first he said that he only had one relationship with a girl and she left him for someone better, then he said that she was not the only one that he had several relationships with a lot of girl mostly for just having sex with them and today he says that they were all lies and the truth was that he was a virgin when he met me and i was his first real relationship. i dont know if i should trust him anymore..
2007-09-05 04:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by lonlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 24 and it has been 10 months since we first met
2007-09-05 04:28:10 · update #1
criminal_justice2007 i am seeking his past because i am having sex with him and its my right to know what he had been up to before me..
2007-09-05 04:35:08 · update #2
He's showing you what to expect from him later. It's definately not honesty - one of the foundations of a good relationship. I wouldn't trust him honey, and I wouldn't keep seeing him either. He has no respect for you if he's lying all the time.
Good luck
2007-09-05 04:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people lie for the sake of lying. You can't ever trust them. This man has lied to you over and over.... and you wont ever know if anything he says to you is the truth or not. I would move on.... if he lies about things like that he will lie about anything.
2007-09-05 04:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want but you will never be able to trust him. I'm 26 and I have had relationships with lies and they have never worked out. So just go with what you want because only you can choose.
2007-09-05 05:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the man to be a man and start telling the truth... because the bag of lies just ain't working 4 u... tell him he he doesnt want 2 loose ur love then 4 heaven's sake let u know the real facts of what is going on in his life!
2007-09-05 04:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by reonu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a compulsive liar. Though it could be because he was ashamed and embarassed about being a virgin. Sit him down and ask him straight WHAT is the true story.
2007-09-05 04:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be ashamed of his past or something like that & doesnt want to tell you. or he could be checking to see if you're jealous (though that wouldn't make sense seeing as you're already going out)
confront him and hammer out the truth.
you cant have a functioning relationship if he keeps lying so openly to you.
2007-09-05 04:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend is a pathological liar, and lies about virtually EVERYTHING, so he can be "impressive"... well, lies usually blow up in our faces, and my ex went from impressive to PATHETIC in no time at all!
let your boyfriend know that the truth is best -- people who lie about everything sometimes make it a habit... and liars aren't very well liked.
take car.e
2007-09-05 04:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has issues with the truth. If you cant deal with it, find a new boyfriend............There is nothing you can do to "change" him so dont even try.
2007-09-05 04:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a compulsive liar. Break up with him.
2007-09-05 04:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kabu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid you wont find him macho,if you know he is inexperienced.Wait and see.
2007-09-05 04:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋