Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

2007-08-29 22:48:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

say the attraction has been there for a few months, and this is the biggest hint she can give him in showing her definite interest after hiding her feelings for some time. if the girl wants to ask the guy out (he's the shy, quiet sort) BUT at the same time doesnt wanna scare him off is it ok to go like,..

" hey, there's ___ movie coming up. wanna go watch?"

can any of you think of anything better? i'd like to get something postitive out of it yet i wouldnt wanna scare him off. thanks! :)

2007-08-29 22:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 22:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love a girl that was in love with my best friend, we decided to marry but a situation happend lately made me ask her if she had kissed my friend she replied yes, and also they were having touches, i feel so confused, i love her but i don't like her past, what do u think? my friend is now in the US, no more in my country, so that there is no contact now between him and my girlfriend
shall i continue?

2007-08-29 22:40:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Looking for answers from women.

2007-08-29 22:39:55 · 11 answers · asked by alek n 1 in Singles & Dating

Near married for 3 years and 6 months ago a close friend of my wife to me that my wife told her she had an affair last year with her cousin. I confronted my wife and she told me it was all an imagineation story but later I came across with some photo's together with her cousin. I have tried to accept for what she has done but after 6 months I now find it hard to love her anymore. I guess nature takes its course and with all the trust gone I feel marriage has become very empty. Any one had the same circumstances by trying to put it behind but it just doesn't work.

2007-08-29 22:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We made an appointment with my girlfriend and she didn't show up and didn't even consider calling me or smsing. I sent her about 9 smses yesterday and she didn't respond to all of them and I now have decided not to bother myself calling or smsing, just to wait for her to say something. Am I wrong by doing so? And what shall I do as my next move?

2007-08-29 22:35:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my gf likes sex....a lot. And she likes to salsa and waltz a lot. And she likes Bubble gum almost as much, Just a coincidence? A few days ago I was in our room, looking at her new shoes, they were pink. The next day, she was singing a song by Matchbook Romance, But then stopped when she looked out the window. Today she drank whole milk, apple juice, and Coke. When she went shopping she brung home 3 oranges. I know creepy, but it gets deeper. 5+5=10 10 is the day she was born she has 5 count them 5 uncles and 5 aunts, when she dances she counts 4 count them 4 beats, 6+3=9 9 is the month in which we ment 6 is the number of months we've been together -2 1+1=2 2+6= 8 the number of months we've been a couple now all of that isnt a coincidence because 5+5+10+6+3+9+-2+1+1+2+2+6+8=55... the first sequence was 5+5. So I Think my gf might be a alien, should I hit her with a shovel, or call the FFA?

2007-08-29 22:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a Nine years Sad story when i got maried to our same cast girl I mdoing a job and staying in deep suburb of Mumbai with my 72 yr old Father and 65 year old mother I M only son of them. I have 8 years old Boy in Std 3rd Now the story is my wifes nature and our family members including me and my relatives are different, She want to live seperately with me and my son - No Problem, she expact a lot from me but i m middle class normal man and not a super man. She expect that i should always think abour her only not about my parents, sisters, relatives , friends etc. where as she always eager to go with her family. I loves to my old age parents a lot and also belive that it is now my duty to look after them if i get seperated how they will manage their work, who will llok after them But my wife tried all the tectics to start nusance call for police many times try to get suicide, even threaten me for killing hereself and my child, i dont know in my little salary how can i manage.

2007-08-29 22:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by montumanish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 22:28:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Once in a while i find my mind wondering about sex with the same sex. I still desire men, well my man. Is this something I should explore. Like sometimes they just pop into my fantasies. Does this happen to any other straight women?

2007-08-29 22:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you mentally handle being dumped by your girlfriend for someone that you know?, i still love her and miss her badly and it constantly eating me up, i kicked off with the guy she left me fors friend the other night because i didn't like how he was speaking to me, i thought he was taking the piss but he was actually just being friendly, i did apologise for it afterwards when i'd had time to think and i bought him a drink.

How can i stop it eating away at me?? its been six months+ of no contact, all i hear about off people is how shes now going on holiday with him and stuff like that, it absolute mental torture i think about it every minute of everyday, i dont think that i can take it much more.

I was thinking that forgiveness might be the answer but to forgive them for what they both did and how cruel they were to me is really bordering on impossible, i just want to kill him for it.

I've been going out, i've reconnected with old friends and i do loads of exersise.

2007-08-29 22:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it better to know the truth, even though it may hurt you or to have someone lie to you, and find out the truth later? Personally, I would prefer to know the truth even though it may hurt rather than have the betrayal of someone lie and find out the truth anyway!!! Its like being hurt twice over for the same thing. Any opinions out there???

2007-08-29 22:21:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

by failing in love a lovers can remain as friends
is it possible to continue like that
daily meetings,chatting, all cores etc can they rescue

2007-08-29 22:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by rAvAn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel in love with my best friend about a year ago, then we got into a lot of fights, cuse shes a year younger and i went off to college, and about a week ago, she writes me this message about how she was just scared of me leaving her. after i read it, a lot of feelings came back, what should i do? everytime im around her now, im nervous

2007-08-29 22:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by SOME GUY5 1 in Singles & Dating

A certain lady who is a friend to both of us ,said l pregnanted her and this news l gone out to every body but the fact is that am not responsble for the pregnancy not for intimate relationship.but just a friend to both of us and we propose her to be the best lady during our coming wedding.

2007-08-29 22:18:03 · 4 answers · asked by james k 1 in Friends

I fell in love with a co-worker, we're bartenders, he's from LA, he's been in FL for 4 months, has a partner back at home for 2 yrs, we became wednesday night drinking buddies for about a month now, we leave work and we go chill somewhere else, but I promised myself tonight was the last night if nothing happened between us, 'cause i'm starting to have feelings for him, two days ago i asked him if he wanted to go out on a day that we were both off, he said yes, but still no plans... I CAN"T do it anymore... to some people he says he has a partner, to some, he says he doesn't... what the @#$%, it hurts so fu#^&*( bad... please tell me I should move on...

2007-08-29 22:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by Fabricio A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a tricky situation.I have a family member who is separated from her husband..They have a 10 year-old boy who neither of them want.They don't physically abuse the child but mentally they do..I have just found out that last weekend, the father and some other people went out motor bike riding with the boy.The father and other adults were all drunk.There was an accident where one of the adults rode his bike straight into the child's bike.The adult was taken to hospital a couple of hours later, but he lied about how the accident happened, so the police didn't investigate..One of my family members is the Godmother to the little boy and i was wondering if there is something that she can do.I was told that a godparent has the right to take the child if they think it is in the child's best interest..Is this true? Or is there something else that can be done?

2007-08-29 22:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Family

The one who gives the biggest Lie, gets my best answer!!! lol lol

2007-08-29 22:13:18 · 19 answers · asked by Alice in Wonderbra 7 in Family

I have been dating this same guy for 2 and a half years, in the beginning I could believe that if he said it he would do it. Now he tells me things and never deliever. I want to break it off but when I do he trys to make me feel bad. But what should I do , One thing is marriage, for a while now he has told me everyday it is gonna happin , I cant bank on that , we never made a date , no rings are not place on hold so how do I know , just by what he says? Ladies ever had this type guy how did you cope? Maybe he is imature? Or possibly wasting my time so I wont go else where? What should I do? Men reply also, I would like to know what's up with this dude!!!

2007-08-29 22:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by Gingersweet 1 in Singles & Dating

i just turned 21 and am starting to relize that i have to be careful now that i am older and have to be careful of ages... i dont want to be on Date Line NBC with Chris Hansen... but the other day i was at my friends work and this girl that he works with, her and i flirt all the time and have alot in common, and the other day she was talking about starting school again and what not and i found out she is just going into her senior year of HS, she is 17 almost 18. would it be wrong of me to keep flirting with her, and even more dating her???

2007-08-29 22:07:56 · 23 answers · asked by Jesse N 2 in Singles & Dating

We used to have sex 5-6 times a night, now it's maybe 2 3 tops. I just don't have the drive to do it with her like a did. Is there anything I can do to motivate me more? I don't really want another vagina, it's just you can only eat so many blue starbursts before you go 'dammit, I want a red one!' What can I do?

2007-08-29 22:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and split with my ex 10 months ago and have since then become one of her closest friends! I dont know what to do! She just split with my best mate after having dumped me for him, so shes single. I have no idea what to do about this, i feel that im in love with her but will never get anywhere because i know that she doesnt feel the same way at all...and that hurts soo bad! Any advice please?!

2007-08-29 22:06:19 · 15 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 16 and split with my ex 10 months ago and have since then become one of her closest friends! I dont know what to do! She just split with my best mate after having dumped me for him, so shes single. I have no idea what to do about this, i feel that im in love with her but will never get anywhere because i know that she doesnt feel the same way at all...and that hurts soo bad! Any advice please?!

2007-08-29 22:05:53 · 7 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys - Do you trim or shave your testicles?

Girls - What do you prefer?

2007-08-29 22:05:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have been crushing for a year and we just finally got together liike 2 weeks ago his birthday is in like a week i dont have much money what should i get him

2007-08-29 22:03:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u see... my "guy friend" told me this: "sometimes life breaks us, sometimes life gets us but we'll never know what lies ahead." then after that when we were chatting he said that he was the robot assigned to protect me... i had a feeling he liked me BUT... after 1 month he got mad at me and locked my friends in his closet for getting mad at me but i did not do anything bad to him only thing i did was ignore him because i was shy to talk to him. WHAT DOESW THIS MEAN?

2007-08-29 21:56:28 · 4 answers · asked by shy. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you guys do if you would fall in love with the girl your younger brother likes,would you try to steal her from him or just forget about her,please answer,its very important

2007-08-29 21:54:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He always stares at me..He talks to his friends about me..but he stops talking me.he only stares at me...iam 16 and he is 17-18..how can i do something to have the past communication? I don't want to show you that I am crazy about him..i must do a really clever moviement..what he will think about me,maybe?

2007-08-29 21:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by irma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he didnt trust anyone like me, no one was good to him like me and if he ever was with anyone else, he would be lying in bed thinking, gosh, he could have had me and regret it all his life, yet he met this women, lusted for her, and married her. We are both christians so I will not and I know he will not contact me either. But I am so heart broken and still love him, I know we were meant to be together and I know he loves me. I went to counseling, at church and private, both told me there is no way she will ever have the place in his heart he had with me, we also have known each other for about 20 yrs and 3 times been brought together. They said he has to be very sad inside too, he called me up to the day befor he married and told me his missed me and loved me. is there still hope? I really want a guys prospective too. we go to the same church and I have avoided running into him for 5 mts.this is too hard.

2007-08-29 21:50:11 · 10 answers · asked by none n 1 in Singles & Dating