Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

meaning that no matter how hard they try to please others they still get flack regardless because they are so good,and even in instances where they are humble.Is that why many turn to drugs and alcohol.

2007-08-29 14:33:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl ive been hanging with for 4 years has big boobs (biggest ive seen but isnt fat) and wants a reduction. I tried telling her dont do it because theyre...nice...and she said she doesnt understand why men like boobs and then said 'well you'll never see em anyways why does it matter?' (i did see them when she was wasted one time >< she doesnt remember XD) .

Whats wth this?

2007-08-29 14:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 14:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

good (who are into relationships) girls from the ages of 17-23 all seemed to have boyfriends..the ones that don't seemed to have already have made a decision not to have a relationship (its like this is who i am this is my life )..ur opinions please

2007-08-29 14:26:30 · 10 answers · asked by Lee S 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in the army and he is stationed in south korea, i think he is cheating on me, by things he says and he acts different when i start to talk about certain things. How can I find out if he's cheating on me?

2007-08-29 14:25:37 · 20 answers · asked by rebel_sweetheart2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am breaking up with my girlfriend of seven months this Friday and this friend I was starting to date near the end of the relationship invited me to a party a friend of hers is having. I found out yesterday after she asked me point blank if I was moving to my own place for sure on Friday...maybe I am looking too much into this...but if she told me yesterday I was invited way back when party was thought about why wait and make sure I am moving before telling me I am invited? another guy confused by the workings of the female mind. Thanks

2007-08-29 14:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by Loves Los Angeles 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and his birthday is next month. Any gift ideas? He'll be turning 21, but he doesn't drink.

2007-08-29 14:17:09 · 2 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a b/f for the past 2 two months. I dont think that he would cheat on me physically but when he looks at other women and i dont mean at there face, it bothers me and I feel betrayed He said he likes to look at women and he knows that it does bother me, but I dont want to make an issue over it, but it really does bother me. When i was younger, someone tried to fondle me and it really has made me not trust men,as this man was a relative of mine.

2007-08-29 14:16:24 · 18 answers · asked by L M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents bought me a car, my computer, my video games, my furniture, hopefully a new computer. I barely buy anything out of my own pocket. Everyone else i know have jobs, and buy their t.vs, or cars. Sometimes i feel like im spoiled. I'm 16 btw. and no job.

2007-08-29 14:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by Donovan G 5 in Family

i was talking to my ex and im sick of his mixed signals so i finally called him out on it. my ex has had a few relationships since ours, one of them very serious. they are no longer together and it is quite evident he hates her (she cheated on him several times)...so anywho, i called him out and told him to tell me exactly how he felt about me...he said "my thoughts are that your taken, so i cant do anything." anyone ive told this too has interpreted it as he still loves me but is afraid to admit it flat out. i think pretty much the same thing, but im curious about what the general public thinks...?

2007-08-29 14:15:13 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Singles & Dating

do men freak out about it....or think that the girls thinking about marriage cuz im not but i just made a joke saying my masterplan is to marry him for his money (we r both broke students)

2007-08-29 14:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

I was raped when I was in 7th grade. I'm in 10th now. Anyways people know about it,well like my parents,&a few teachers. Anyways I was just so scared when I came out about it & I don't know I felt like it as somehow my fault. Anyways my cousins were over and they wanted me to go over a friends house so I did, and there was these older guys over there & yeah I was hanging out with this guy name Justin I mean I never met him before, anyways I was sitting on the couch with his &he had his arm around me, they were like drunk, and I kept pushing his arm off but he kept doing it, and then he like started kissing all on my face and i kept telling him to stop but he wouldn't, & I don't know I have this fear of guys so I froze, and didn't get up & then he placed his hands in my pants and touched me. Idk still irrated & stuff in that area maybe its mental Idk. But I need to tell but I can't tell my parents, I just can't, there is this 1 teacher, but I don't want to go through this again! Help?

2007-08-29 14:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a boyfiend that ive been seing just over a month, he's my ex's close mate, which sounds really bad, but he's risking his friendship to be with me, and his mate (my ex) doesnt know about us yet.
at first he seemed really keen 2 see me all the time, but now he doesnt seem as keen and doesnt contact me often. and says hes busy. But hes going to uni in a couple of weeks and hes stressed about it so im wondering if that may be it. however wen he does make the effort to see me, hes lovely and tells me he loves me etc.
ive asked him if he def wants to be with me, and he says yes but im unsure. lads are so confusing.

2007-08-29 14:13:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-29 14:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Jess* 2 in Weddings

well, i've been engaged for over a year now, and just a few weeks before the wedding (last week) I found out that my now ex-fiance has been cheating on me for several months. When I confronted him, he became angry, called the wedding off, and has left me to be with her.

I left the state to go home with my mom. I am 5 months pregnant and have been having a difficult pregnancy. The cheating began when I was constantly being hospitalized. And while I Was in the hospital a few weeks ago, he used that opportunity to use our honeymoon money to take this other woman to Mexico.

He has called and claims he wants to be involved in the pregnancy, childbirth classes, and birth of the baby. I don't know whether to believe him or not because he seems to have lied about everything. Should I keep him involved?I 'm about to start childbirth classes and don't know if he should be allowed to come. Moreover, I now live out of state and don't know if him commuting for the classes makes much sense.

2007-08-29 14:08:25 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OMG! Check this out if you do she looks really good!

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2007-08-29 14:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love sports, to play and watch, but there is only so much I can take. He will watch re-runs and sports center in the morning before work and the minute he gets home is highlights, Pardon the Interuption, and Around the Horn until a game comes on and then throughout the whole game he's flipping between "classic" football games, golf and baseball until bed time, and even then he's falling asleep to sports. I love sports, but COME ON! I've told him several times but he shrugs it off. What more can I go besides complain or just sit there and watch it (which I feel like I've done PLENTY of this summer) Any ideas?????

2007-08-29 14:06:59 · 2 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

for this girl im friends with to be able to switch teacher to get into my class what can she tell the counsler

2007-08-29 14:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy but he can be really mean sometimes one day he can be nice and the next he can be mean i told him i like him on aim all he said was WOW! but that was a while ago and the other day he triped me and i looked back at him and he smiled at me wat does that mean guys ihave tryed to get over him but i cant does he like me i mean he can be so nice like one time we went atv riding and he helped me with my helmet and i said thx and i was blushing and then he can be so mean he calls me a retard some times wat going on guys

2007-08-29 14:04:43 · 3 answers · asked by just a girl..... 1 in Singles & Dating

I looooove my man; BUT he is lazy. Need i say more? He does work; but he does video games even more. I have to go through extremes to get him to get up and do something constructive. Any advice??

2007-08-29 14:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a sophomore and theres this really cute french guy but hes a freshman and hes like a year and a half younger than me
obviously i have NO classes with him but since my school is small thats no problem.
during lunch when i come in a room he looks at me and kind of passes by my class a couple of times and look at me from the corner of his eye. then the other day his friend walked into the lunch room, kind of looked around and then went into the other room and smiled and said something.
and he thinks im pretty and i think he likes me or something like that
he doesnt really look like a freshman and hes way taller than me
first of all do any of you guys think he might like me?
and if he does and asks me out, should i go for it?

2007-08-29 14:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by :D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 14:02:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a man for several months, however he lives out of state. We are both in the middle of obtaining our divorces and he has told me he wants to be married.
We have very strong emotional ties to each other ... and in contrast to what you may believe ... it is NOT all about the sex. We talk for hours ... about our hopes, dreams, trials, challenges. We accept each others opinions with open hearts.

So what do you think ... move in and test the waters or take the plunge and dive into marriage?

2007-08-29 13:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by girlielikesfun 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She always laughs at EVERYTHING! She & I always argue because of the pathetic things that she laughs at. Someone could have a seizure & she'll think that's funny.

2007-08-29 13:57:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well,i was never lucky in love,& like i said,i've been heartbroken my whole life :s no guy i ever liked has liked me back,i've given up on love...but if i ever try to move on it doesnt work...i cant do it..my heart,knows the truth..i cant do it..
help me...

2007-08-29 13:53:02 · 5 answers · asked by cloud16 4 in Singles & Dating

whats the name of the song you walk down AFTER the wedding is over?? not the first one (here comes the bride)when you leave .

2007-08-29 13:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by My3kin 3 in Weddings

My husband has been in the Army for 5yrs and I want to join. I was wondering how stressful it is on a marriage and if it is worth it. Please only those who are married with both husband and wife in military. (Different branches is fine for an answer.)

2007-08-29 13:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 13:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend Amber's boyfriend has a band and they are looking for a new female singer since the other girl quit. They were going to hold audtions but I said I was interested and he decided to just put me in it. Over the last couple of days, he has been teaching me the songs and complimenting me by telling me how great I am. Now, Amber's mad at me! And she says I'm after her boyfriend but I'm not and the truth is I think he's kind of ugly. I'm so hurt by this, I have other friends but she is my only real friend if you know what I mean. What should I do?

2007-08-29 13:45:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i been dating my boyfriend for a little more than a year and he has so many problems. He takes drug, he is in the street every day. i hate that about him, but i still cant let him go. I'm not sure why though. i could have a smart, kind man but instead i have a thug. he respects me a lot. always giving me compliments, texting me just to say I love u. he knows that i could do better but why dont I?

2007-08-29 13:44:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating