I'm finding myself hating my bf, is it really possible to love and hate someone at the same time? It started just after I became pregnant.
2007-08-29 04:02:43 · 24 answers · asked by FIT-GAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be mood swings from being pregnant - just don't make any major decisions on your feelings toward him until after you can calm your emotions, and yes it is possilbe to feel two strong conflicting feelings - it's very common. :)
2007-08-29 04:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Selina Kyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be the change in hormones. But, it may really be your true feelings and if that's the case then yes! Just see my question I asked. I'm not pregnant, but I do know what it feels like to love someone and hate them at the same time.
Dig deeper and find out if you can figure out where these feelings are coming from. Did he do or say something wrong? Communication is what it comes down to.
I wish I could follow my own advice; I'm still working on my own relationship. Good luck.
2007-08-29 04:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Judy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha.... If you feel that way just before your period too... I'm guessing it's hormones. Plus there's the stress of "is this guy going to be a good dad?" you are probably questioning his every move and looking at him really objectively. It can ruin relationships. I did that too. I would sit home and cry when my ex went out with his buddies because I was scared it would happen when the baby was born (which it did... That's why he's my ex.) Hopfully he'll redeem himself and prove himself worthy of everything you have to offer and you'll get over it. Otherwise, remember that if your hormones are surging and you can't help it... Give the guy some slack. Maybe tell him how you feel if he's that type of guy.
2007-08-29 04:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Amber M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal we are humans. I am married and I love my husband and would be lost without him, but as you say there are days not sure if I'd call it hate, but days I can't stand to be near him. I think it's hormones may lol with me but like I said we are all humans and some times men can rub you the wrong way with comments. Also depends how your coping that day what's going on in your life etc.
2007-08-29 04:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to have a strong and passionate hatred towards someone that you love, for without love there can not be hate and vice versa.
on a side note your hatred towards your boyfriend could be an emotional side effect of your pregnancy.
2007-08-29 04:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate are the 2 strongest emotions, and contrary to what most people think hate is not the opposite of love - the opposite of love is indifference. You can love someone and not like them very much, we all know what that feels like. As for your last part of the statement - Hormones, my dear.
2007-08-29 04:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by woodlands127 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love my husband but sometimes I hate him too. Sometimes I don't want to be around him and I'm sure he feels the same way as well. It's all part of being human. Good luck. 2D
2007-08-29 04:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is...there is a very fine line between love and hate...but in the end love conquers all :) Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you
2007-08-29 04:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Shae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love someone and at the same time Hate some of the things they do or say......communications is the answer.....good luck
2007-08-29 04:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible.... but should evaluate if you it's a temporary hate (hormonal, or he is temporarily doing something annoying), or you love him, but can't stand to be with him... loving someone and hating them can be an ackward thing... it can affect who you treat them.... but you could just be on that thin line b/w love and hate with mood swings
2007-08-29 04:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by crazydeb16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋