you already know the answer to this question is...Good luck cutie and whatever you are doing for your man and your relationship, keep doing it and teach other women how to do it so other guys can have a chance to be happy too!
2007-09-12 23:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dont worry about what your mother says seriously because if you guys love eachother it shouldnt matter love is a very strong and beautiful thing..... so i suggest that you should confront your mother because if she cant execpt him she cannot execpt you thats how i see i've been through this situation and i left my house when i was 18 now i am 20 still with man now fiancee and its been 3yrs and 5 months and we have a four month old son and my mother never never never accpeted my man so i told her what i told you if you dont execpt him you do not execpt me... you feel me... so when i finally confronted her everything was all good she finally execpts him now but let me tell you one thing all mother s are different so i seriously wish you the best of luck.....
2007-09-12 13:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by jejibaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you marry him wiht out her blessings that is what gos on alot of awful dreams and it could go on for years. you have to get her blessings and you two have to do it together or it won't work believe me i know.
2007-09-09 00:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a dream sort of like that my boyfriend was cheting on me in the dream come to find out he was cheating on me. and my mom hated him to
2007-09-11 23:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by cloudpinksky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married you'd be more secure. It might help your mother accept him, too.
2007-09-05 18:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋