but i wanna do everything the right way make my family proud since all my cousins got pregnant young first and than tried to get with the guy and everybody counts on me i dont want to disappoint anyone but im afraid i colud end like my cousins i know im kinda young to want to have a family but i love babies and when i do become a mom im not ever going to regret it because i believe a baby is a gift from god
2007-09-05 04:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you seem to have the right idea.
however, you need to do things for YOU, not for other people... do what you feel is right, when the time is right for YOU... not for your family or others around you.
everyone isn't always going to like our choices..... please yourself first. and take care.
2007-09-05 04:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great having a family and having babies of your own to share with your loved ones. But a baby is not something to just take care of, there are many responsibilities with it and you need to be able to financially support it or you'll be relying on your family members which you won't feel good about and you can't do it long term. I'm sure you want your future baby to grow up in a good environment with a stable family and I'm sure you don't want just any man to be his father either. Sometimes I like fantasizing with my boyfriend about our future family and making up fun names for our future kids, but it's a long way away and I need to finish school and college before I can do such adult things. Be a good mother and a responsible one too! So wait until you're older and when you're married to give your baby the best things you can offer to him/her!
2007-09-05 11:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Briannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, your schooling is important. Having a child is very expensive, so as you can imagine you need to be able to support that child, not only finacially, love, care, and spend time. If you love children, trying volunteering at a daycare, or babysitting to get experience with children, that will help you determine whether you still want kids now or wait. Besides, it's always better with two parents.
2007-09-05 11:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sahara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are married then go for it. Up until then practice safe sex its really hard to have a baby and try to have a social life and a career get those things squared away there shouldn't be a rush on having a baby until you are mentally, emotionally and financially equipped to do so. Good luck shug!
2007-09-05 11:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention your age, but you should do everything the right way, finish school, get a good job, find a nice guy, get married then start a family. there is no need to rush into this.
2007-09-05 11:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are married get pregnant on ur honey moon. then you will have ur baby and ur man.
2007-09-05 11:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋