well,i was never lucky in love,& like i said,i've been heartbroken my whole life :s no guy i ever liked has liked me back,i've given up on love...but if i ever try to move on it doesnt work...i cant do it..my heart,knows the truth..i cant do it..
help me...
2007-08-29 13:53:02 · 5 answers · asked by cloud16 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& now im at a point where i cant trust or believe any guy....its that bad..
2007-08-29 13:53:54 · update #1
Am sorry hun. All i can say is that u dont give up! U however dont say how old u are. As a guy I suggest u work on your looks - look after yourself - a new hairdo, clothes and stuff.
The other tip is that if/when u ve got all that dont simply lock yourself in your room and think that some one will notice u! U should go out and shine and definitely some one will notice u. Also, to day's world is changing and continues to change. Today's girls comfortably initiate conversations with boys, ask them out and stuff so if u c a boy u like, go talk to him, ask him to b friends with u and c how it goes, and if u c that he is "bf material" then u would no how to act.
Dont just sit and wish, u ve to do sth.
Finally, there are 2 books that I have just finished reading and was wondering if u cld get them. So inspiring and worth reading. 1. The secret 2. Conversation with God
If u feel like talking to me, u can email on tallnslenda@yahoo.co.uk
Gd luck
2007-08-29 15:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Prince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn first and foremost the realest and most important love you can ever find on this earth is the love you feel for yourself. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and learn to be stronger. Learn to love who you are and not rely on the love of a man to make you feel complete or to heal your heart cause thats just a mistake. No man can love someone who does not love themselves or respect themselves and trusting and believing anyone cause you feel like you need to, is not smart. People earn trust, its not just a given thing. You need to go out and get a new hairdo, buy some new clothes, get your nails done and hang out with the girls, do something to make you feel better about yourself and realise all the great things you can offer and dont settle for whatever comes your way, when you confedient it shows, i dont know how many times i gotta emphasize that on here. If you feel good about yourself, people notice it and its attractive
2007-08-29 21:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how to help you. My brother is the same way...he's 34 years old, got his heart broken by his older fiancee when he was 18 and has felt worthless ever since. He's a hopeless alcoholic and can't keep a job. All he can do is think about her and the fact he's not the one who got her. Take a lesson from him, don't let it get you down. Be yourself, indulge in the things you enjoy and make a good life for you. And you just never know, love could surprise you anywhere! Good luck and don't let 'em get you down.
2007-08-29 20:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to a place called the world.While I don't know your age,I sense your pain and despair and believe that you are in agony.For that , my heart aches for you.However, please don't give up on love or guys just yet. There are 6 billion people in the world and half of them are men. If you account for married men, those in jail,those who are homosexual and/or too young for romance,you still have almost 2 billion single men.I seriously doubt you have dated that many men in your life.Hence ,while you may have grounds to be bitter and cynical, don't withdraw from life and living.Who loses in such a scenario?. Your best revenge is to find a good man(believe me there are plenty of them) and live a long happy life Remember, the story of the princess and the frog that was actually a prince..Please let us know how you are doing for you are important and we do care.
2007-08-29 21:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not sure you are worth being loved. Let me assure you that you ARE!! Try doing some things to build up your self esteem. Join some group activities. Volunteer somewhere...like a hospital, nursing home, library, soup kitchen....places you can help people and meet people. You will see that people like you and who knows what will happen. Keep yourself busy instead of thinking how bad things have been for you. Think positive and you will look happier which attracts more people. Try praying to God who can fix everything for you and give you wisdom on what to do next.
2007-08-29 21:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by bethy4jesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋