Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

I'm sure I'm not the only one who's heard the old "You love that dog more than you love me!" line, am I?

2007-08-29 04:13:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this gal that i like and have told her how I felt a year ago, but she said she just want to be friends. However, as time goes, sometimes I feel she puts more interests. Yet, I'm utterly clueless how she feels now.

But, today she didn't reply to some of my texts. I was teasing her by saying that she was only kind for one time and then she asked, "what's that supposed to mean?" and then I replied, "You're mean?" but got no reply and even after I said I was joking.

And she took long time to reply. Is it just busy? Yesterday too... But previously she replied to my texts.

2007-08-29 04:12:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and engaged (I'm aware I'm young, so please don't feel the need to tell me, we're not getting married for a few years!), and I've been with my fiance (19) for a long time, and I love him to pieces but sometimes I can't help but think I've kinda missed out on a phase of my life; the going out and having fun and not having a care in the world part - and I'm not talking about sexual stuff here, I just seem to be so much more grown up than the majority of my friends in some senses and sometimes I wish I could be more like them in some ways! I'm finding this hard to explain but did anyone go through a phase where they felt like this if they met someone when they were young? I've talked to him about it but he thinks I mean that I wanna be with other people and I don't! I just don't know who to talk to about it and wonder if anyone can relate? My fiance's mum got engaged at 16 and they're still together and so did my Mum's mate, did anyone else meet they're husbands/wives young?

2007-08-29 04:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by Ria 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 years old and me and my mom got in a fight. my dad comes in and grabs me around my neck and pushes me against the counter in the kitchen then he slapped me so i started fighting back a little but hes so much stronger then me then he grabs me harder around the neck and he started scratching me and hitting me then he finally let go a little and i got loose but he JUMPED OVER THE TABLE and grabbed my wrists and left bruises and scratches then i ran to the front door and he grabbed me then pushed me into the door now i have bruises on my stomach and leg and a few scratches on my legs. ugh it hurts so bad. this happened like 10 minutes ago, he also said he hated me and hes gunna kill me and im a b*tch.. im scared too death of him..my mom is saying its mom fault when he hit me first.. i kept kicking after he had his hand around my throat .. i have finger/hand marks on my throat,wrists,legs etc... what can i do?? im scared to death..!!!

2007-08-29 04:11:29 · 17 answers · asked by Erikka 2 in Family

2007-08-29 04:11:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont want my friendship to get lost To maintain everlasting friendship i always remain in distance and ask his & his families well beings through email as he stays abroad. I never want to lose him as a friend and try to maintain this ideal relationship as it is. I havent ever crossed my limits and made him uneasy as he is married too and i understand the value of marriage. Friends pls tell me how would i be able to mainatain long lasting relationship that will never break? Pls dont tell me to forget him as i cant do that.

2007-08-29 04:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 15. my dads girlfriend is very mean. she dont like me and i dont like her. she says things about me that isnt true and then my dad believes it. well i gave my dad a choice. either he would choice me(his daughter) or his girlfriend. he said "i shouldnt have to choose" i said i know but things arent working out. so he picked his girlfriend over his daughter. so i moved in with my mom. what does everyone think about this? bad choice that he picked his g/f or not? should i really be cryin over this? please someone help me.

2007-08-29 04:09:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 8months now and it seems like My husband and I are having alot of arguements, He calls his mom everyday abotu everything, tells her about our fights and calls her everytime he goes to the doctor and it seems like she knows more then I do. I feel like I am last in his life. I told him How I felt he said it was stupid. Am I over exxagerating?

2007-08-29 04:06:06 · 20 answers · asked by jennyjenn518 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live In North Carolina and I have been seperated from my husband since May but we havent filled out any papers or anything yet. I really want to get the ball rolling and get things going because were obviously not going to reconcile. What do I do, is it going to cost money and what should I expect?

2007-08-29 04:05:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 04:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by jerry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I've been hanging out with my friends and family a lot. My cousin owns a barbershop & they've been having a lot of functions that she invites me to. There's this guy there that I'm very attracted to but he has a girlfriend. I'm sure he can tell I'm a little attracted to him, but I maintain my composure because of his situation. However, everyone else is real friendly towards me and interested in gettin' to know me, but he seems to try to avoid having any contact with me what so ever. My cousin said it's probably because he likes you and doesn't want to be tempted right now.

I'm 30 & he's 26, I just thought that was a childish way of handling it. I mean even though we're attracted to one another doesn't mean that we still can't be cool and be friendly in a group setting, right? Or do you think it may be a different reason y he avoids me? I respect his situation, but wouldn't mind being his friend.

2007-08-29 04:02:45 · 39 answers · asked by jpg 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm finding myself hating my bf, is it really possible to love and hate someone at the same time? It started just after I became pregnant.

2007-08-29 04:02:43 · 24 answers · asked by FIT-GAL 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i know i posted this question before but i just want people to tell me how the sentence makes them feel. Thanks.

Ok, if YOU were looking through a magazine, just a normal magazine. Then you came across and advert it was a family having there family photo taken, the dad is sitting on a leather chair and the mum is sitting on the arm of the same chair (Which my parents moan at me for doing that) and there is a girl standing behind them, she is smiling. You think that's a nice family, then you look to the right a bit and see the same girl looking sad, she is peering over the happy girls shoulder. It's not her twin sister it is her hidden inner self.

Under the picture it says in capitals "IF YOU'VE BEEN PHYSICALLY ABUSED, YOU DON'T HAVE TO HIDE IT ANY MORE."


How does that sentence make you feel, please give a strong descriptive answer. Thanks. Just tell me how the sentence makes u feel nothing else (just incase you forgot).

2007-08-29 04:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by stevey226 4 in Family

do u think I should tell him to stop as a friend...?????

2007-08-29 03:59:23 · 18 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I made out with my friend and now everyone at school knows and is calling me names. What should i do?

2007-08-29 03:59:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Talked on the phone with a doctor about an hour from me last week. Then I got an email that said how about dinner WEd ?I emailed and said call me this afternoon that was yesterday and still haven't heard from him.What shoud I do?

2007-08-29 03:58:34 · 2 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok one of my not very close friends has a husband that works at the same gym as I do, but he is a personal trainer. Well I am taking one of his gym classes through the college I go to. Alot of times when Im working at the front desk he comes up there alot and talks to me. Yesterday was the first day of my gym class and there were only 4 ppl in the class and I was the only girl. Well while he was explaining the rules of the game he would mainly only look at me when he was talking. Then later on I was working out and my b/f came up to the gym to work out with me, and when me and him walked by one of the offices in the gym, the guy(my instructor) was looking out the door right as we passed, and he literally almost did a backbend trying to follow us with his eyes when we passed by that door. I dont know why he would be like this...he has a wife and I am friends with her and they have a new baby. I also asked how she was doing and he told me that she was busy taking care of 'that' baby.

2007-08-29 03:56:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Last night me and my LT boyfriend got in the worst fight we've ever had. We've been together for years. He said a lot of hurtful things and called me some pretty horrible names. I slept on it, and the next day I e-mailed him about how badly that hurt my feelings and asked him how he could say what he did to a person who he "loves so much."

He said sorry, of course. But I am still hurt by the names he called me and I know I can't ever forget it. How can I save this relationship...and should I even try to?

2007-08-29 03:55:48 · 30 answers · asked by Judy 5 in Singles & Dating

the problem:she wants children and she doesn´t,
(they have been together for about 8 years, married 2 years...she´s 30 and he´s 33..)

she is absolutely sure she doesn´t want children and I guess when they got married he hoped she would change her mind one day...now they are arguing about this topic, but it´s my friend who says that maybe they should get a divorce, I think that´s him who has to make a decision, spend the rest of his life with her and no kids, or seperate and look for another wife...what do you all think??? what piece of advice should I give my friend??? I want to help her, but I don´t know how...

2007-08-29 03:51:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in your opinion what do you think life is all about??
what do you want to have done in the world that even if you were to die tommorow you will not regret having died b4 doing.
serious answers please...

2007-08-29 03:50:09 · 4 answers · asked by Femme Fiasco 1 in Friends

Girls don't like me because I have a wide nose. I mean there are more ugly guys out there with cute girls and I have no idea how! I just don't understand why is the nose or face appearance so important for a girl. I'm half Hispanic-Italian. It gets me so depress! I mean I had couple girls tell me right in my face that I have a wide nose. I wish I could do nose surgery but I don't have money and my mom don't want to spend the money. She said that there is a girl out there that will like me for who I am, but she must not be in this town!!!

2007-08-29 03:49:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it so hard for me to give up my marriage and get a divorce? I have been with my husband for 5 years and he has cheated on me, drained my bank account, and done many other terrible things, however the love I feel for him is unconditional. We have had very few good times and plenty of bad times. We have a child and one on the way and our child adores him and all that she talks about is "my daddy." I feel as though I cannot leave him because I do not want her to be without him and if we divorced our child would rarely see him because we would live in two different states. I just really love him and do not want to live without him, but I can't live with him. We are starting counseling today, but any other thoughts?

2007-08-29 03:48:05 · 22 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We had alot of financial emergencies going on at the same time, so he took our set to get him and I some much needed extra cash a few months ago. Well, he is out of town right now, and I called and found out that we were on the brink of loosing our rings. He won't be back until the first week of September, but we would have lost them as of Aug. 23, so WITH HIS CONSENT, I wrote a letter, forged his name, and took it to the pawn shop and paid our rings off. They wrote down my DL # and other info in red pen though. It kind of scared me.
My hubby and I are working our marriage out cause we had alot of issues in the past. Is it possible for him (if he got mad at me down the line) to use what I did to try to get me convicted of Identity Theft?!?! Would they believe me if I told them he said that I can and should do it to get our rings from being sold? I'm kind of scared. I refuse to kiss his butt, but he has mentioned it in a joking (but maybe NOT joking way) that he COULD tell. HELP!!!

2007-08-29 03:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would a woman still avoid him?

2007-08-29 03:45:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can take any woman away from their boy freind or husband. Including you woman in yahoo answers. I'm just that smooth.

2007-08-29 03:42:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's jerk.. thanks for everyone reponse my ques.. I dump him with your help...

2007-08-29 03:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am average height n sometimes, I feel very 'small' with the tall ladies. They appear more confident n sophiscated. How can I overcome this negative feelings. My husband is tall n I am about just at his shoulder height.

2007-08-29 03:40:10 · 19 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

shes not my friend anymore cuz i slept with her ex boyfriend...i need help

2007-08-29 03:40:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-29 03:37:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem that I need help with. I have a friend "Lynn" that I have known for almost 9 years. A couple of years ago I helped her get a job where I work. Not long after that her husband filed for divorce. After the divorce she changed for the worse, going to bars a lot and meeting guys on the internet. We sort of stopped talking because I didn't care for the new "Lynn" at all. She was telling lies to everyone also. A few months ago she met a guy and they are getting married in December. One of the girls at work came up to me today and said I need to give "Lynn" my home address so she can send me an invitation to the bridal shower and the wedding. My opinion is, if "Lynn" wants me there, why can't she call me herself? She has my home phone number, my work number, my work e-mail and my personal e-mail address. I have IM'd her several times since she quit working here and I never hear back from her. Please help. Should I call her or should she call me if she wants me there?

2007-08-29 03:32:54 · 27 answers · asked by Dovah 3 in Friends